Caught Guys Wanking
Submitted by Dylan
I’m 25 and I’ve never wanked with another guy but I’ve come close to it a few times. I never used to be curious about this stuff but in the last couple of years I’ve become more interested in it and when I found BuddyBate I realized that there’s a lot of guys out there like me. I’m mostly into pussy but I love wanking and I think cocks are pretty amazing so I’ve definitely become more curious about it.
Besides friends just hanging out and being naked, flashing hardons and that kind of thing, I’d never actually caught a guy wanking or seen a hard cock being wanked outside of porn. I had a couple of mates who were pretty open about that kind of thing so I’d seen their dicks hard before just when we were hanging out but there was nothing more to it. Maybe they were missed opportunities too and I just didn’t know it but it was pretty normal for us to just pop our dicks out and have a laugh and it never went into wanking off together.
A lot of guys seem to have experiences in the same places like toilets and gym showers and that’s where my first encounter was. I was 19 and I’d been going there for about six months when I caught a guy wanking in the showers. They had two sets of showers there one was older and the open room type and the other was newer cubicles. I never minded which one I used but most guys used the cubicles and it could get busy so I started to just go straight to the open ones.
It was late in the evening and I walked in there and found another man which was unusual. Most of the time I would be alone in there or another guy would just be leaving when I walked in. I was just minding my own business and showering when I noticed that he was wanking his cock.
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He wasn’t shy about it. I guess he was an exhibitionist because he kept looking over at me and he caught me looking a few times. He was a fit guy in his 40s and he had a pretty big dick. It was a bit unnerving I’d never experienced anything like that before but it was a horny experience and because I’ve never seen another man wanking I think that intrigue is what made my cock stiffen.
I’m not paranoid about my body or anything like that so after a minute when I knew he was just enjoying a wank I relaxed about it and I didn’t mind that he was looking at my cock. I was fully hard by this point. When I get hard it points straight up and almost touches my abs so there was no hiding it. I started thinking about having a wank too. He was openly pumping his cock in his fist and looking at my dick so I felt like I could just grab mine and do the same. But then he started cumming and I watched him shooting it all over the floor and then he quickly rinsed off and left. I never saw him before or since, I only ever saw him wanking and cumming and then he was gone.
I had a quick wank and shot my load before I left. I did think about what I might do the next time I caught him in there wanking but our paths never crossed again. I even thought about what I might do if I saw him just working out. I kind of made a plan that I would discreetly follow and wait until he was in the showers for a minute before going in there after him and seeing if we could repeat it.
My other experience happened about two years later. Me and a mate were on a night out around town and we ended up in a little pub we’d never been to before and when it came to the end of the night I went for a piss while the cab was on the way and when I walked in there was two other guys at the urinals and they acted like I’d surprised them. I was too stupid to know that I’d interrupted something and there was only one urinal left so I stepped up and flopped my cock out.
I was already in full piss when I glanced over and noticed they were both wagging a couple of hardons and checking out my dick. I think they expected me to join in, like I was supposed to know. I was a little drunk so I think I said something like “having a crafty one lads?” and my dick started to get hard. I waited a few seconds longer than I would have after I stopped pissing and watched them grabbing each other’s dicks again and getting back into their wank and I must have thought about just wanking off and watching but with my mate standing outside waiting and the cab on the way I just gave my cock a couple of rubs and left.
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I thought about that for a few days after and wondered if I should have just quickly wanked out a load or even offered to wank one of their dicks. I knew it was an opportunity to try something and I’d missed it. I even thought about going back there on my own a few times and seeing if I could interrupt something again but decided not to and it was probably just a one off thing. Maybe I will in the future. If that’s a regular spot for bators to wank together then I want to try it out and see what it’s like.
So those are my limited experiences. Sorry I don’t have more but I’m definitely thinking more about finding that first proper wank experience with another guy. The past year has got me even more determined to find someone to try it with and I’ve even got a BuddyBate button now that I can wear just in case another guy sees it. In the meantime I’ll be reading all the stories and experiences and having a few wanks thinking about it 🙂
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