I don’t see it as cheating if you are just jerking. As soon as you make physical contact with the other person it’s cheating. Nothin wrong with guys meeting up stripping off  and jerking. In fact if there are any in Edinburgh or surrounds give me a shout. Would love to have a group of bate mates

@kiwijacker 

I didn’t realize that I wanted to explore my sexuality, until I was in my early 50’s. I then realized that I was getting totally turned on by watching bisexual males. Up to that point, I never thought about having sexual pleasures with other males! It’s then that I wanted to explore being Stroked and Sucked off by other males. And I wanted to try giving a guy a HJ. 
Never had any desire to suck off another male! So as long as I keep it very private, and don’t hint about my sexuality and exploring! She knows that I enjoy a very healthy Masturbation life. 
paul 

I also agree, that it’s not cheating, if you no longer have any sexual contact with your spouse, because of her medical issues. Besides, a guy has to have some sexual pleasure, besides his own hands!

I believe that if it feels good, enjoy the moment!

 Daniel396    In many ways, I am similar to you only considerably older and therefore wanting even more to have one or multiple buddies to share the activities with

@daniel396 bit like me mate all I really need is a mate to share with its male bonding

@tossov75 

I totally agree, no romantic feelings for the other guy. Just pure Mutual enjoyment of two guys enjoying M2M mutual stroking pleasures together!

@basicbi1 

He has a very Beautiful Cock! Same with my stroking buddy!

paul

For me, I don’t think it’s cheating, even if both guys are stroking each other off! 😈😈

Just two guys enjoying what comes naturally! 
Paul 

@daniel396 

I don’t think that most wife’s would understand! The need for physical pleasure with another guy, mainly because they would think that it’s totally gay! But, of course, we all know you don’t have to be gay to enjoy physical pleasure with another like minded male! I think that as we get older, we become more interested in seeking pleasure with others! 
Paul 

Married more than 5 decades no sex in last 3 decades
SAVANNAH GA
I love to show off and share the pleasure of my masturbation with everyone.
Odd hours unfortunately
and also NOT Zoom,  -  possibly Whereby or other cam system you suggest

Old balls need to be tugged, swung and ballcatcher to tug them!
reciprocal activity invited

Being a long time married,71 years old male, I have found that I have really grown to enjoy M2M mutual masturbation with other like minded males in my age bracket of, 45-75 years old! Guys who really enjoy the bonding of two guys enjoying the pleasure of watching each other stroking themselves and giving each other a Helping Hand!😈😈

paul 

Almost all of the posts in tis thread of conversation remind me of my own situation!

Still looking in Savannah, GA

will also consider virtual platform

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How does everyone deal with the issue of being married and meeting up for JO ?

Batemate, 

I decided when I was about 50 years old, that I wanted to explore my sexuality with other like minded guys in my age bracket of50-75 years old! Since my wife had issues with her sex drive and wasn’t interested in any sexual activity anymore. After I had decided to explore, and I found myself really enjoying the whole M2M mutual stroking experience, that I became very comfortable with my sexuality, and I didn’t feel that I was cheating on her. I am just very careful about my activities! I have several male friends who are pretty much in the same situation! Even though they have taken about it, none of them have actually come out and said anything about their sexual activity! None of them know anything about my sexual activities, with other guys. Most straight guys don’t talk about any bisexual stuff!

 I would suggest that you just enjoy whatever you are comfortable with! I don’t believe that there is anything wrong with two guys enjoying some male bonding!

life is too short to limit ourselves to not exploring our sexuality! Especially, as we get older!

paul 

@pme14 As said, to everything said here, very much agreed,

The issue is finding a like-minded budy and that is the difficult part.

This is a good topic as I believe a good portion of blokes on this site are married.

We still need that connection wherever we can get it.

@basicbi1 we certainly do

What married gent doesn't enjoy a good pull from his mate?

Or just hanging out at home thinking of someone to play with...

I do love the Scots!