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Explaining the 3 Bator Levels, which one are you? - BuddyBate

Explaining the 3 Bator Levels, which one are you?

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Did you know there are three distinct levels of Bator? Have you ever considered which you might be among? Check out the descriptions below and see which one most suits you.

NOTE: The graphics used here are not a formal means of identifying other bators and what they’re interested in. They are simply for illustrative purposes.

The Easygoing Bator

The Easygoing Bator is the guy who has that totally chilled and masculine attitude, the man who isn’t shy about being exposed in the company of another man and isn’t ashamed of enjoying porn and jacking off openly in the company of a friend.

This is, perhaps, the most common kind of bator.

The Easygoing Bator is happy to kick back with a good buddy, porn playing on the TV, a cold beer in one hand and their hard dick in the other. He’s the man who isn’t shy with his penis in the locker room or showers, the friend who can haul out his junk beside a buddy at the urinals without thinking about it, the man who’ll talk to his buddies about his fantasies or sexual encounters without much restraint.

These men are usually open to MMF threesomes and blowbangs, as long as there’s a woman involved they’re pretty chilled out about participating.

They’re the friend who’s comfortable in their own skin, doesn’t give much of a crap about labels and just wants to have a good time with a buddy without shame or embarrassment. They understand that all men masturbate and they don’t think it’s a big deal for two men to be open about it.

For these men masturbation is just something guys do, they’re totally relaxed about buddies doing it openly while watching something horny.

The Mutual Bator

Much like the Easygoing Bator, the Mutual Bator generally doesn’t have a problem just chilling out with a good buddy and jacking off. The only difference is that this guy understands that guys helping each other with their Bate is more fun.

Regardless of the labels these men understand the camaraderie and friendship two guys can enjoy when they’re open about their masturbation and aren’t shy about sharing it, but they also get that giving a buddy some rubs and getting the same in return is a great way to get off.

Reaching over to lube up a friend and get him off while he handles your dick for you is one level up from sharing a couch and watching porn while stroking your own.

Hand jobs, frottage (cock-to-cock masturbation) and mutual edging are common activities for the Mutual Bator, with long sessions intended to maximize the pleasure the two can enjoy with their penises before eventual release.

These men are usually only interested in one-on-one encounters, like the Easygoing Bator above.

The Group Bator

The Group Bator is just as he sounds. He’s the man who can walk into a room with 5, 50 or 500 other men and feel right at home with his dong in his slippery grip, sharing the experience with numerous participants.

These men are open to encountering and stroking numerous men, edging erections for hours or climaxing several times with various attendees.

Frottage, hand jobs, jousting and circle jerks are the norm, with lengthy encounters among like-minded guys who take their time and truly indulge in their masturbation with each other.

These are the men who seek out established Bator Clubs for their group enjoyment, or gather together several local bators for private sessions. These are the men who are most likely to start Bator clubs in their town or city and bring numerous local guys into the same room to form informal collectives or start known and publicized events.

It should be noted that men of the first two categories might also attend group events but limit their interaction to what they’re comfortable with.


Which group are you among? Leave a comment below.


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Rick
Rick
2 years ago

Not sure whichlevel of bator I am, I do know that I am very aroused by the idea of being naked with other men and jerking off slowly with them. Where I can watch the other friend and he can watch me..

Mike
Mike
2 years ago
Reply to  Rick

I agree. I used to have understall mutual jack sessions when I worked @ a university. Miss those days!!!

Marc
Marc
2 years ago
Reply to  Rick

Me too

Patrick
Patrick
2 years ago

Group bater here. Down for a hot jo session in most any scenario.

Jake
Jake
2 years ago
Reply to  Patrick

I’m definitely a mutual bator. Based in Leeds if anyone is interested.

Paul
Paul
7 months ago
Reply to  Jake

Hi Jake, yes

Joe
Joe
2 years ago

I am a mutual masturbater

sienna jacker
sienna jacker
2 years ago

i love to jack off with another guy, and love to jack a guy off, i just love the feel of a nice cock… and i love feeling hot cum shoot on me

Dee
Dee
8 months ago
Reply to  sienna jacker

I’m with you mate! Where are you? I’m Clydebank, G81

Paul
Paul
7 months ago
Reply to  Dee

Dee, lets talk more love to shoot my spunk with you guys

rimmasterabq
rimmasterabq
2 years ago

I’m a mutual bator

uncutblackmanps
uncutblackmanps
2 years ago

I am comfortable in all three bator levels.

