How to get back into wanks with my buddy
Submitted by Jack
When we were younger a friend and I used to talk about typical things guys explore together, like what the best porn mag was and which girl was fitter etc. Finding a bunch of porn mags at his house one day led to us exploring wanking together and eventually mutual wanking. We did this for a few years and never told any of our other friends about it. It wasn’t talked about between us either really, we just kinda hung out and ended up wanking and helping each other out. I remember he had a big dick especially since I wasn’t used to seeing any others than my own, it was amazing to compare and feel his hard dick in my hand.
Anyway, years past and we are now both 30 but still in touch and he actually lives 5 minutes from my house. We hung out the other day and are still close mates but did drift apart for years until recently when we started going out and climbing together etc.
I want to get back in to this and can’t think of anyone I’d rather start with again. I’m nervous because he hasn’t mentioned it, neither have I it’s just like it never happened. I’m thinking of inviting him over soon to hang out and was wondering if anyone has any tips on how to broach this? I could just whack some porn on the TV but I don’t want to be so obvious, the other
Hi Jack,
Thanks for your submission.
I think most guys experience this and while there might be a few who genuinely lose interest in sharing their wanks with other guys I think far more just don’t know how to get back into it.
If you guys hadn’t drifted apart and you’d stayed friends for all these years do you think your wanks would have stopped or would you still be sharing porn and having a good time? I would guess that it would probably still be a really good part of your friendship.
Porn is a good way to go. In the past I’ve “accidentally” left porn laying around and after a couple of beers it’s likely to be mentioned and before you know it you’re watching it and getting your dicks out.
It should be said, however that while he might still be relaxed or open-minded enough to have a wank to some good porn not every guy is still gonna be into helping a buddy out. Don’t assume that because he was down to swap dicks back then he’s still interested in that now. That might be one part of this that’s changed over the years.
In summary, I would say he’s probably still as open to it but probably feels the way you do about bringing it up. That’s just my guess. If neither of you mention it it’s likely that there will be natural opportunities the more you hang out together anyway.
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Experience tells me you guys have already got that great friendship there and you probably just need some more time to get back into it. Being more open around each other during that time is likely to show both of you how easygoing the other is and it’ll just happen.
Other readers might have a different view and I invite them to leave their comments below. I hope you’ll come back and let us know how it goes in the future!
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