Did you know there are three distinct levels of Bator? Have you ever considered which you might be among? Check out the descriptions below and see which one most suits you.
NOTE: The graphics used here are not a formal means of identifying other bators and what they’re interested in. They are simply for illustrative purposes.
The Easygoing Bator
The Easygoing Bator is the guy who has that totally chilled and masculine attitude, the man who isn’t shy about being exposed in the company of another man and isn’t ashamed of enjoying porn and jacking off openly in the company of a friend.
This is, perhaps, the most common kind of bator.
The Easygoing Bator is happy to kick back with a good buddy, porn playing on the TV, a cold beer in one hand and their hard dick in the other. He’s the man who isn’t shy with his penis in the locker room or showers, the friend who can haul out his junk beside a buddy at the urinals without thinking about it, the man who’ll talk to his buddies about his fantasies or sexual encounters without much restraint.
These men are usually open to MMF threesomes and blowbangs, as long as there’s a woman involved they’re pretty chilled out about participating.
They’re the friend who’s comfortable in their own skin, doesn’t give much of a crap about labels and just wants to have a good time with a buddy without shame or embarrassment. They understand that all men masturbate and they don’t think it’s a big deal for two men to be open about it.
For these men masturbation is just something guys do, they’re totally relaxed about buddies doing it openly while watching something horny.
The Mutual Bator
Much like the Easygoing Bator, the Mutual Bator generally doesn’t have a problem just chilling out with a good buddy and jacking off. The only difference is that this guy understands that guys helping each other with their Bate is more fun.
Regardless of the labels these men understand the camaraderie and friendship two guys can enjoy when they’re open about their masturbation and aren’t shy about sharing it, but they also get that giving a buddy some rubs and getting the same in return is a great way to get off.
Reaching over to lube up a friend and get him off while he handles your dick for you is one level up from sharing a couch and watching porn while stroking your own.
Hand jobs, frottage (cock-to-cock masturbation) and mutual edging are common activities for the Mutual Bator, with long sessions intended to maximize the pleasure the two can enjoy with their penises before eventual release.
These men are usually only interested in one-on-one encounters, like the Easygoing Bator above.
The Group Bator
The Group Bator is just as he sounds. He’s the man who can walk into a room with 5, 50 or 500 other men and feel right at home with his dong in his slippery grip, sharing the experience with numerous participants.
These men are open to encountering and stroking numerous men, edging erections for hours or climaxing several times with various attendees.
Frottage, hand jobs, jousting and circle jerks are the norm, with lengthy encounters among like-minded guys who take their time and truly indulge in their masturbation with each other.
These are the men who seek out established Bator Clubs for their group enjoyment, or gather together several local bators for private sessions. These are the men who are most likely to start Bator clubs in their town or city and bring numerous local guys into the same room to form informal collectives or start known and publicized events.
It should be noted that men of the first two categories might also attend group events but limit their interaction to what they’re comfortable with.