I Miss The Gym Jack Off Fun Of The Past
Submitted by FitBator
I first found the bator lifestyle when I was 22 and joined a New York gym for the first time. In the first month I had my first gym jack off experience with another guy in the showers.
That was back when most showers were still open rooms. No one was shy back in those days. You would see cocks swinging around and getting hard all the time. It led to a lot of great times.
I had so many experiences meeting men and swapping hand jobs. There was a bit of sucking. I tried sucking dick but decided it wasn’t for me. I was there just to enjoy the bate with other men.
It wasn’t just one on one either. Sometimes you’d be jacking it with a guy and then another guy would join in. I think the most we had at any one time was 8 cocks all being rubbed and shooting cum.
Things have changed a lot. There are still some gyms with open showers but it’s more rare to find guys down to bate. It used to be that you could get a good cock rubbing circle going with a few dudes but these days you’re lucky if you see one guy showing off his boner looking for a hand.
The BuddyBate merch has helped. I’ve found a couple dudes down to swap cocks and make each other nut, but it’s not like it used to be when it felt like every guy in there was into it. Stalls have really changed it all a lot.
Thanks for the site. This old bator loves reading the Book of Bate stories and the posts guys send in. Glad there’s still a scene out there but I wish it was as easygoing as it used to be when I was enjoying gym jack off play. Seems most of it is online these days.
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I was out there jacking it with guys in the 80s and I feel you. My first expeiences were with guys in the showers. Had some wild times with awesome circle jerks back in the day.
Those were great times for sure! Belonged to a gym in Downtown Denver in the early 2000’s and there was always a guy or 2 swinging around a hard cock. Open showers were the best for showing off and watching guys enjoy their cocks!
My first experiences were with guys in the showers at the leisure center in my town. This was in the 90s. Used to go there to play tennis with a good friend and we always had a good long wank in the showers after. Had a few times when other guys would join in. i’ve sent my experience in so hopefully it will be on the site soon 🙂
Hi Tobias. I’m adding your post now and it should be up some time today.
When I was in college we had open showers and a lot of jacking going on. Never had formal bate clubs back then but dudes were cool with watching and showing. Had a few mutual hand jobs with buddies. Guys are missing out these days.
Nice! I wish I had those experiences! I was too shy in college to show anything