Getting back into wanking with mates after fifteen years
Submitted by Ian
I wanked with a mate of mine when we were 18. He had a few porn mags and when I used to go over to his house for the night we would get our cocks out and share the magazines. It was all just lad’s stuff, just talking shit about the girls and wanking off. We probably did it twenty or thirty times and we weren’t shy about seeing each other cum.
Not sure why it ended but I think girlfriends got in the way.
I’ve thought about it a few times over the years. I’m married now and I’m not in touch with my friend from back then but I sometimes wonder if he would still be into wanking now if we were still mates.
In the last few months I’ve been thinking about it more and reading some of the other posts here by guys who pretty similar to me has made me more curious about it. I never touched my mates cock back then and there was never any suggestion that we would give each other a hand job but I’m thinking about it now and really want to see what it’s like.
I have a few mates I think might be easy-going enough to share a wank and maybe one or two who I think might agree to try swapping dicks and wanking each other but I’m not sure how to get that started. I’ve read some of the other posts from guys who just asked their mate about wanking off but I can’t imagine any of my mates would be okay with that, they would probably freak out about it.
Thanks for the site and the interesting posts from other guys.
Hi Ian,
Your story is very common. I know a lot of guys who started wanking with their mates years ago and then life got in the way and they forgot about it, then they rediscover their interest and leap into this world of circle jerking and mutual cock play with all kinds of guys. I think it’s far more common for lads to wank together in their late teens than people know, it’s just that things get in the way and for most guys it just kinds of fades out, like it’s a phase guys go through. I don’t believe it need to be a phase though, it’s something men should be able to enjoy together as a part of their friendship.
I used to prefer to seek out friends I already knew but you’d be surprised how much easier it is when it’s just a random guy interested in the same thing. Environments where guys get their dicks out are common hubs for finding wank mates. The men’s room, the locker room, the gym showers, they’re all places where guys might have the chance to show off their cock, and a lot of guys do. When one dick gets stiff it usually leads to another boner popping up, then a little exhibitionist stroking can lead to reciprocation.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t see if some of your mates will be into it, I’m just saying you shouldn’t rule out the easy friendly bate with a random guy you might see at the urinals. Keep your eyes peeled for unexpected erections, check out other cocks when you get the chance, show off your own if you have the opportunity and see what kind of response you get.
As always, I need to mention our BuddyBate buttons and stickers too. We’re already hearing reports of guys finding other men wearing them and having some bate fun. You should check that out if you haven’t already 🙂
Let us know how it goes, we would all love to read about your first time getting back into it.
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