Well, in my experience, some talk and some don't. But none of them have been cum and go. I always found that they have been respectful and fun. As to how to start, I start by chatting with them and just asking some questions about them to get to know them a little. Once we get to that stage, I just ask them if they are interested. If yes, I suggest an app to facilitate the c2c session. If not, I continue the chat for as long as they continue to be interesting. Sometimes they just stop chatting, sometimes they are interested in c2c and sometimes they say no and leave. 

My best advice, just be honest with what your interested in and chat and see where it goes. No pressure, if it works, great, if not, just move on. 

hey Josh, good question. 

in my experience many guys don’t really want to chat, or have time, but occasionally you find someone who is up for a proper conversation.

you’ll soon find out who is interested…but where would you start with c2c…on skype perhaps?

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Hey everyone! I've been a solo bator all my life. Plenty of porn and fantasies to help with that, but I find myself wanting to go to the next level. I don't have any friends who are about that life and I'm too shy to initiate anything, but I want to at least have a mutual wank with someone on cam.

Big question is: How do you break the ice when you first meet them? Is there anything to talk about when you both start jacking off? If so, what are the topics? Or is it just awkward silence, cum and go? Any help or advice would be awesome!

In the same boat man, I'm kind of like you. I'm will be willing if you are, I'm kind of shy, but if interested PM my or message my back!

Good sometimes to get a small chat going (online or over cam) and maybe some mutual bating.  I did meet up with one guy once for a shared experience after we had emailed and chatted for a while.  Was fun and would do it again, but wasn't all that easy to chat f2f initially.  Also interested in chatting/bating with others on here sometime.  I chat via https://join.skype.com/invite/AVCT08M4i9Pt or can email.  Not used kik yet, many seem to.

Posted by: @allin4cum

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Well, in my experience, some talk and some don't. But none of them have been cum and go. I always found that they have been respectful and fun. As to how to start, I start by chatting with them and just asking some questions about them to get to know them a little. Once we get to that stage, I just ask them if they are interested. If yes, I suggest an app to facilitate the c2c session. If not, I continue the chat for as long as they continue to be interesting. Sometimes they just stop chatting, sometimes they are interested in c2c and sometimes they say no and leave. 

My best advice, just be honest with what your interested in and chat and see where it goes. No pressure, if it works, great, if not, just move on. 

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Posted by: @allin4cum

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Well, in my experience, some talk and some don't. But none of them have been cum and go. I always found that they have been respectful and fun. As to how to start, I start by chatting with them and just asking some questions about them to get to know them a little. Once we get to that stage, I just ask them if they are interested. If yes, I suggest an app to facilitate the c2c session. If not, I continue the chat for as long as they continue to be interesting. Sometimes they just stop chatting, sometimes they are interested in c2c and sometimes they say no and leave. 

My best advice, just be honest with what your interested in and chat and see where it goes. No pressure, if it works, great, if not, just move on. 

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Gorgeous cock and I love the nice creamy load you're pumping out! Have you ever done anything in real life? 

 

Yes, my best friend and I traded Bj's for a few years before he moved. Had another frined that did the same but only sucked his cock a couple times because we did not really click much. 

Posted by: @josh-n

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Hey everyone! I've been a solo bator all my life. Plenty of porn and fantasies to help with that, but I find myself wanting to go to the next level. I don't have any friends who are about that life and I'm too shy to initiate anything, but I want to at least have a mutual wank with someone on cam.

Big question is: How do you break the ice when you first meet them? Is there anything to talk about when you both start jacking off? If so, what are the topics? Or is it just awkward silence, cum and go? Any help or advice would be awesome!

@allin4cum 

I love the Cum dripping out of your Ha d Cock and I would love to use your Cum as lubricant to spread all over my cock and yours to keep stroking us both off! Just like this from years ago! 
paul

@biggunuk 

I suggest that you try out the website, Doublelist.com. 
it’s where I found my 1st experience with finding a like minded male in my area and age bracket, for helping me explore. Just be honest with the guy, and tell him what you are looking for with a mutual stroking experience. And maybe share some of your thoughts and suggestions and pictures to see if you are both comfortable enough with each other to proceed. I too really enjoy talking while I am stroking myself, and I love to hear from the other guy, all about how it feels and what he likes about watching us both stroking ourselves! 
paul

@ukbriefsguy 

I have found that whoever is stroking and or sucking me off, really wants to know how it feels and what else I need, until he makes me Explode. If we both enjoyed the experience, I think that it’s worth sharing your opinion! 
For me, I love talking about what’s happening to me, and how amazing it feels. Especially, when I am about to Explode in his hands or mouth!

paul 

@biggunuk hope to be open for a Skype session sometime or meet-up in London. The Bunker Bar on City Road near Old Street station is cool on Mondays I hear.

I have signed up for that, thanks sounds great to find like minded buddies

I break the ice by answering the door naked lol  🙂

@cumwithmeplz that would work for me!

The first time I met with a jerk bud, I broke the ice by saying how nervous I was, which we both laughed at and he agreed. Gave us a chance to chat through and reinforce that we wanted to be discreet and the rest of that experience was great! 

These are all great tips to break the ice for sure. 
ill be using some of these!

@ukbriefsguy usually start on literotica chat then move to whereby for cam. Just chat about what you like and what the other person likes then if you hit it off ask for cam.

In my early days, used to keep things really quiet and wouldnt even talk about jacking with other guys. I would go to saunas where it was easier (with quick escalation), when i moved abroad, had to change tact. Now i use classifieds such as locanto to just be open on what im wanting.

If i wanna quick cam wank, dirty roulette is good. I find i get close with guys at gyms and other events but never 100% sure whether to pose the big Q

Relax and be friendly, its no one's first time , you're both experienced trouser snake handlers, so if there's apprehension, simple: go first. Whip out your dick and encourage him with your lead. Simultaneously confident and vulnerable, it helps.Compliment your newfound fap friend's dick first. Be honest, whatever you notice about the penis of your pal, slip in while you slick up "hey, great dick man' - cuz it's true-  and maybe if a quality particularly impressed you (nice curve, uncut iis awesome,  oh shit you've got two well they're both nice reptilian dude, etc.)

Be friendly, go first, admire & compare with a compliment, relax, cum, the millisecond of thanks dude, & go about your day having that hot experience and knowing dude relieved stress and enjoyed- even if he was muted and brusque. 

Or just walk into any men's room, clap your hands together and say loudly- 'so, handjobs gentleman? Who here feels like sucking a dick today?'😅  you'd be surprised, tho..