Keen to explore the flexible side in Sydney, Australia

Just stumbled across this website and the terminology actually.

I had been in a hetero relationship for the past 5-6 years. I can’t say that I find the men attractive nor do I feel any connection romantically to men at all, very much the opposite. I do however, find dicks so fkn great. I do have an attraction to dick, not the person or personality (so much) that is attached to that dick. I have a theory that there is no spectrum on which our sexuality rests, it’s purely a social construct. If you follow back along through history men are taught to be men and love women and women are taught to find yourself a bloke settle down and pump a few kids out. It’s ingrained in society that anything other than the white picket fence with the one person for the rest or your life. Myself for example, felt so fucking weird for so long wondering if other guys ever just wanted to bond or purely have a wank with a mate and go on like nothing happened. But there are so many variables then brought into it. It becomes a big mess, excuse the pun.

In a nutshell, I don’t think there is a natural spectrum on which our sexuality lies, it’s the way you feel most comfortable as to fit in.

I’m also of the belief that if two seemingly completely straight men, complete strangers, were left in the opportunistic environment of being alone anonymously together, they’d explore their sexuality lightly and go their separate ways never to mention it again.

So, along my own journey I’ve been hoping to find like minded guys, my own age (28) fit and healthy and aren’t a wolf in sheep’s clothing (extremely camp fussy queens) pretending they just had a nice big bowl of pussy for dinner, as to not diminish their chances. That sounds more egotistical than is inferred. Anyhow, apologies for the long ass essay post, just my two cents ? but if you fall into the category of nearly straight, under 30 and interested in purely light mutual play. Let me know 🙂 I’m in Sydney.