Just roll with it. You mention you've been to NY Jacks twice. How did it go? Assume you liked it since you went back. Since you dig your wife why not have the best of both. Have a discret Bator life. If she catches you jerking off tell her you're just having fun playing with your dick getting your rocks off! Take control and tell her you could use some head and/or a good fuck!

NY jacks was fun and interesting. I loved the open sexual atmosphere. It was all about getting off, nothing else. The was very nervous the first time, and I checked out when a guy approached me. Now I wish I had seized the opportunity. The second time at jacks was not as satisfying. It as a different crowd, they all knew once another and did not pay attention to anyone else. It was also a very old crowd that night. I get off anyway and enjoyed walking around naked while stroking. I don't do well in big crowds, so I wish I could find a smaller group. I think it is possible to have both side, why not. I would love to have a guy with my wife, I would stroke the guy to get him hard, then let him enter my wife. Now that would be freaking hot.

If she's down with that sign me up! I'm down in CT.

I would say the same as above just go with what you feel .certainly do not need any labels. Just enjoy. After all we have only one life do what makes you happy. 

Posted by: @mark69

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I would say the same as above just go with what you feel .certainly do not need any labels. Just enjoy. After all we have only one life do what makes you happy. 

Ps your in the right group here i am the same as you .I think a lot are on here .but it's seems a really friendly community after all we are all men together with a lot of the same intrest. 

If you want to meet for a drink up your way let me know. M-W next week might work.

@goodsize May be next time, I am taking off this weekend for some summer travels. I won't be back till mid-August.

Have a great time. If your interested when you get back hit me up.

I like the fluidity of lube.

I am happily married and I am attracted to women sexually particularly their feet 😜 However, I have also been attracted to cocks, balls and bum holes most of my life. I truly love the feel of a cock in my hands, the taste of pre-cum and how a soft smooth bell end feels in my mouth. I don’t really do labels but I guess bi would be the closest.

I had a long chat with a 21 year old bi girl a few months back and she described it well. People are just sexy. Why not enjoy what you like as long as everyone is consenting and no one gets hurt. We only have one life.

Posted by: @mmike

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Hey all,

I’m a middle-aged, married man who has always been attracted to women and has a fulfilling sexual relationship with my wife. But recently, I’ve noticed some shifts in my sexual feelings that have made me question things.

I’m beginning to feel a sense of fluidity in my sexuality. I find myself intrigued by the open sexual energy of men and have visited NY Jacks twice, where I enjoyed the atmosphere and the freedom of expression. I've also started fantasizing more about being intimate with another man, like touching or being stroked.

It’s been a bit of a challenge reconciling these new feelings. I sometimes wonder if I’m too late to explore this side of myself, considering my age. I don’t think I’m fully gay, but I’m starting to feel like I might exist somewhere in between the traditional labels, and I’m open to that idea.

I still love my wife deeply, and my fantasies can include both women and men. I just don’t seem to connect with any particular community right now, and I’m not sure where to turn for support or advice.

I travel to NY for work occasionally, which is when I get the chance to visit places like NY Jacks. But I’m curious if others have had similar experiences, or if anyone has thoughts on how to navigate these feelings. Does this sound familiar?  

Anyone in Massachusetts to explore with.

Over the years, I too have some of these same thoughts! So, a long time lady friend encouraged me to explore my sexuality with other like minded guys!As an older straight, and some what bisexual male, I decided that I should try out some M2M mutual masturbation with guys in my age range of ,50-75 years old! I was just looking for guys who enjoyed giving and receiving HJ’s and giving me BJ’s! Boy was I pleasantly surprised at how amazing the whole experience was! I am still very much into females! But, after my 1st experience with an experienced male, who really knew how to handle a guy’s cock, it was a whole new experience and sexual experience! I have been hooked on guys giving me a HJ and or a BJ! And it’s an amazing feeling, when I gave a guy, my 1st real HJ! Even though guys are really great at stroking and sucking me off, I haven’t found a guy who is better than one of my long time lady friends!

if you are really interested in exploring your sexuality, give it a try and set boundaries for yourself!

also, if you really enjoy the whole M2M experience, I would suggest trying out Frottage with another guy!

paul