Submitted by Yanis in London
I bought BuddyBate badges in September and I’ve been looking around for someone else wearing one. I run deliveries for a restaurant in the city so I see a lot of guys every day so I thought my chances of running into another wanker were pretty high. I’ve had some good wanks with random lads before and I know a few cruisy places where guys can get some friendly wanks going but I was really looking forward to finding a regular buddy to kick back with and share some strokes.
On Friday I saw a guy with a sticker for the first time!
I won’t say the name of the company but we deliver lunches to their offices a couple of times a week and on Friday he was one of the first back from his Christmas break.
I went up to his office and we had some small talk and then when I put his lunch on his desk I saw a sticker next to his keyboard. I didn’t say anything about it. It took me a few moments to realize that’s what it was. I only bought badges but I knew the stickers were the same design but I’d never seen one so I kind of threw me a bit.
To be honest I’m pretty surprised he’s a bator. I’m open about being bisexual so all my mates know (and it’s led to some good times lol) but this guy has a photo of who I assume is his wife on his desk. He’s really attractive too and I know he works out at Third Space in Tower Bridge. We talked about that before and he said he’d get me in as a guest some time if I wanted.
When I left the office I was really pissed off with myself for not saying anything about it. We probably could have had a really good wank right then but I was so surprised I didn’t know what to say.
He usually gets lunch from us a couple of times a month so I hope he’ll order again next week and I can wear a badge when I deliver it. Either way I’m going to mention it when I next see him.
Thanks for starting the project. I keep checking the map for London and seeing the numbers going up and I’m always looking for guys showing one. I thought I would find a guy at the club or something first but this was even better.
Keep the Bator hunt going!
Thanks for sharing your experience, Yanis!
This is awesome! It’s exactly how we imagined this would work when we started the project and it’s amazing to hear of the experiences our little logo is giving our readers. If you haven’t read about another London guy finding a bator on the Tube you should read that too 🙂
Your experience also highlights something else we try to say a lot… it’s far more common for men to be interested in wanking with other men than a lot of people think and it’s not limited to a certain “type” of guy either.
Believe me, over the years I’ve rubbed dicks with all kinds of guys, from students to cab drivers, bankers to teachers, bodybuilders to mechanics. All guys love wanking, and a lot of them are at least a little curious about sharing that hobby with other guys. Sometimes it’s just side-by-side while you watch porn and talk, other times it’s full-on mutual hand jobs and frotting. Different guys from all kinds of backgrounds are into various levels of “bromosexual” activities and you should never judge a book by its cover.
I’m sure if you show off your BuddyBate button the next time you deliver his lunch he’ll be more interested in spending that time shooting a load with you.
Then again, I guess he probably reads the blog anyway so there’s a good chance he’ll see this and know who you are.
I hope you’ll let us know how it goes, we would love to read about the fun you guys have together.
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