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Explaining the 3 Bator Levels, which one are you?

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Did you know there are three distinct levels of Bator? Have you ever considered which you might be among? Check out the descriptions below and see which one most suits you.

NOTE: The graphics used here are not a formal means of identifying other bators and what they’re interested in. They are simply for illustrative purposes.

The Easygoing Bator

The Easygoing Bator is the guy who has that totally chilled and masculine attitude, the man who isn’t shy about being exposed in the company of another man and isn’t ashamed of enjoying porn and jacking off openly in the company of a friend.

This is, perhaps, the most common kind of bator.

The Easygoing Bator is happy to kick back with a good buddy, porn playing on the TV, a cold beer in one hand and their hard dick in the other. He’s the man who isn’t shy with his penis in the locker room or showers, the friend who can haul out his junk beside a buddy at the urinals without thinking about it, the man who’ll talk to his buddies about his fantasies or sexual encounters without much restraint.

These men are usually open to MMF threesomes and blowbangs, as long as there’s a woman involved they’re pretty chilled out about participating.

They’re the friend who’s comfortable in their own skin, doesn’t give much of a crap about labels and just wants to have a good time with a buddy without shame or embarrassment. They understand that all men masturbate and they don’t think it’s a big deal for two men to be open about it.

For these men masturbation is just something guys do, they’re totally relaxed about buddies doing it openly while watching something horny.

The Mutual Bator

Much like the Easygoing Bator, the Mutual Bator generally doesn’t have a problem just chilling out with a good buddy and jacking off. The only difference is that this guy understands that guys helping each other with their Bate is more fun.

Regardless of the labels these men understand the camaraderie and friendship two guys can enjoy when they’re open about their masturbation and aren’t shy about sharing it, but they also get that giving a buddy some rubs and getting the same in return is a great way to get off.

Reaching over to lube up a friend and get him off while he handles your dick for you is one level up from sharing a couch and watching porn while stroking your own.

Hand jobs, frottage (cock-to-cock masturbation) and mutual edging are common activities for the Mutual Bator, with long sessions intended to maximize the pleasure the two can enjoy with their penises before eventual release.

These men are usually only interested in one-on-one encounters, like the Easygoing Bator above.

The Group Bator

The Group Bator is just as he sounds. He’s the man who can walk into a room with 5, 50 or 500 other men and feel right at home with his dong in his slippery grip, sharing the experience with numerous participants.

These men are open to encountering and stroking numerous men, edging erections for hours or climaxing several times with various attendees.

Frottage, hand jobs, jousting and circle jerks are the norm, with lengthy encounters among like-minded guys who take their time and truly indulge in their masturbation with each other.

These are the men who seek out established Bator Clubs for their group enjoyment, or gather together several local bators for private sessions. These are the men who are most likely to start Bator clubs in their town or city and bring numerous local guys into the same room to form informal collectives or start known and publicized events.

It should be noted that men of the first two categories might also attend group events but limit their interaction to what they’re comfortable with.


Which group are you among? Leave a comment below.


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21 thoughts on “Explaining the 3 Bator Levels, which one are you?

  • January 16, 2022 at 2:42 pm
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    Not sure whichlevel of bator I am, I do know that I am very aroused by the idea of being naked with other men and jerking off slowly with them. Where I can watch the other friend and he can watch me..

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    • February 9, 2022 at 2:20 am
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      I agree. I used to have understall mutual jack sessions when I worked @ a university. Miss those days!!!

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  • January 24, 2022 at 1:19 pm
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    Group bater here. Down for a hot jo session in most any scenario.

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    • February 8, 2022 at 8:31 pm
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      I’m definitely a mutual bator. Based in Leeds if anyone is interested.

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  • January 25, 2022 at 10:42 pm
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    I am a mutual masturbater

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  • January 27, 2022 at 5:25 pm
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    i love to jack off with another guy, and love to jack a guy off, i just love the feel of a nice cock… and i love feeling hot cum shoot on me

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  • February 2, 2022 at 11:25 pm
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    I’m a mutual bator

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  • February 4, 2022 at 1:59 am
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    I am comfortable in all three bator levels.

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  • February 10, 2022 at 6:08 pm
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    Im a group buddy bater , I haven’t had many opportunities lately to do it but am horny and keen to. Sydney Australia, but cant host but keen to play in public discrete or travel around inner city sydney.

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  • March 27, 2022 at 11:38 am
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    I am certainly number 2 in the list and would like to be a number 3 I just love masturbation and being naked with other guys

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  • March 31, 2022 at 7:40 pm
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    I am good with 1 and 2 and fantasize about 3.

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  • May 1, 2022 at 7:16 am
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    I’ve not stroked with another man yet but would be a mutual bator. Id love to help another guy cum

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  • May 13, 2022 at 3:32 pm
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    Easy going here and have enjoyed mutual.

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  • May 31, 2022 at 12:30 am
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    I love mutual bateing group bateing

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  • June 7, 2022 at 4:26 am
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    Hello,
    I would say, that I am a Easy Bator, I love being watched stroking myself y either males or females. And I love watching others stroking themselves.
    And I am also a Mutual Bator, even though I haven’t actually found a actually bating buddy for mutual stroking together. Only once has that happened, but it was an amazing/awesome experience and I can’t wait to actually find a like minded male in my age group for exploring stroking ourselves together.
    I never have found a bating group in my area. But, if I did, I might actually try it out. I think that I am mostly a one on one Mutual Stroking guy.
    Paul

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  • July 14, 2022 at 5:16 pm
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    I guess I would be an easygoing bator. I’ve always enjoyed masturbating and will masturbate at the drop of a hat (or pants). Even in high school and college, while I did enjoy dating girls, and liked having sex with them, I found my penis to be just as enjoyable. I was mostly a solo bator back then, though now have started to enjoy bating with friends. I enjoy talking about masturbation with others and am fairly open about all the different ways sex and masturbation can be enjoyed.

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  • July 23, 2022 at 7:47 pm
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    All three depending on my mood!

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  • July 28, 2022 at 4:13 pm
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    Mutual bator here. My experience is limited but desire is high. Last time for mutual was in high school in the 90’s

    I find buddy bate very hot

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  • August 1, 2022 at 5:14 pm
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    Easy going Bater here, but always enjoy bating with others

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  • August 7, 2022 at 5:25 pm
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    One and two, definitely. I love the thought of having a full on wank in front of others. I’ve done it once before and it was one hell of an experience. I get a real kick out showing my spunk to somebody. Especially so with a female audience.
    I’d love to frot with a guy as well, so I can feel him spunk off on my cock.
    As for three, I am open to it…I’d like to go to a meet…

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