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What it’s like to have a jack off buddy

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Submitted by Keith

I greatly enjoy the posts by all the guys here who meet others for masturbation experiences, but many of them seem to be fleeting and I wanted to share my experience of having a good friend to share masturbation with. Perhaps this will encourage readers to seek out the friendship rather than the quick gratification as the former is far more rewarding in my opinion.

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It goes without saying that I’m an avid masturbator. I’ve always enjoyed exploring solo pleasure and learning new ways to get off. I’ve enjoyed all kinds of toys, tried all kinds of lubes, built masturbators at home from instructions on the internet and tried all forms of hand action, edging, prostate massage and so on. My journey really started when I was 19 and a friend showed me his Fleshlight and I dared him to use it in front of me. Until that moment my jack off experiences had all been entirely solo and I’d never had an interest in men or seeing other dicks, but although I was really only kidding when I dared him to do it he got his cock hard cock out and slid into the toy right in front of me. I watched him jacking off with it and then he offered it to me and I got my cock out and slid into it too. We shared the toy and after he shot his load into it he dared me to do it too. From the moment I felt his warm cum inside it all over my cock I was splashing into it and having the best orgasm I think I’d ever experienced until that point.

We had a lot of similar experiences after that and our friendship only grew. We watched a lot of porn together and had competitions. We’d edge our dicks for hours and see who could last the longest or who could launch their cum the furthest. We regularly went camping and spent a lot of the time naked and masturbating. He dared me to jack him off and I dared him to do the same. That first time we masturbated each other was the most intense sexual experience I’d had even though I had a girlfriend at the time and enjoyed sex with women immensely.

I never considered myself bisexual. I enjoy both cocks and pussy, but when it comes to experiencing things with men it’s entirely masturbation. There is no romantic attachment, no desire to suck a dick or fuck another man. For me my interest with men begins and ends with masturbation and cum.

Having said that, the friendship I now have with my current masturbation buddy is so strong I feel it could last a lifetime. While we’re both married and in our 40’s and love our wives very much, the bond we have as bators is bigger than any traditional friendship or relationship I’ve experienced before.

We do a lot together it’s not just about jacking off. We work out together, we go fishing, we go camping, hiking, go to football games and everything else two friends would do. The difference is that when we’re alone and we’re in the mood we know we can get our cocks out and jack each other off. We don’t always jack each other. Sometimes we just like to have a beer and watch porn and see each other enjoying our own dicks.

Truly, men don’t know what they’re missing by not having this kind of friendship. It’s incredibly freeing to know that you can share something like this with another man, there’s an incredible level of trust and understanding between us, the kind of relationship you just can’t experience any other way.

Having the purely bate lust experience of meeting random guys and joining groups for bate parties is awesome too, but there’s something special about having that real close friendship where your cocks are familiar to both of you and you know exactly what it feels like when that spooge starts erupting from his dick.

It’s amazing that sites like this now exist and guys from all over can share their experiences and learn more about this very natural kind of friendship. Bate lust is awesome to enjoy between men and the camaraderie this promotes is one of the best aspects of it. I hope every reader here gets to experience the kind of friendship me and my buddy have, but if they want to enjoy the no-strings experiences of bathhouse bate fun or urinal jack off pleasures with random strangers that’s great too and a step in the right direction.

Can I make one suggestion to all those who seek out random experiences with things like the BuddyBate buttons? Swap numbers with the guys you meet, you never know when one of those chance encounters with a fellow masturbator will lead to a lifelong friendship with thousands of awesome sessions of shared pleasure and bonding.


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York
York
4 years ago

Absolutely wonderful to read of this strong bond and experiencing the joys of shared masturbation!

Michael
Michael
3 years ago
Reply to  York

I NEED a jack-off buddy over 60 west of Denver, Colorado, in the mountains.

Mike
Mike
1 year ago
Reply to  Michael

Saw this message from you on Buddybate
I NEED a jack-off buddy over 60 west of Denver, Colorado, in the mountains.

Still interested?

Mike

blknudist
blknudist
4 years ago

sounds great something we would all want..is the guy u have as a jo bud the same guy u started stroking with at 19? have u stroked with anyone besides him?

Kiy
Kiy
1 year ago
Reply to  blknudist

Hi there I need you

Cian
Cian
4 years ago

It does honestly sound incredible. Loved your story.

Jouster25
Jouster25
4 years ago

I’ve only ever jacked off with friends. First one was a good buddy in college after a mmf threesome we became real bate buds with frotting and hand jobs every few days. After college I found a new buddy and we’ve been jacking off ever since. I would still like to join a club or something though. I like the idea of having a big group of buddies to meet with for parties where it’s just all about watching porn and jacking each other. And I would never say no to a hard dick being stroked at the urinals or in the gym showers or something. Never miss an opportunity but I agree the friendship side of it makes it more fun.

Bud
Bud
2 years ago
Reply to  Jouster25

I fell the same way

Joel
Joel
3 years ago

I’ve got one semi regular jackoff buddy. We trade massage which always includes a handjob. When you have a regular trade, there’s a real comfort level and a respect of boundaries.
Also, I’m not embarrassed to be verbally or physically expressive. He’s seen me at my worst, or best lol. It’s fun to make him squirm and grunt too.
He’s learned how I like to be stroked once I begin to cum, and vice versa.

