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What can I tell you? I'm a Boomer so come from the time when the kids were told nothing and being in a conservative climate pretty much got the idea that no-one sees you naked and you don't fiddle with the bits between your navel and knees.
Of course one does work things out and goes through life as you understand it. Now, a widower, it dawns on me that there are experiences in life I never had. Now it is very difficult to get into it as it is all under cover and, I suppose, I'm too old for most.
Essentially a virgin in this field. I have friends, but friends I'd bate with? I don't know. Had an open chat with one yesterday but did not get the vibes.
Posted : 29/08/2025 5:30 pm
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I had a look through some 'personals' ads and found an older, inexperienced guy not too far away from me. We have emailed and are setting up a meet. It should be like 2 brothers finding each other! He was looking for a bate buddy and, surprise, so was I. I'll try to keep reports on how it works out. I'm wet thinking about it!
Posted : 30/08/2025 8:28 am
Awesome mate good luck. Yes please let us know how it goes
Posted : 30/08/2025 9:26 am
Another boomer here who has only in the last few years come to openly acknowledge my appreciation for men and their cocks. Hope you and your mate are able to meet and enjoy some communal JO time. Please let us know what happens. Would love to read the details.
Posted : 30/08/2025 8:03 pm
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Well, our original plans for a meet went west, Dave had to go to Johannesburg on short notice. I have sent him an email asking if he is OK, not received an answer. Does that bode ill. I don't know.
Posted : 04/09/2025 1:50 pm
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I have found a new Buddy, but we have yet to meet. The first one, seems had a heart attack and is in hospital! He has a concern that his manly parts may not work, after. I have indicated that either way I am prepared to be a friend, with or without benefits.
Posted : 10/09/2025 4:18 pm
That is nice mate and you never know his parts may come back to life.hope you new one goes well. Let us all know how it goes mate ps there is always viagra for him under medical supervision.
Posted : 10/09/2025 4:30 pm
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So frustrated! The sick guy is sick, I get it. The second guy started communicating, then dead silence. Am I so fugly (no photos so it can't be that) or what is the problem. Everyone sounds keen and then, suddenly, nothing.
Posted : 13/09/2025 3:18 pm
I honestly think some guys like the idea then just back out for what ever reason. You are not alone mate I can't seem to find anyone to fit into my lifestyle. Keep at it mate eventually someone will turn up. Usually when not expecting it
Posted : 13/09/2025 3:35 pm
