Is cock size important to bators?
Sometimes everything works out real well timing-wise. We had this submission arrive just as we were scheduling an experience from a reader with a hung friend who likes to show off his hard cock in the gym locker room and it was a great opportunity to put this question to you guys at the same time.
Check out the poll below.
Submitted by Rich
I really love the sites. Thanks for setting it up.
I’m a bi man who is very penis-oriented, and am fascinated (and refreshed… and aroused (obv)) by the relaxed way guys on here are talking about their own and other cocks.
One thing, that really strikes me is the way guys talk about their stats and comparing with their buddies. It seems more relaxed and a bit more objective than the gay community’s size obsession. So I was thinking a poll on whether size matters could be interesting. Are some guys more in it for the feeling of getting theirs out regardless of the other’s dick? Do some really like seeing other cocks and if so do they prefer seeing a big one? When they compare do they like to ‘win’ or are they upset if they ‘lose’?
Again, I really love the site and the community around it. I’ve sent off for my BuddyBate badge and am looking forward to getting more involved.
Cheers
Rich
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I say it doesn’t really matter……….. but most of the time my dick is the largest (in all modesty). The idea of seeing a large dick intrigues me – I think I’d rather see a large one than a small one, but it doesn’t really matter.
For me it’s not as much about the size but the shape of the glans relative to the shaft, the cum slit, and the attitude of my fellow bater. I love to watch and be watched, and jacking together almost tip to tip
Hot !
I’ve always been turned on by average sized cocks. I don’t like large ones at all. After all what can you do with them except jerk them off. A long (8”) slender is what I’d want up my ass.
I just like whole variety of how cocks all look so different. Each one is new. You never know what a guy’s got in his pants until he whips it out for you to see, and he doesn’t know what you’ve got in your pants until you whip it out for him to see. That’s why it’s so fascinating to compare with another guy, whether that’s as far as it goes, or if it’s part of bating together.
It’s the unknown until it becomes known that is so hot. I like touching and feeling them shoot that load no matter the size.
I love all sizes, but watching guys with big dicks really turn me on. Mine is an average 6 plus inchish, so when I see a guy who’s bigger than me it gets me so hot! Of course, guys of any size that can blast out strong huge loads also drive me wild!
I enjoy seeing a big cock. I’m an average 6 inches and love to frot, so I like a cock that is comparable to mine so that the experience is better.
I’m just a man that likes to see other dicks. I once was an 8.25 incher. However, with age came more gut and fat which surrounded my cock. So the exposed shaft is 5 to 6 inches. And, with Paroneys it is bent which reduces my length somewhat.
However, I like all cocks, from -1 to +10 or more inches. No matter size, it’s the cum I want to enjoy.
It has been my experience in my 75 years that smaller peckers shoot farthest.
Once I experienced seeing a couple big ones, out of curiosity, it doesn’t matter to me if I ever see a big one again. I’ve jacked off a couple guys that are 3 1/2 to four inches. It is every bit as much fun masturbating each of them as it is my friends who have more.
A smaller one throbs and jumps the same as I stroke and tease it. I’m unconcerned with size when I’m making a friend squirm and passionate noises are escaping his mouth.
Just as importantly, when I’m the one moaning and bucking under an expert’s hand work, his size is not on my mind at all.
I Agree
Size really doesn’t matter. However, I’m partial to average cocks. I enjoy watching the manner in which a msn manipulates his dick. It seems that men with average and smaller dicks tend to stroke in creative ways whereas as men with large cocks just tend to go up and down. Also, I love watching men who pay equal attention to their balls whether tight, loose, large,or small.
I think I’m like a lot of guys in that I like seeing big cocks in porn and enjoy checking out hung men but if I had the chance to stroke dick with another man I wouldn’t care if he’s got a 5 inch dick or a 10 inch. I just like the idea of feeling another man’s cock in my hand and making him cum and I don’t care how big it is.
it’s the load size that matters
I’m a little bit over six inches in length, with a moderately veiny, pleasing girth when I’m fully engorged. To have a good frot, I kind of need another dick that’s approximately the same as mine, or larger. I don’t discriminate (particularly in instances where a dude walks up to me and takes me “in hand”), but that’s what works for me best, to get me shooting.
What matters is attitude or bateitude, not cock size. If you’re bate bud is on the same wavelength in terms of turn ons and joy of the bate and edge, THAT’S what I really look for. A cock is a cock. A cock with a likeminded filthy horned attitude attached is a mate for life.
I Agree my brother. Its about the journey.
Who doesn’t love to see a big cock? But when it comes to playing, size doesn’t matter. It’s hot to see a guy cum no matter what size his cock is.
I really enjoy seeing men being comfortable without being self-conscious about being sans textiles. I think the human body is beautiful in all of its variations. And who am I to judge someone for something they have no control over. As long as he’s uninhibited enough to drop trou, that works for me!