James
2 years ago

Im a group buddy bater , I haven’t had many opportunities lately to do it but am horny and keen to. Sydney Australia, but cant host but keen to play in public discrete or travel around inner city sydney.

andy
2 years ago

I am certainly number 2 in the list and would like to be a number 3 I just love masturbation and being naked with other guys

Steve
Steve
2 years ago

I am good with 1 and 2 and fantasize about 3.

Stuart
Stuart
1 year ago

I’ve not stroked with another man yet but would be a mutual bator. Id love to help another guy cum

Don
Don
1 year ago

Easy going here and have enjoyed mutual.

Carl
Carl
1 year ago

I love mutual bateing group bateing

Paul
Paul
1 year ago

Hello,
I would say, that I am a Easy Bator, I love being watched stroking myself y either males or females. And I love watching others stroking themselves.
And I am also a Mutual Bator, even though I haven’t actually found a actually bating buddy for mutual stroking together. Only once has that happened, but it was an amazing/awesome experience and I can’t wait to actually find a like minded male in my age group for exploring stroking ourselves together.
I never have found a bating group in my area. But, if I did, I might actually try it out. I think that I am mostly a one on one Mutual Stroking guy.
Paul

GoodGrip1
GoodGrip1
7 months ago
Reply to  Paul

Me too.

David R.
David R.
1 year ago

I guess I would be an easygoing bator. I’ve always enjoyed masturbating and will masturbate at the drop of a hat (or pants). Even in high school and college, while I did enjoy dating girls, and liked having sex with them, I found my penis to be just as enjoyable. I was mostly a solo bator back then, though now have started to enjoy bating with friends. I enjoy talking about masturbation with others and am fairly open about all the different ways sex and masturbation can be enjoyed.

Paul
Paul
7 months ago
Reply to  David R.

Good attitude, lets chat about our wanking sessions, attached is my cock mid wank

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Mike
Mike
1 year ago

All three depending on my mood!

Scott
Scott
1 year ago

Mutual bator here. My experience is limited but desire is high. Last time for mutual was in high school in the 90’s

I find buddy bate very hot

Louis
Louis
1 year ago

Easy going Bater here, but always enjoy bating with others

Anthony
Anthony
1 year ago

One and two, definitely. I love the thought of having a full on wank in front of others. I’ve done it once before and it was one hell of an experience. I get a real kick out showing my spunk to somebody. Especially so with a female audience.
I’d love to frot with a guy as well, so I can feel him spunk off on my cock.
As for three, I am open to it…I’d like to go to a meet…

Common Thought
Common Thought
1 year ago

I am definitely a mutual bator, have had several mates in the past growing up and in college. Always loved to help a friend bust a big nut and love swapping cum or pre as lube.
I have never been in a large group bate but would be very into it.
Based in Rochester, NY, anyone want to meet up or exchange stories or more

Jim
Jim
1 year ago

Hello
I would say I certainly lean more to the mutual bator side of things. I’ve had a few brief experiences which I found very erotic indeed but they were very much one off’s which is a real shame because getting to know someone a bit opens up the door to greater familiarity and experimenting with different bating methods. It’s certainly a wonderful thing to play with another guys cock that’s for sure!
Have fun.
Jim
Ipswich UK

Jean-Philippe
1 year ago

Always had fun in masturbation, so I think by experience a mutual bator but desire to reach the group bator level. The issue is it seems that there’s no “session” like that near from my home. Gladly accept anyone who would tell me were to find circle fun in the region of Montreal Canada.

