Missed opportunities with a great cock
Submitted by FrankieM
I’ve never wanked with anyone and I kick myself every time I read stories from other lads who wanked with their mates. I had a good mate 5 years ago who was always getting his cock out and wanking off and I never wanked with him. Sometimes I think he might be a reader here and he might be sharing his stories but then I think he probably wasn’t the kind of guy into this community and just didn’t think it was weird to get his cock out and wank off in front of his mates.
He just didn’t give a fuck about it.
We were both 19 and we used to have marathon gaming weekends. I would go and hang out at his place and we’d play WOW or something and then he would always put porn on and have a wank before bed. Sometimes I would stay over but he didn’t care he would still get naked and wank. I could have joined in any time but I never did. I used to get so hard watching the videos but I would just pretend I was on my phone or something and act like I wasn’t into it.
He must have thought I was the weird one. I suppose most guys here would have got their dick out and wanked with him. I know at least one of our other mates back then did.
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I even cum in my pants once while he was wanking off and we were watching a crazy orgy with three girls getting fucked by five different guys. I didn’t even touch my dick in my jeans but my cock just pumped it all out and I had to try and clean it up in the bathroom without him knowing.
He really didn’t care about being seen. I saw him cum so many times.
He had a fucking amazing cock too. It was so big and hard and he used to shoot off giant cum loads and laugh about it.
I don’t know why I didn’t just get my cock out and wank with him. I have a nice dick. I’m about 7 inches, big balls, pretty thick shaft, nice head on it. Most guys here would probably like to wank me off. Maybe I was just shy about it but I also didn’t think it was a thing that guys did so maybe it was just because I hadn’t done it before and didn’t know so many guys did it with each other.
I still get so hard when I think about what his cock looked like and all that cum he used to shoot. I think about what it would have been like to grab his dick and wank him off. I don’t know if he would have let me do that but I think he would have because he just liked wanking so much and didn’t care about things.
I’ve got a BuddyBate pin now. I haven’t found the balls to wear it at the pub or the gym yet but I’m going to eventually. I don’t know what I’ll do if another bator sees it but I hope it’s the kind of encounter I need to get me into it and finally wank off with another lad.
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