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Hi fellow wankers! I had my first hands-on wank with a guy this week and it was because of the BuddyBate stickers, but not the way intended.

I’m 27 and have a great girlfriend but I had a few wanks with a mate years ago and I’ve thought about it a lot. We never wanked each other but since I started reading BuddyBate I wanted to try it and see what it’s like. I just like the idea of having that kind of mate you can swap hand jobs with. It sounded like a good time to me. I like the look of a hard dick and even though I’m not into sucking or anything else just wanking another one would be pretty horny.

I think we were only in there for a few minutes but by the time we were both openly showing each other our stiff ones I was ready to feel it and I reached out and touched another cock for the first time.

I got my BuddyBate pack last week and although I was really fucking nervous about it I put a sticker on my laptop and another on my phone. I work in a communal office for a tech company so a lot of guys walk through and I sometimes do some work at Starbucks on Saturdays too, I just wanted to maximize the chances of another guy seeing it. I wasn’t sure what I would do if someone did but it was exciting to think I was part of this club and might be kind of surprised by an offer, not have time to think about it too much and just have a good wank with another guy.

This week we had some guys coming in to put some cables in the ceiling and when I was on a break one of the younger lads moved my laptop along the desk so he could climb up. When I came back he apologized for moving it and I said it was fine and then he started talking about vinyl skins you can get and how his Mac has a really cool metallic design. I thought it was weird to start with and then I thought he must have been trying to tell me he’d seen the sticker on mine and knew what it was.

Five minutes later he asked where the toilets were.

I think it’s pretty obvious by this point that he saw the sticker and he knew what it was. I second guessed it a bit because he didn’t look like the kind of guy I would expect to be down for mutual wanking but then I realized that I probably don’t either. In fact I don’t know what a fellow bator would be expected to look like.

Everything was going as I thought it would when someone recognized it. I said I needed to go for a piss anyway and led him to the toilets down the hall (the other ones by the empty offices that most guys don’t use). That would have been weird at any other time but because we were both into it…

My cock was so fucking hard. We went into the toilets, still talking about work and computers and coding and all the bollocks I do and then we were both at the urinals. I was breaking all the etiquette rules. We’d gone to the toilets together, which is not done. I took the urinal right next to him, which again just isn’t done. Then we were talking still, again, not something you’re supposed to do!

My dick was stiff as fuck. I had a little piss and got a good look at his dick spraying into the urinal (he really did need to piss), he checked out my cock and when he saw how hard I was his dick started to get stiff too. I guessed he was nervous about it and he wasn’t solid like I was when we first got them out.

We just compared cocks while we were talking and we kind of just gravitated into talking about porn and I made something up about me and a mate sharing a wank. I think we were only in there for a few minutes but by the time we were both openly showing each other our stiff ones I was ready to feel it and I reached out and touched another cock for the first time. He didn’t do anything for a few seconds and just let me wank him. I played with his tip and smeared his precum around it and then he reached out and grabbed my cock too. It felt fucking great to have another cock in my hand and mine in his.

We only wanked for another few minutes before we were both close and we watched each other pumping it into the urinals. We both unloaded a lot of cum and it was fucking great feeling his dick bulging and pumping while mine did the same. We cleaned up, still talking, and went back to the office and he got back to work with his mates. I managed to get a minute with him at the coffee machine and mentioned that I thought it was funny I only got the stickers this week and already found a mate to wank with. I didn’t think it would be that quick in London, there would probably need to be thousands of guys with them for it to be that easy.

He asked “what stickers?”

I said the sticker on my laptop, that he’d moved it and saw the sticker, then he told me about the skin he’s got on his laptop which was his way of saying…

It turned out he HADN’T moved my laptop, my boss had after they’d asked, he just apologized for inconveniencing me. When he was talking about the skin on his laptop it was because the guy who sits next to me has an anime skin on his. The guy thought that was mine and was just making polite conversation. I did wonder why he was talking about anime so much, I haven’t got a clue about it.

All of this happened because I totally misread the situation. I nervously laughed out loud. I suddenly realized how weird he must have thought I was following him into the toilets like that and showing him my stiff dick. I apologized and told him I’d got the wrong idea and just assumed he knew what the sticker was.

In the end, even though it was fucking mortifying for about five minutes once I knew I’d fucked up (he could have freaked out and got me fired) he was interested in it and I gave him one of my spare stickers I keep in my wallet. We swapped numbers and I told him about BuddyBate. He told me he was just curious and likes a good wank and the opportunity was there so he went with it.

He doesn’t know if he’s gonna be interested in meeting other lads for wanks but he says it was cool to wank each other so we might meet up again and watch porn. He told me he likes long wanks but when I said I was into edging he didn’t know what that was. I’m hoping he’ll be curious enough about that to arrange another session.

The moral of this story should be that you should be careful and really think about things before you make assumptions, don’t get carried away. But the real moral of the story, at least for me, is that most of this is about taking risks and being confident. If you get hard at the urinals and another dude sees it, what’s gonna happen? The worst that’s likely to happen is the stranger will think you’re weird, the best that will happen is they’ll get hard too and you might share a good wank. That’s a pretty good set of circumstances.

