I started a bate club in Johannesburg, SA!

Submitted by Donovan

Hey guys!

I’ve started a wank club in Johannesburg, South Africa. I hosted our first meeting on Tuesday, and although I only had 4 guys arrive/ cum, it was a good start. It was held at a men’s nude bar.

Please advise/ guide me on “how to” do everything…

I think I’ll call it “Jo’burg Jacks”… whaddya think?

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Hi Donovan,

Congratulations on the creation of your club! Four guys is a great start, it’s rare for a club to kick off like that and you’re doing well. Trust me when I say that as word spreads you’ll have plenty more members arriving to join in and share the bate, there will be plenty of guys in Johannesburg eager to share their strokes with others when they find out about it.

There’s no real set way to do things, you’re really just hosting a party. You should probably set some rules though, so everyone there knows what the boundaries are. Most bate clubs just stick to the “no lips below the hips”, while others have colored wrist bands to give out to members to show everyone else there what their limits are. For example, Green wristbands might mean they’re down for frotting, while Red might mean no touching, just watching etc. This is a good system I’ve seen used before and it works well and helps to avoid unexpected experiences.

I would say that you should find ways to encourage members to bring others, but maybe have a members list or limit. As mentioned, you’ll probably find you have a lot of guys wanting to be involved and if your venue is small you might suddenly discover one week that you have 50 guys all wanting to get in and not enough room for everyone.

Always be on the look out for a bigger venue, too. Bate clubs can become very popular very quickly and if you don’t have the space for everyone someone else could come along with a plan and a bigger venue and suddenly you’re just another member of a much more developed club in a bigger venue. That’s not a bad thing if you just want to be part of the community, but if you love hosting then you want to stay on top of that.

I would recommend also investing a little in a website. It’s really cheap, less than $5 a month. That will allow you to keep a newsletter list so you can keep in touch with members and let them know about events, locations and so on. You could ask for donations or a small membership fee to help keep things going, provide lube an towels etc.

If a website is a little too much to manage then you could just set up a social media account for members to follow.

If you’d like to add your events to the calendar please let us know. Once you have a website or a social media contact page we can also add you to the Wank Clubs page.

Good luck with the club. If you’ve started with four members on the first meet then I’m certain you’ll soon have a thriving bator scene going there.