Did you know there are three distinct levels of Bator? Have you ever considered which you might be among? Check out the descriptions below and see which one most suits you.
NOTE: The graphics used here are not a formal means of identifying other bators and what they’re interested in. They are simply for illustrative purposes.
The Easygoing Bator
The Easygoing Bator is the guy who has that totally chilled and masculine attitude, the man who isn’t shy about being exposed in the company of another man and isn’t ashamed of enjoying porn and jacking off openly in the company of a friend.
This is, perhaps, the most common kind of bator.
The Easygoing Bator is happy to kick back with a good buddy, porn playing on the TV, a cold beer in one hand and their hard dick in the other. He’s the man who isn’t shy with his penis in the locker room or showers, the friend who can haul out his junk beside a buddy at the urinals without thinking about it, the man who’ll talk to his buddies about his fantasies or sexual encounters without much restraint.
These men are usually open to MMF threesomes and blowbangs, as long as there’s a woman involved they’re pretty chilled out about participating.
They’re the friend who’s comfortable in their own skin, doesn’t give much of a crap about labels and just wants to have a good time with a buddy without shame or embarrassment. They understand that all men masturbate and they don’t think it’s a big deal for two men to be open about it.
For these men masturbation is just something guys do, they’re totally relaxed about buddies doing it openly while watching something horny.
The Mutual Bator
Much like the Easygoing Bator, the Mutual Bator generally doesn’t have a problem just chilling out with a good buddy and jacking off. The only difference is that this guy understands that guys helping each other with their Bate is more fun.
Regardless of the labels these men understand the camaraderie and friendship two guys can enjoy when they’re open about their masturbation and aren’t shy about sharing it, but they also get that giving a buddy some rubs and getting the same in return is a great way to get off.
Reaching over to lube up a friend and get him off while he handles your dick for you is one level up from sharing a couch and watching porn while stroking your own.
Hand jobs, frottage (cock-to-cock masturbation) and mutual edging are common activities for the Mutual Bator, with long sessions intended to maximize the pleasure the two can enjoy with their penises before eventual release.
These men are usually only interested in one-on-one encounters, like the Easygoing Bator above.
The Group Bator
The Group Bator is just as he sounds. He’s the man who can walk into a room with 5, 50 or 500 other men and feel right at home with his dong in his slippery grip, sharing the experience with numerous participants.
These men are open to encountering and stroking numerous men, edging erections for hours or climaxing several times with various attendees.
Frottage, hand jobs, jousting and circle jerks are the norm, with lengthy encounters among like-minded guys who take their time and truly indulge in their masturbation with each other.
These are the men who seek out established Bator Clubs for their group enjoyment, or gather together several local bators for private sessions. These are the men who are most likely to start Bator clubs in their town or city and bring numerous local guys into the same room to form informal collectives or start known and publicized events.
It should be noted that men of the first two categories might also attend group events but limit their interaction to what they’re comfortable with.
Not sure whichlevel of bator I am, I do know that I am very aroused by the idea of being naked with other men and jerking off slowly with them. Where I can watch the other friend and he can watch me..
I agree. I used to have understall mutual jack sessions when I worked @ a university. Miss those days!!!
Group bater here. Down for a hot jo session in most any scenario.
I’m definitely a mutual bator. Based in Leeds if anyone is interested.
I am a mutual masturbater
i love to jack off with another guy, and love to jack a guy off, i just love the feel of a nice cock… and i love feeling hot cum shoot on me
I’m a mutual bator
I am comfortable in all three bator levels.
Im a group buddy bater , I haven’t had many opportunities lately to do it but am horny and keen to. Sydney Australia, but cant host but keen to play in public discrete or travel around inner city sydney.
I am certainly number 2 in the list and would like to be a number 3 I just love masturbation and being naked with other guys
I am good with 1 and 2 and fantasize about 3.
I’ve not stroked with another man yet but would be a mutual bator. Id love to help another guy cum
Easy going here and have enjoyed mutual.
I love mutual bateing group bateing
I would say, that I am a Easy Bator, I love being watched stroking myself y either males or females. And I love watching others stroking themselves.