Paul
Paul
3 years ago
Reply to  Joel

I truly would love to find a stroking buddy in the Chicago area. I totally agree about feeling the jumping and pulsating cock in my hands, making another cock exploding in my hands would be an awesome experience!
Looking forward to my 1st experience with another male, us both wearing sexy lace panties and watching each other stroking ourselves in panties and exploring stroking each other’s cocks!
Paul

Koel
Koel
3 years ago
Reply to  Paul

I hope you can find someone, perhaps through this site. You might also check out the massage exchange website

Paul
Paul
3 years ago
Reply to  Joel

Joel,
Unfortunately I haven’t found a stroking buddy in the Chicago area as of yet, but I am actively looking for a like minded male in my area, someone who is in my age group and enjoys watching a solo male stroking himself in panties and being watched stroking himself and exploring stroking each other’s cocks.
Lucky for me, I do have a long time lady friend that loves seeing me wearing sexy lace panties and stroking myself for her enjoyment. And she usually will end up taking over my stroking and slowly give me a long edging, teasing handjob, in which I must always beg for her to let me Explode. She has amazing/awesome skillful hands and I really think she actually strokes me better than I do! But, she has encouraged me to explore my sexuality and desire for a mutual pleasure friend so I can live out my desires for experiencing the feeling of an experienced male stroking me and me stroking him, both of us feeling our long hard lubed up cocks jumping and pulsating in each other’s hands!
Paul

Paul
Paul
3 years ago

My 1st and only experience stroking another male cock, was when I was in my early 20’s. It was my older male mentor friend. He had an amazing/awesome 7’ inches of thick long hard cock , with a beautiful fully cut cock. After he and I got naked, and me watching him stroking himself, I followed his lead and started stroking myself, while he gave me instructions on my stroking skills. I learned so much about my sexuality and self pleasure. Well, over time, I got up the nerve to lube up my two hands and wrapping my hands around his 7’ s, I showed him the stroking skills he taught me. I as a straight married male, was so very surprised that I was really turned on by stroking him, and I totally got into stroking him. Feeling his cock jumping and pulsating in my hands, was such an amazing/awesome experience, knowing that I had total control of his Cock and making him Cum. Was a very big turn on. Seeing him exploding was an amazing experience. After that 1st time, we would get together about 2-3 times a month and watch porn videos and get naked and watch each other stroking ourselves, and always end up stroking each other’s cocks. It was the most erotic experience I had ever had at that early age in my life. As, I am 66 years old now, and very horny all the time, and love stroking myself watching solo males stroking themselves, I want to explore and experience those same feelings again!
I am actually looking for a helping hand stroking buddy who enjoys wearing sexy lace panties and stroking ourselves together, in the chicago area
Paul

Paul
Paul
2 years ago

I am abate-a-holic. I edge for hours, days if I could, non stop. I am in 50 in northern SC. I am fit 6-0 170 and 7″ x 5″ dick , single and healthy. I would like a jo buddy. Maybe we could start off by texting or whatever. I am new to this and have never did this before

Josh
Josh
1 year ago
Reply to  Paul

Hey. Text me. I’m new too. [info removed]

BuddyBateBrad
1 year ago
Reply to  Josh

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Daniel
Daniel
7 months ago
Reply to  Josh

I’m in Spartanburg…hit me up on Reddit/ Buddy_Bates

Paul
Paul
2 months ago
Reply to  Daniel

greenville sc,, fit for fit and new too,,,, would be cool to chat

Paul
Paul
2 months ago
Reply to  Josh

just now saw this message, new to this too.. maybe chat?

Daniel
Daniel
7 months ago
Reply to  Paul

I’m in Spartanburg…hit me up on Reddit/ Buddy_Bates

Mspjobud
Mspjobud
2 years ago

Looking for a bate bud around st paul mn…hard to find

Jack
Jack
1 year ago
Reply to  Mspjobud

I wouldn’t want to jerk another guy off, or be jerked off by him, but sometimes I think it would be fun to have a jerkoff buddy. I always try to produce the biggest thickest load I can, and I really enjoy it when I dump out an especially big, thick, powerful load. There’s a special sense of pride when the load is so huge that my equipment has to pump at 110% capacity, and feels like even that was barely enough to get it all out before the pressure caused a seal to blow. I never feel more masculine than when I see the huge splattering of goo, that my urethra could barely handle, because my balls and ejaculation muscles performed at an olympic level. I think it would be awesome to find another guy to do that with. We could even take ejaculation volume and fertility suppliments, save up for days, and empty our balls in the same spot, so there’s a horse sized load lying there. Man, that would be so much fun. I can just imagine the joyous laughter, and the “Holy shits” that would follow.

Joe
Joe
1 year ago

Id like a jerk off buddy in Ontario canada, I masturbate fairly often, first time doing this but Im open to try with one of you guys

James
James
6 months ago

i’m a straight old wet guy who never jerked off another guy but it looks like i could get into that

Morrobob42
Morrobob42
2 months ago
Reply to  James

I feel the same. I would like a buddy I could jerk with on video. Interested, message

Paul
Paul
2 months ago
Reply to  James

same here,, curious too

Paul
Paul
2 months ago
Reply to  Paul

I edge for so long about this topic

Dave
Dave
27 days ago

What a great contribution and how good to know these friendships occur. We should all hope for someone like that in our lives.

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