My first proper wank with another guy happened because of these BuddyBate stickers but not in the way intended, and I’m cool with that. Maybe they’re magic, or maybe they just gave me the confidence I needed to push myself and get it done?


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Keith

Keith is a 30 year old professional in the tech sector living and working in London, England. He had experiences wanking with friends when he was younger but began to explore mutual masturbation with other men in 2019. He found his first bate buddy thanks to the BuddyBate stickers and has been sharing his experiences with the community. When Keith isn't working or bating with friends he's working out, camping, going to music events and learning psychology as a hobby.

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Brad
Brad
5 years ago

This story right here is why I definitely am getting some stickers lol. Plus it made my cock stand up! Love this story!

Josh
Josh
5 years ago

This made me hard and LOL. Also, I’ll need to get these stickers.

Brad
Brad
5 years ago
Reply to  Josh

Right there with ya bud!! Gotta get my stickers lol

Jake
Jake
2 years ago
Reply to  Brad

What a great first time experience. Really want a wank mate now lol

Oleg
Oleg
5 years ago

I wood like to try this with a man my age 50 from Toronto Canada ???

Brutus
Brutus
5 years ago

Great story and it reminds me of similar situations when I have been looking for any hints of potential partners. Thanks!

Hairy Cock
Hairy Cock
5 years ago

Thanks for sharing Keith. Urinal wanking is so horny. Reading your experience gave me an instant erection.

Brad
Brad
5 years ago
Reply to  Hairy Cock

Love urinal wanking!! Nothing hotter then two guys standing next to each other stroking out a load. Better if its a trough urinal or one with no dividers!

John
John
4 years ago
Reply to  Hairy Cock

Same here. ??????
John

Tony
Tony
5 years ago

Hard here too. Thanks, Keith. Great [hand] job!

Keith
Keith
5 years ago

Thanks for posting my experience.
It was great even if I took a risk I probably shouldn’t have done.
And I got a text from him last night and he’s definitely interested in having a proper edging wank soon so we’re planning that now. Might be this weekend or during the week. I’ll send in another post when or if that happens. Fingers crossed!

Brad
Brad
5 years ago
Reply to  Keith

Such an awesome story Keith!!! You’re one lucky man! Definitely let us know what happens…our cocks are throbbing and waiting 😉

penisluvr54
penisluvr54
5 years ago

Keith, that was such a great story. Certainly got my little one’s interest!

John J
John J
4 years ago

I got my packet of stickers and pins just as this damn virus started I haven’t had the opportunity to show them off as of yet but I’m looking forward to seeing if they may bring at least one person to the party I haven’t had any M2M encounters for way to long.

Harry
Harry
2 years ago

Think i might need to get some stickers, although I don’t have any of my own I am still waiting to encounter any in the wild

BuddyBateBrad
2 years ago
Reply to  Harry

If you don’t have any of your own then you don’t know what they look like, because they’re different to the site logo.
This is intentional, because if everyone was just looking for that logo no one would get a button, stickers or lapel pin and you wouldn’t see any out there.
This requires participation, it would be pointless if no one participated because everyone was just looking for other people participating without participating themselves lol

Lyter
Lyter
2 years ago

I actually posted couple of picture of the BuddyBate button on Tinder to see if any of the straight or bi guys would be keen for a wank session. Sadly, none of them knew what the button was and they swiped right to ask. I’ve matched with approx. 45 profiles and only one was keen and wanted me to wank him, some declined politely and others let’s just say not so politely. That one guy hasn’t set a time, so I’m giving him some space as this is something new to him, and he needs time or he might not have the courage to go through with it. It’s frustrating, I hoped the button would help in my town, but so far no luck (even though there are 4 or 5 purchases made in the town I live in).

BuddyBateBrad
2 years ago
Reply to  Lyter

Hi,
It’s not advised to post the design of the buttons/stickers etc publicly. These are meant as a discreet way for men to find each other IRL, at the pub, the gym or at work etc, not online. Sorry to say but some of those men could have known exactly what it was but because you’ve displayed it you’ve given them the impression you’re not discreet. You might be comfortable advertising your involvement in a community like BuddyBate but most straight/bisexual men aren’t.
You have given me an idea though.
I’ll be creating online buttons for members to use in the next few days, just little thumbnail pics they can download and use for their profiles etc. Hopefully this will help guys like you to advertise more freely online in profiles like that, without using the more discreet button/sticker design and potentially putting guys off.

G
G
2 years ago
Reply to  BuddyBateBrad

Can agree with this! Im a super dl guy highly interested to buy the sticker but still wandering arounf if this is safe! Posting in soc med would just spill the beans and could make me (if I buy one) reveal our secrets. Hope there are far more discreet users here or can prevent to do the same like positing in soc meds or being searched in google!

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luv2frot
luv2frot
1 year ago

Great story, glad it worked out well for you. Love to hear about your edging session, love edging, edging another bud, milking the pre and delaying the cum shot. Going to have to get some stickers and see how many buds i can find.

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