Good Evening*,

My name is Callan and I live in Manchester. When I was a young man I had a few friends with whom I used to share masturbating sessions with. Being born in the mid 80s, my young years were spent in an age where homosexual activity was still seen as an issue or problem and was rife for others to abuse and make fun of. The idea of homosexual marriage felt it would never happen in our lifetime and as such, one was always careful and cautious with whom one would share any desires because if word got out – well, it was a tar brushing experience to say the least.

I have always described myself as bisexual, but have to admit that most of the last two decades has been spent in a variety of straight relationships. Slowly over that time I fell out of having a friend to share a simple wank with – something that, to be quite frank, I have always wanted to get back to.

I’m 39 – thusly in the dying days of my thirties and as such my priorities have changed. I’m interested in making sincere and meaningful friendships whereby masturbation forms a part of the shared interests of that friendship. I’m profoundly interested in the experiential aspects of life and as I have to consider myself in middle age – I suppose I’m keen to focus on creating and sharing experiences with others – as that is really what life is about. One never knows quite how long one has left.

In my spare time, aside from masturbating, I’m a keen reader and writer. I like to delve deeply into complex subject matter and I actually love having my mind changed. There is something very freeing about being to absorb new information and have the humility to accept that no matter how much you know, you’ll never know everything. I like listening to lectures and presentations by philosophers and I have a great interest in history, in particular the way that humanity has changed so dramatically, and yet our base desires and instincts are largely unchanged. You can take the animal out of nature, but never the nature out of the animal.

In regards to this site and my reasons for being here, I want to avoid romantic links and instead allow myself the pleasure of sharing something personal and intimate with a like-minded individual where friendship and fellowship forms the foundation. I’m not shallow nor flippant and – to be quite frank – a lot of the gay community has those ‘qualities’ in abundance. I need something more meaningful myself, and I rather hope you do to.

One of the things I have come to really enjoy is walking barefoot outdoors on long hikes or walks through any natural environment. I find that the experience not just of texture, but temperature and moisture levels means that each step is a focused one where one is living very much in the here and now, and not lost in one’s own mind. It’s one that combines humility, vulnerability with liberty and empowerment. I suppose when I reflect on my youth, it’s those same aspects that are inherent to masturbating with a friend – it’s a freedom to be who you are and what you are, unadorned by the expectation of a cruel society, with view to experiencing that very special physical celebration that our bodies gift us with – the orgasm. How pleased I’m sure we all are that we are not a species whereby orgasm is achieved just once prior to death, like a salmon or any number of insects. No wonder they call it a climax.

I do hope you enjoyed reading and I further hope I can make a few new friends. You don’t don’t have to be into the same things, just a genuine individual and authentically so. You don’t have to be the deepest thinker or keenest writer or best looking or best at speaking – but I’ll be quite frank, if what you are looking for is a simple cum and go – perhaps there are others who can serve you better than I.

One final note – in case it’s important – I’m 5’11, with a classical hairy ‘dad bod’, befitting as I am also a father and am bald with a well kept beard. Perhaps smaller than average penis size, but when erect it’s more than adequate and aesthetically, quite pleasing.

I hope this message finds you well and I look forward to speaking to you.

Kindest Regards

Callan

*it’s actually 3am, but given how dark and cold it is, it feels more like an evening than anything. Roll on Spring!