Welcome to the group 

Me too, bit shy but looking for other straight Irish bators curious enough to stroke together. (N.Ireland). 

@wanksharebro don't be shy mate enjoy what you like no labels needed

Ta mate.

I’m probably edgy more in case the other fella is weird or something.  Otherwise I’m happy to enjoy a shared tug once I’m comfortable with him. 

There’s not many sites for wanking/helping hands tbh I tried Fabguys and Swingers and it was too gay for me as I’m not into poking an anus.  

Maybe a mutual suck, as it’s gotta feel class getting off orally (I haven’t experienced cumming orally with women as they don’t know the hot spots).  I’ve no craving to suck dick but if someone sucked me, it’s not that difficult to know what to do as opposed to refusing.  

@wanksharebro this is actually my same thought too gay is too much i just want to try the simple stuff Tug or Frotting not the anal poking thats too far 

but yea ik having a hard time finding someone but doesnt go that far 

Thank you for having me here guys! excited to say the least x

I'm glad to hear that mate.  Pity we didn't live nearby 😜 

It's been difficult finding someone that has these boundaries.  I'm just not interested in penetrating or kissing a member of my own sex. 

As per this website's name, I would like to simply 'Buddybate'.  What sites have you tried?

@wanksharebro  I would say a lot of on hear are the same mate