Geo
Geo
1 year ago

Am all three- masturbation is a way of life for me and I enjoy batin’ with other men who dig their penises rubbing and touching- feeling the bliss together. Always looking for a fellow bate bro

Eloy
Eloy
1 year ago

I love bating in all of its variations, I love a long and playful session alone, with a buddy or a group, helping each other or with my own cock.
It great watch and being watched and enjoying a hardon with like minded guys.
I’m based in Belfast, Northern Ireland

Dongluv
Dongluv
1 year ago

I’ve definitely moved up in the grades of bator. The first level was easy and fun to get into. And even at that level, if I walked into a room of 20 or 50 naked men, I’d have an instant erection when I’d see all those cocks waiting for me. The second level was also easy. Mutual jack off was always fun with the right partner. Sometimes it wouldn’t work, but do it enough — because there’s lots and lots of guys who are willing — and I did get better at it. I came into level three last spring and it’s fantastic. Walking into a darkened steam room of naked guys and everything just clicks. Just pick a willing and attractive partner and let the fun and frotting beginning. Once the others see our cocks playing together, all inhibitions fall and cocks play and rub together easily. On that occassion, frotting with two or three men at the same time was awesome. At jacking off and shooting off our cum was fantastic. So many cocks and so much time.

Wankster
Wankster
1 year ago

I’m all three, if men are honouring cock then I’m in!

Cale
Cale
1 year ago

Easygoing bator wannabe. I’m not often in locker rooms or gyms, but I am not shy in those circumstances. At a Florida resort I visited late last year the men’s lockers had a sauna, which I love and follow German/Scandinavian practices when there. Meaning none of this covering up stupidity. A shame I had company on just one occasion, and he kept his baggy swimsuit on.

As for the rest, very interested but so far no chances.

Harry
Harry
1 year ago

Been bating for some 65 years now, and been through all three phases. I loved the JO club in Hollywood, but I’ve moved away now, and fattened and aged a bit, so I’m mostly a solitary bator, with the help of Newtumbl. Got a jealous partner who won’t let me go out.
Are there Zoom-type bate parties? Don’t know if I could perform there, but it would be fun to try!

Mike
Mike
1 year ago

Group

Scott
Scott
1 year ago

I’m in the category of Mutual Bator. Although it’s only theoretical right now. Used to be an easy going bator when I was younger. The good ole days were definitely very good with my high school best friend and I bating together to VHS porn. I long for that feeling again.

Bluerangecowboy
1 year ago
Reply to  Scott

Exactly the same as this!

Richard
Richard
1 year ago

Group Bator, but definitely down for all three scenarios

Ryan
1 year ago

Group Bator.

John in Southern Puget Sound
John in Southern Puget Sound
11 months ago

I find myself surprised by my answer. I am socially shy and do not find it easy to meet and get to know new friends. I have long assumed that one of the reasons I like Buddy Bating is that it does not require as much self-disclosure. Kind of a way to get off without the courtship.A one night stand as it were.

I would not put myself in the Easy Bator group because I do not think I would be particularly comfortable with a female present. (Not sure why!) BUT, that said, I find the concept of the Easy Bator very appealing, a masculine guy who is totally OK with me enjoying his company and naked body and displaying my appreciation by popping a hardon. There is something very attractive and sexy about his confidence and acceptance. But I do not see me as being in this group.

I AM shy about bring up the topic, but if someone mentions bating or begins or continues doing so in my presence, then I am comfortable with displaying my penis within whatever level of activity he is doing. If he touches me, or asks if he can, I will not back off and will reciprocate. But I will be quite shy about being the first to move to the next level.

I think that it may be that I am REALLY drawn to the prearranged group get togethers because I can participate without the for me awkward and fear-inducing process of getting to know another man, bring the conversation around to the topic of bating. I love the freedom and do not feel the least bit shy. There are always younger, better hung, hairier, more muscular, and better-looking men than me there yet I rarely feel shy or excluded. If a sub-group does not want me touching them, they still are usually quite willing to have me jack off even to the point of cumming while I enjoy the vicarious energy and stimulation of watching them pleasure themselves and each other. The trusting and sharing is an intensely supportive experience even without a spoken word.

