I think I want to try sucking my wank mate’s cock

Submitted by Terry89

I understand if you don’t want to publish this because it’s about sucking cock as well as wanking with a mate but I hope you might be able to send me some advice anyway even if it doesn’t go on the site.

I’ve been wanking with a new mate since last summer when I met him at the pub wearing a BuddyBate pin. I’d never done anything like it before but I always liked the idea of wanking with another lad and helping each other get off and when I found out about this site I jumped in and got my lapel pin and some stickers. I’ve always been a wank addict and I enjoy giving it a tug at least a couple of times a day so I guess I always had a thing for stroking it with other guys and just never had the chance with any of my mates.

It was easy enough. I wasn’t too shy about it. I just told him I had one of the pins too and then we were going back to his flat to watch porn. He was more experienced than I was so he was down to wank me off straight away and as soon as he started on my cock I grabbed his and got my first feel of another lad’s dick. Most of you reading this know what that’s like and you won’t be surprised to know I jizzed pretty quick and after making him cum we planned to meet up again.

We met up probably ten times after that and he started talking about going to the big London Jack Off club. I never knew that existed but obviously it does and now we’ve had almost a fucking year of doing nothing I can’t wait to go and see what it’s like, when things are normal again.

But that brings me to the point… I think I want to try sucking his cock. I never thought about sucking cock before but the last time we wanked each other I just wanted to ask him if I could suck it and see what it was like. I don’t know if any other bators out there do that. Most of the time it’s all about jacking off and mutual masturbation here but I guess there must be guys who like to suck dick too.

I don’t know if he would be down for that but I think I might ask him. The way I see it if I don’t like it that’s fine at least I’ve tried it and I can cross it off my list. It’s probably the most extreme thing I would do with a mate but it just seems like it might be fun to try it.

Is it common for bator buddies to suck cock too?

Thanks.

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Hi Terry 89

Thanks for your submission. We have talked about oral sex between friends on the blog before but it is one of those subjects that not all bators are into and I guess that means most guys never bring it up.

It is pretty common for guys to share blow jobs, as seen in the poll results when we asked the community about this back in November last year. It really all depends on the interests of everyone involved and there are a lot of openly bisexual or gay men who just love exploring their masturbation with other open-minded/heterosexual/curious men, so there is a big diversity in the community that allows for basically all kinds of exploration.

Just as there are guys who like jerking it with other men while being mostly interested in heterosexual sex in their everyday life, there are also guys who are into jacking it with other men who are into predominantly homosexual sex in their everyday lives. The bate brings all kinds of men together for the same interest and that’s what it’s about.

That means that it’s very likely that a couple of guys who like to stroke each other might try oral and see what it’s like.

One of the hallmarks of this community is that we’re generally more open-minded about the things men like to do with their cock. It might not be what everyone is into but if you want to try sucking dick, or anything else, there’s probably a wank mate out there who would be glad to have that as part of their fun.

The only way you’re going to know is if you ask him. As you’re bringing this question to us and seem unsure I would guess that your friend is predominantly heterosexual in his everyday life and you probably watch straight porn together when you’re jacking off. That really means little when it comes to men enjoying their cocks together in this community and you won’t really know until you just ask him.

I’m quite certain there won’t be any drama over it if you ask, he’ll either say yes or no.

You also shouldn’t let it define you if you try it, or if you enjoy it. Guys really do get too fixated on the labels as if we’re signing up for a new religion. It doesn’t matter if you’re into rubbing dicks, or sucking, you don’t have to reinvent your sexuality and start doing all kinds of other things you have no interest in just to conform to something you’re “supposed” to be.

Whatever happens I’m sure you’re gonna have fun with your buddy. I hope you let us know how it goes 🙂

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