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Hi All !
lookikg to get feedback on how other happily partnered bators manage to for having a wank buddy in ?
im not I to clubs or public meet ups and only after discreet wank buddies that I enjoyed in the past when single . I’m a gay guy but have going straight guys have been better at being discreet and on the same page with keeping it to wanking only
how do others manage to scratch this horny itch but keep it light and discreet
LOL Is this a bot?
@mchammer I don't think it's a bot. We get a lot of Russian spam accounts but this is a little specific to be a bot imo.
Then again, he hasn't been back since lol
Guess I must come across as robotic !
But no, I’m genuine
Welcome @Matesnbates. I have only had only one-off meetings with both straight and gay dudes since I moved to the UK. But when I had a steady bate mate in the US , we were the best of friends and found it quite easy to hide our encounters from our wives as we were always at the sports bars. You're right to try the friendship angle first as both parties have an interest to keep things on the DL and it makes it special that bating is something just between you two.
@basicbi1 thanks for the words , all makes sense and sounds good . It’s a bit of wait and see game to find likeminded but when it happens it’s great
I have a few straight buddies that I wank with and we manage to meet up when one of the wives are out and have a lads night. Our partners just think it’s us catching up for drinks but discreetly we’re all naked and stroking. Glad I have that group.