I like to see all sizes and shapes both hard and soft sometimes a small cock when soft will surprise you how big it gets when hard been with a few guys and been to jo clubs so see a lot of them as we get a little older we realize it don’t matter as much . Just like to be with guys who are comfortable with them self and have fun . I am 48 almost 6 in cut so not the biggest most time but I usually am the thickest . Been my experience that the guys with the big cocks are a little too arrogant most times.
I’m saying yes because of curiosity of a larger as well as an uncut to me right now ——-
Size matters only for visual stimulation. With so much access to porn one can see the huge variety of cocks. Girth is just as impressive as length however, I have seen skinny dicks with a huge flared head and that is quite fascinating. Cocks are all amazingly so similarly different.
For me it’s more about what it looks like than size. The shape, straight or curved, cut or not, big balls, how hard it gets. I have been in situations where the guy was huge and for whatever reason mine wouldn’t get hard. I guess I get self-conscious. I’m above average but growling up I was teased about my size by my older brother because I’m a grower not a shower. ?
I am happy to be endowed with an above average sized cock in both length and girth and there is no doubt it has been a huge asset in attracting guys to have sex with me. But more important than size is the skill in making best use of one’s cock in order to both give and receive pleasure. Size can be a disadvantage if it is too big for the intended recipient who wants to be fucked, but definitely a very big attraction for guys who just want to suck it or masturbate it for me.
I am now 87 and the best thing of all is that I still enjoy hard erections and intense orgasms. And I have a pal who is 92 and still enjoys naked fun with me.
I agree. It is about the experience. Bless you both
I’m 61 and was worried that as I age, my desire and hardness will fade, but thanks to your comments I think I’ll be good to go.
For me it matters, but only in so much that I prefer some equilibrium when playing with other guys. I’m above average, and I’ve encountered guys who are into sph, which is completely counter to how I’m wired. I never want to make someone feel inadequate in order to be turned on. That’s no judgment to anyone that is wired that way, but I’m a bit more empathic, and I can tend to get in my head when it comes to stuff like that.
I have to admit I enjoy the other guys eyes going wide when he sees my FAT 9 1/2+ inches and hairy bull balls. Usually makes him hotter . . . and often hot for far more than a stroke!
I love seeing huge cocks. Only have stroked one that was 13 inches. It was incredible how small it was after. I once played with one that was 2 inches and thick as a pencil. He kept apologizing how small it was.
The cock is such an interesting organ to me. Enjoy seeing all shapes and sizes. Love watching them get hard. Especially when it happens slowly.
All n all, no matter the size. If you both enjoy the pleasure that male bond is incredibly amazing
cock size is not that important but, and im probably in the minority, im not really interested in BIG cocks, i find smaller around 5 inches to be hornier, never really been a fan of big cocks
to me i prefer a cock around 5 inches, never been a big fan of anything much bigger
Steve T. Have to fully agree with what you say mate..If your of the same attitude, towards wanking then it doesnt matter how big or small your dick is. The pleasure that is derived from enjoying a wank, with mate(s) is all that matters
Looking to jo with group!!!
In my 40 years of many experiences with dicks, almost all have been the *average* 4.5″ to 5.5″. BIG ones of 7″ or more have been rather few, though I’ve had some, and they were like devine surprise gifts! But, I’ve had some great times with little dicks, all depending on the man to whom it was attached. This is all based on living in the American South (!!!) , where there is not enough foreskin for me. You Brits, Euros, Latinos are lucky to have your hoods…my favorite turn-on!
I just like ’em hard. It’s other guys’ excitement and arousal that really gets me going. If a guy’s throbbing hard and leaking pre-cum, that’s all I really care about. I guess I’m a fan of function (and attitude) over form? That being said, I do kind of enjoy being bigger than the guy I’m bating with if it’s a turn on for him. I’m 7″ exactly, and I’ve only ever seen one that was slightly bigger than mine in real life (no idea where porn finds those guys) and it wasn’t anything magical for me, but I’ve watched smaller guy’s eyes light up when mine gets to full size (DEFINITE “grower” here, lol).
I’ve jacked it with guys who had a 5″ cock and guys who had 8″ dicks or bigger. My college bate buddy had a 7″, mine is about 6″. Size has never been a consideration for me. I just like sharing the bate and as long as guy is into it I’m down.
The male body is beautiful and I admire a large penis but the size is not as important as the context: a fit and slim body with natural hair growth (please don’t shave down there, guys), everything classically proportionate.
I’ve never really bothered about cock size. I’m only just over 5in but have never heard any complaints. Big or small I like them all, as well as the balls that hang below them.
I love all cocks, but my favorite is the shaved and cut ones. I had a bate buddy who was 3″ and it was a challange to get a proper grip, however he’s the biggest cummer of the 29 I’ve been with. Love to find #30.
Being British my only preference is the guy is uncut and has a loose foreskin. I’m not into cut guys as find it challenging edge them effectively . Size isn’t an issue