And I am also a Mutual Bator, even though I haven’t actually found a actually bating buddy for mutual stroking together. Only once has that happened, but it was an amazing/awesome experience and I can’t wait to actually find a like minded male in my age group for exploring stroking ourselves together.
I never have found a bating group in my area. But, if I did, I might actually try it out. I think that I am mostly a one on one Mutual Stroking guy.
I guess I would be an easygoing bator. I’ve always enjoyed masturbating and will masturbate at the drop of a hat (or pants). Even in high school and college, while I did enjoy dating girls, and liked having sex with them, I found my penis to be just as enjoyable. I was mostly a solo bator back then, though now have started to enjoy bating with friends. I enjoy talking about masturbation with others and am fairly open about all the different ways sex and masturbation can be enjoyed.
All three depending on my mood!
Mutual bator here. My experience is limited but desire is high. Last time for mutual was in high school in the 90’s
I find buddy bate very hot
Easy going Bater here, but always enjoy bating with others
One and two, definitely. I love the thought of having a full on wank in front of others. I’ve done it once before and it was one hell of an experience. I get a real kick out showing my spunk to somebody. Especially so with a female audience.
I’d love to frot with a guy as well, so I can feel him spunk off on my cock.
As for three, I am open to it…I’d like to go to a meet…
I am definitely a mutual bator, have had several mates in the past growing up and in college. Always loved to help a friend bust a big nut and love swapping cum or pre as lube.
I have never been in a large group bate but would be very into it.
Based in Rochester, NY, anyone want to meet up or exchange stories or more
I would say I certainly lean more to the mutual bator side of things. I’ve had a few brief experiences which I found very erotic indeed but they were very much one off’s which is a real shame because getting to know someone a bit opens up the door to greater familiarity and experimenting with different bating methods. It’s certainly a wonderful thing to play with another guys cock that’s for sure!
Always had fun in masturbation, so I think by experience a mutual bator but desire to reach the group bator level. The issue is it seems that there’s no “session” like that near from my home. Gladly accept anyone who would tell me were to find circle fun in the region of Montreal Canada.
Am all three- masturbation is a way of life for me and I enjoy batin’ with other men who dig their penises rubbing and touching- feeling the bliss together. Always looking for a fellow bate bro
I love bating in all of its variations, I love a long and playful session alone, with a buddy or a group, helping each other or with my own cock.
It great watch and being watched and enjoying a hardon with like minded guys.
I’m based in Belfast, Northern Ireland
I’ve definitely moved up in the grades of bator. The first level was easy and fun to get into. And even at that level, if I walked into a room of 20 or 50 naked men, I’d have an instant erection when I’d see all those cocks waiting for me. The second level was also easy. Mutual jack off was always fun with the right partner. Sometimes it wouldn’t work, but do it enough — because there’s lots and lots of guys who are willing — and I did get better at it. I came into level three last spring and it’s fantastic. Walking into a darkened steam room of naked guys and everything just clicks. Just pick a willing and attractive partner and let the fun and frotting beginning. Once the others see our cocks playing together, all inhibitions fall and cocks play and rub together easily. On that occassion, frotting with two or three men at the same time was awesome. At jacking off and shooting off our cum was fantastic. So many cocks and so much time.
I’m all three, if men are honouring cock then I’m in!
Easygoing bator wannabe. I’m not often in locker rooms or gyms, but I am not shy in those circumstances. At a Florida resort I visited late last year the men’s lockers had a sauna, which I love and follow German/Scandinavian practices when there. Meaning none of this covering up stupidity. A shame I had company on just one occasion, and he kept his baggy swimsuit on.
As for the rest, very interested but so far no chances.
Been bating for some 65 years now, and been through all three phases. I loved the JO club in Hollywood, but I’ve moved away now, and fattened and aged a bit, so I’m mostly a solitary bator, with the help of Newtumbl. Got a jealous partner who won’t let me go out.
Are there Zoom-type bate parties? Don’t know if I could perform there, but it would be fun to try!
I’m in the category of Mutual Bator. Although it’s only theoretical right now. Used to be an easy going bator when I was younger. The good ole days were definitely very good with my high school best friend and I bating together to VHS porn. I long for that feeling again.
Exactly the same as this!