Finding a similar-minded person where I have to take the is, for me, a much more difficult task. Once successfully accomplished, however, the rewards are very nice indeed.

travel 4 work
travel 4 work
11 months ago

I’m a mutual and group bator. Hosting in a Dallas hotel May 19-20. Love to stroke with other men…

Steve
Steve
11 months ago

I’ve enjoyed all three so by default I guess I’m more of a #3 but likely tend to enjoy #2 more or at least that’s where most of my experiences are.

In a new city now so anxious to make a new bate circle of friends

Steve
Steve
11 months ago

I’m definitely a mutual bater. I love to watch guys jack off and enjoy being watched. I also understand the importance of helping out a friend.

Javier
Javier
11 months ago

I’m a mutual bator but I also love groups. I had to choose one and mutual it is!

Michael
Michael
11 months ago

How wonderful to find a community dedicated to what I like to do best….definitely mutual for me; sounds great!

chance
chance
10 months ago

Base on this, I’m something of all three.

Will
Will
10 months ago

Mutual Bator for now. New here. Minutes ago I found out my Newtumbl world was over. I had more than 6,000 followers and a lot of content. Now it’s all gone. Will take a while. Found this site by googling newtumbl news. Looking forward to spending time here.

johninpa
johninpa
10 months ago

I am an Easygoing and Mutual Bator.

Would love to find same in Northeastern PA!

Dave
Dave
10 months ago

I am at the mutual bator level, although I generally end up wanking off daily alone. When I can arrange it I fit the mutual bator with a few buddies. Most have been purely straight and not inot wanking each other, which is fine with me even though I have no problem pulling another guy off or much more, being gay. Group bator is my goal if I can get a club started here in Tokyo.

MancJack
MancJack
10 months ago

I deffo fit in the “mutual” category> there is nothing i’f love more than wanking with a guy and helping each other out. I have never experienced a group experience, but would like to give a one off go!!!

Augustus
Augustus
9 months ago

1 & 2, 1. has only been at the beach or, on occasion Nature Trails. On the beach once 6 yrs ago, I was In The Mood Just standing there as a former co-worker ( construction approached me, In The Mood as well, there was No hesitation, & I was Pleasantly Surprised. I commented on his nice size & he said,” Really? I thought I was small” He Wasn’t.

Dan
Dan
9 months ago

My drive is to be a group bator, however probably best for me to be a mutual bator. I can’t get too crazy!!

Jani
7 months ago

I like to masturbate on cam with a bunch of guys on zoom. Unfortunately I haven’t had the opportunity to do it in real life. I’m not shy about being naked in the locker rooms, but that might also be a Scandinavian/ European thing.

so maybe a mix of the mutual bator and group bator, as I don’t think I’ll be the one suggesting a bate. Yet at least

Paul
Paul
7 months ago

Im at level 3 now, always been very comfortable with my cick out, shooting cum with friends, just led to mutual masturbation, then shower rooms, public places and group wanks now. Love it, hard cocks and lots of cum!

Eric
Eric
7 months ago

I’m definitely a mutual bator although I have not done it with another male since I was much younger. Absolutely looking to get back into this unbelievably fun activity.

John
7 months ago

Since I masturbate every day, I can easily put myself in all three categories..lol. Most of the time, I sit at my pc totally nude, with my cock nice and erect and running my open web cam (like right now, too). I’ll chat with all of the other masturbators in my Chaturbate room while we look at pics, vids and cams together. I show my full body and face while I’m on cam and will pose for screen caps for guys who want to take pics of me stroking my erect cock.

I go to a Jerk Off Club near me about twice a month and there are usually 15-20 guys there all masturbating with each other or to the porn on the TV’s around the room. I get super turned on while I drive to the meeting and usually have my cock out while in the car. Once I’m there, I immediately get nude and love to position myself so that guys can see my stiff dick spring out when I take my clothes off. We meet for about an hour in a half and I masturbate or jerk guys off or suck their dicks. When It’s just about time to close down, there is a small platform in the middle of the room which I like to stand on and let everyone see me shoot my built-up load,

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Chez
7 months ago

Mutual here.

Hoss
Hoss
5 months ago

Looking to bate with a buddy. I am in the Phoenix area today.

first time doing this. Pretty hard right now. Want to show off my 8” and cum.

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