Would you suck a bate buddy’s cock?
Okay guys, it’s time to ask the difficult question.
We just had an experience submitted to us from a reader about the prospect of sucking cock with one of his bate buddies and I thought it was about time we talked about this like adults. So, let’s get to grips with the issue at hand 🙂
I think it’s fair to say that 99% of all the guys who visit this blog are avid wankers. We love jerking off and most of us probably shoot at least one load a day. Plenty of us are into bating with other guys too, we like watching guys enjoying their own cock, we like showing off our stroking in the company of other guys, we enjoy reaching over and grabbing that dick to rub a buddy off and get some friendly stroking in return. I don’t think there’s a guy here who would turn down the chance to frot cocks with another dude and shoot some loads off together after a long session of dick play.
But there are some among us who like to suck cock too. Are you one of them?
Personally, I like a little sucking now and then. I like seeing it on video between guys more than I enjoy doing it, and when I have done it with a bate buddy it’s always a mutual thing, but I tend to see it as an extension of the mutual play between some guys.
If a wank mate is willing to suck my cock for me, it’s only right that I return the favor. Of course, there are occasional bate buddy meets where the dude is really eager to blow me and doesn’t want anything in return, and I’m totally okay with that, but they are rare and I always prefer to be bating with guys I know.
So, let me know in the comments what you think about sucking dick. Are you the kind of bater who is strictly about the stroke, or would you let a bate bud blow you? Would you return the favor? Are you maybe a little curious about what it would be like to suck a cock?
Take the poll and tell us more in the comments.
I’d love too, I have never wanked with a male mate, and I’d fucking love to touch a mates cock, and then if he was comfortable with it give it a few licks then suck it. Wanna experience new things, only live once right 😉
That’s right. People worry too much about what something means or what imaginary people might think of them. If you want to experience something with another consenting adult it’s nobody’s business but your own and there’s no reason to be ashamed, embarrassed or even think too much about it. Like that old adage says: “I’d rather die regretting some of the things I did to, than die regretting all the things I DIDN’T”.
Yep me too . I’ve never tried even wanking with a buddy . But I’m totally looking forward to mutual wanking and more .
That’s wassup bro??
Exactly, you only get this lifetime. Why not try different things and know for sure if you enjoy them or not
Personally, I don’t really enjoy sucking cock – it doesn’t do anything for me. I’d rather not if I don’t have to. But….. will reciprocate if required. If someone just wants to suck my cock I’m all for that. OJ (and everyone) try using Grindr – just be completely honest what you’re looking for – say you’re straight or bi and only after a wank buddy if that’s what you want. It has worked for me. Had many a wank and non-commital blow job thanks to Grindr. There are plenty of dudes out there (some with girlfriends and wives) that just want to wank or suck another cock.
A lot of curious/straight guys seem to overlook Grindr. It is absolutely true that there are plenty of men out there who would be more than happy to just meet up for some wanking, frotting and maybe sucking. That’s one of the things a lot of guys don’t get about men who are into dick, a lot of the time they don’t NEED anything in return because they just love enjoying a good dick. Of course, there are those guys who you meet on there who say they’re down for just frotting cocks or blowing you, and then they want more, but in my experience they’re rare if you make it clear what you’re into from the start.
Thanks for your comment. Maybe we’ll write a post about using Grindr to find bate buddies in the future?
I like watching it but if there’s a cock in front of me needing to be sucked I can’t do it. One of my mates in college sucked me off and it was great but I couldn’t suck him. Just can’t bring myself to do it. Won’t turn down a good cock gobbling from another lad though.
And it’s true what they say about guys being better at it than girls. I think the same thing about wanking too. My girlfriend can’t wank me off like my mates can.
I think a lot of guys are like that. We tend to steer away from talking about cock sucking too much because we are supposed to be “all about the bate”, but guys request cock sucking scenes and stories all the time on the blog and we gotta keep our horny readers happy! lol
Fantastic blog! I had some same sex experiences when I was younger; now after 35(ish) years living a heterosexual life I’ve recently started getting ‘hands on’ with bate buds – and, absolutely, I’m down for sucking cock and getting sucked. It’s amazing and I absolutely embrace my new-found bisexuality (yes, I still like women), 100%. Nothing like watching straight porn together and feeling your lust boil over till you’re servicing each other! I credit straight porn with getting me back into cock, wholesale – there comes a point where your curiosity just can’t be contained and I just thought “Fuck it – I wanna piece of that”. So I did and have never looked back. I’ve had an all-male threesome and even let a dude jizz in my mouth once (something I’m eager to try again!). As someone said further up the comments, you get one life to live – so spend it doing what you like and fuck everyone else. Cheers 🙂
It is always feels surprising to me how much cock there is in straight porn – yet the thought of being around or actually seeing another cock is supposedly “gay”. These straight fellas are watching cock and cocks shoot loads all the time…..just need to get over themselves (and restrictive societal values) and just realise its all in good fun and doesn’t actually have to mean anything other than that.
Never sucked a cock but thought about it a lot. One of my bate bros said he might be interested in trying sucking one day but we haven’t yet. My cock is 8 inches and i think that puts him off. I leak a lot of pre when we’re bating too and i don’t think he likes the idea of tasting that. Maybe one day i’ll just offer to suck him and see what its like.
I agree with Bate 99. I much prefer mutual bating with a buddy but have often fantasized about getting my cock sucked. I recently met a guy who loves both, slow sensual bating and sucking which is fantastic. While doing it to me, he leaks copious precum which is a bit off-putting for me. I don’t really enjoy the taste. Fortunately he’s not into wanting reciprocal action, so mostly I wank him to orgasm which is great.
I also agree guys give the best blowjobs. I’m married so I know!
