Perfectly normal just enjoy without guilt 

I no longer hide my masturbation from my wife. I use male masturbatory toys in front of her. Unfortunately she is not on with me on masturbating with a buddy. Would love to have bate buddy to share with.

It’s wild at how taboo a subject masterbating is.

i used to deliver and install TV and home theatres, and the amount of pornography I would basically trip over in people houses was crazy.

Everyone masterbates, especially men.

my wife and I love each other very much, but don’t have a lot of sex any more.

im so grateful that she doesn’t mind that I watch porn and masterbate.

in fact, she bought me my flashlight.

Sometimes my wife and I use sex toys together.(not into anal) Years ago we tried going to a swing club together. She could not handle the lifestyle. So I have to be honest with her that if I don't use it I'll loose it. I have been honest about my 20ies about experience with men. Now that I'm in my 60ies I again find that I long for bate buddy. I just feel that there is a part of me that needs to be freed. That part is being naked and cock play with another cock. 

Edventurous, Likewise I’m glad I found this place and you’re among buds. Don’t or didn’t we all feel guilty at some time or other because of something we were conditioned to not accept as ‘right’ or ‘good’ for us. It would be great if you kept the conversation going by sharing more of what you feel and hopefully others will join the conversation. Man, I love to masturbate and porn for me gives it an extra bump up on the pleasure scale. I don’t think of it as being addicted to masturbation if you haven’t lost your job or personal relationships because you wank. I don’t know if every guy is into it as much as me, but I don’t think it’s bad if they aren’t. It’s just how I’m wired and it is great to enjoy stroking!

I have to confess...i suffer from masturbation and porn addiction. Hard to deal with when you were raised in a conservative way that boys are not supposed to have those thoughts.  I tried to move away but keep relapsing.  I now try to manage this the best i can and keep that secret from my girlfriend.

@benroo I agree I,m wired that way too. The masturbation toys for men have come a long way and I can't help myself and try them. I just wish I could try them with a bud from time to time.

Ah, the brotherhood of the bate. Men being honest together. Naked, hard and horny sharing their love for masturbation. Gotta love it.

@johngalt223 the only toy I’ve ever tried is a massager device and that was totally mind blowing, so I get it that you want to try them all. If you had a bate buddy what would you want to experience with him? Are you into cock and would you touch his dick or would it just be bating with another guy, but not getting into their space. I would want to stroke him. I have to admit I look at guys hands and fantasize about how it would feel to have that hand gripping and stroking my cock. Sounds odd I know.

@freddickstone pretty cool wife. My wife would consider it cheating on her and not be happy with me looking at porn, so I don’t think it’s something she needs to know. Sex is one thing, but bating is a totally different experience, don’t you think so. It’s a feeling that’s different and needed because it’s between you and the little guy down there. It’s a whole unique sensation that can’t be replicated and personally, I need it on a regular basis. I need that connection with my body.

@benroo I like to pump and use lots of lube. I also have a combination pump and massage and I'll lay back and let it do its thing and watch MMF porn for a half hour or more. I also have a sleeve that can take a cock on each end. Just need a cock so they rub together. I haven't had cock to play with since my 20ies I am now in my 60ies so I'm pretty much open to a lot except anal. So I have no problem using both my hands. One on the shaft and the other massaging the testicles.

I love masturbating and I’m glad to find this group!