I’ve just got a fetish for cocks, wanking and cum shots
Submitted by Jerome
It took me years to work it out but I’ve decided that I’ve just got a fetish for cocks and cum shots and seeing other guys wanking.
I’m 35 now but I’ve always had a fascination with it. It started when I wanked with a mate for the first time and watched him cum. I started cumming at the same time and we had a laugh about how much I shot off.
We had a few good wanks back in those days but it just kind of faded out. My interest in cocks continued though. For a long time I was just checking out dicks in the showers at the gym or watching guys pissing at the urinals. I’m one of those guys who usually gets hard in those kinds of places and I’ve had a few experiences of other guys getting hard seeing my dick too. It never went beyond just looking and showing off though.
I started watching porn with guys wanking but never really thought about it much it was just one of those things that got me off.
When I found this site last year I started reading the posts and a lot of the guys seem to be like me. I love the stories and the experiences other guys have and I read one post where a guy says masturbation with other guys is a fetish for him and that’s the only thing he’s interested in with other men. That’s definitely me.
I don’t want to suck a cock or anything like that and I’ve never given any guy a hand job or let a guy wank my dick but that would be the limit. I think about finding a guy to try mutual wanking but never done it yet.
Keep the posts coming. They’ve opened my eyes to it. Thanks to all the other guys who post.
Hi Jerome.
I’ve said this on other posts like this one before but I’ll say it again… you’re not alone. In fact, I would suggest you’re in the majority and a lot of guys just never talk about it or admit it.
When you really think about it, almost all straight porn focuses a lot on the men, their cocks and cum shots. I’ve lost count of the number of otherwise heterosexual men who never seem to realize that they cum watching cocks cumming in porn.
That’s not a coincidence. It’s like there’s a wall up preventing most men from recognizing that they do this, that they focus so much of their attention on what the guy’s cock looks like, how he uses it, how much he shoots etc.
I realize there are excuses ready to go, that they’ll say they’re just “imagining being there” or they’re “focusing on how he’s using it”, but that just doesn’t wash with me considering men are renowned for being predominantly about visual stimulation.
Regardless of the analysis, I’m glad you’ve thought about it and explored your own sexual psychology in ways most men never do. I think you’re displaying a healthy attitude and curiosity of your own interests. I also think it’s great to have these conversations and talk about it, as long as it’s never telling anyone else what they are or how they should be on an individual level.
I’m glad you like the site, the stories an the experiences. I hope you’ll consider checking us out on Patreon where we’re currently enjoying Bateman’s Gully. ๐
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