Advice for small town bators

Submitted by JOBudRJ

Brad, The BuddyBate Buttons and Stickers sure are a great success! I’ve enJOyed watching the Map truly EXPLODE here in the States with Buddies all over the place! I love that the buttons and stickers are working, and reading about guys telling their experiences.

So far, I’m still the only one on the map in this small town, but I expected that. It’s typical; very small towns get the news last. The nearest one on the map is over 50 miles away, and the next one is over 100 miles.

To help spread the news I’ve decided to print out a few small cards with, “Grab a Button & Get on the Map! – BuddyBate.com” and strategically place them where guys can find them. You might want to consider mentioning something like this in the newsletter from time to time to help other guys living in smaller communities. Thanks! – RJ

Thanks RJ!

It really has been a remarkable thing. When we had the idea to start this we thought it would just be a nice way to help fund the site and maybe get a few guys meeting each other out there in the world. We imagined we might get a few success stories from major cities like LA or London, but when guys in smaller towns all over the place started ordering them we knew it could be a lot bigger.

I guess it makes sense. If a town has an 18+ male population of a couple of thousand, it’s logical that at least a couple of hundred guys in the area would be interested in jerking with other guys.

The only problem is finding them. How many of them go looking? How many are on social media? How many are likely to find us or know about this little project of ours?

We have been thinking about how we could improve the prospects for guys in smaller towns and cities, and we actually had something similar before. Years ago, we got a lot of new readers when someone in Manchester (UK) decided to make their own cards with the site name on them, leaving them in pub toilets and at the gym. A lot of guys messaged us saying they found the site that way and wondered where they could get cards or stickers to leave around.

We’re going to create something in the coming days to help guys in small towns spread the word. If anyone has any tips that we might not have considered, please leave a comment below and let us know.

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