As long as he was very clean, I think I would if the situation felt comfortable enough. I know it can be exciting to watch, but I wish it wasn’t so often packaged as a dominance thing in those videos, or even worse —-always a prelude to anal which is not appealing at all.
Unfortunately it is hard to find a bate buddy these days, especially after the demise of Craigslist thanks to stupid new regulations. And as someone in a relationship, I’m just not comfortable downloading some app like Grinder. Besides, it is the sort of activity that’s nice once in a while—so don’t need strangers messaging all the time on some app.
I agree completely Steven, if that scenario ever presents itself and I was comfortable with it, yes I’d love to.
This is I think what prevents lots of guys from trying it , the whole aggression/dominance thing which is so alienating and repulsive.
Oral is supposed to be a sensual and tasteful experience but lots of guys don’t get that unfortunately.
I thought about what it would be like but not that interested in it tbh. My cock just loves others cocks against it and being wanked by an experienced lad. I can shoot a load off within a couple of minutes of wanking with a guy and rubbing dicks but the one time I got head from a guy it wasn’t working for me and I needed to wank him off and rub tips to get our meat pumping cream. Maybe I’ll give sucking a try one day but for now it’s all about the wanking.
I, myself, am an avid bater but to totally tell you the truth; there’s nothing I love better than sucking cock! For me there’s nothing better than sucking my buddy’s cock, feeling him lose control and cumming down my cocksucking throat! I personally love the taste of cum, can’t get enough of it! Personally, I’d love to find a bate buddy that I could suck off on a regular basis, anyone interested?
My intro to other guy’s cocks was by blowing the neighborhood bully. It progressed to handjobs between buds before, and after, we starting dating girls. Now, as an adult, I still buddybate, but when it’s time to cum I try to get the head of his cock in my mouth to feel him shoot and to prolong his pleasure. But, if I’m honest, I’d rather have a beautiful cock emptying in my mouth than in my hand
Me and my buddy find it hard to resist and always enjoy sucking whenever we get our cocks out together. The first time he suggested it and I was initially unsure but once I’d got his cock in my mouth I soon lost all my inhibitions. If felt so right and made our friendship seem so much closer. I say don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. Keep an open mind and go for it. You might just like it. It tastes great!
Wow with 331 out 390 saying they approve in one way or another it’s fantastic to see so many guys open to it. I’ve read lot’s of comments from guys who say friendships grew deeper when cock play became part of it. I think I would love it and can’t wait to taste it .
I love sucking cock. Also will swallow if i know my buds history. Mmmm
I love sucking cock. Also will swallow if i know my buds history. Mmmm
Hell yea bro we can definitely go down on each other n a hot 69 position mostly all of my bate bros I’ve sucked them off and they happily returned the favor and I’m always lookin 4 others
I have been a bater with buddies for as long as I have known how to bate! started early and have never stopped…many of my favorite memories with friends was over bating! I would say about 1/3 of the time it has lead to sucking. usually me sucking them off, a service I am happy to provide, but I don’t turn down a good sucking either! I still vividly remember the first cock i serviced and the first load I swallowed (not the same person) and relive those fantasies (and many others) when I jack off solo.
Currently, I live in a town with a couple military bases and when CL was still online with personals, would often be able to get young military guys to come over to watch porn, jack off, try out a fleshlight, etc. They were all eager to have a private place to watch porn and get off with a buddy. A pretty significant number of those guys are open to getting sucked too, but 99% would never admit to interest in sucking.
I’m with you on this one and the numbers are about the same.
I love sucking my batebuddy and feeling his hot cock pump sperm down my throat. I savor the sweet and salty taste as his goo slides a crossed my tongue.
I love it.
I save a little to smear on my face, but yeah, love sucking cock and getting sucked is nice too.
Totally love cock sucking and being sucked. Love the taste, feel, smell, sight of cum.
I went to a masturbation club (Motor City Jacks) meeting once and had a great time. Met up with one guy outside of the event at a later date and received some mind blowing oral. I looked for guys that were into sucking on craigs list personals after that until that shut down. Squirt.org is an alternative site to reliable old CL personals that is excellent for finding nearby guys that are into bating, giving and/or recieving massage, handjobs and blowjobs. I have had many great conversations with others on there about these types of activities and have met up a few times too. Jboxer1980 is my username there. Feel free to contact me there.
I’m in the minority here. I’m all about the bate and have almost no interest in sucking cock. I tried it once coz you gotta at least try it and see what it’s like but it isn’t for me.
Kudos to you for being open minded enough to give it a try. It’s not for everyone. Some people enjoy giving oral and some enjoy recieving. Some love both. Some don’t care what gender the other person is and some have a preference. I believe that’s all ok and up to the individual to decide what they like and want to do. It’s difficult to decide if you like something if you haven’t tried it.
I would really love to give a blow job. I haven’t had any bate buds irl for a long time and passed up the opportunity as a teen. Oral is extremely pleasurable and I look forward to being able to feel a cock pulsate in my mouth and taste that delicious cum.
Yeah, I’m up for noshing on a good knob and for getting my cock sucked. Love having my bollocks licked and sucked. Used to have some cock fun with a mate from work. He had a really thick cock with a lovely, swollen helmet. I couldn’t resist getting my gob round it once his foreskin slid back and his bellend was revealed in all its shiny, red glory! He had a fantastic knob and great tasting spunk!
Ive never sucked a cock, by stroke to the fantasy all the time…my girlfriend wants us to suck a cock together and we always use that fantasy
my 1st blow job was from my bate buddy. Very intense orgasm and a real turn on so yes, I would love to have oral sex with my bate biddies
A lot of my bate hookups turn into oral which is fine I just go with the flow if you want to suck my cock I will definitely return the favor. If you want me to just suck you and use my mouth like a fleshlight please do.