Where can I find new guys to wank with?

Submitted by MensroomStroker in Manchester

I’ve always found my wank experiences by cruising for cock in some mensrooms around the city, but in the last few years all the action seems to have dried up. It used to be that I could walk into one of several mensrooms in the city on any night of the week and find someone there at the urinals wanking his cock and waiting for someone to come in and join him, but now it’s far rarer.

I can sometimes find someone to stroke with on a Friday night but they’re usually so drunk they can’t cum and it’s a bit of a let down. Most of the time they’re drunk straight lads on their way home and although they seem eager and so many of them a fucking fit too it’s just too much work.

How do you recommend a man like me in his 30’s with a constant erection finds guys to wank with out there?

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Thanks for writing in!

First, I have to say that any sexual act with anyone in any public location can land you in a hell of a lot of trouble, often very public and very embarrassing trouble too. We might think it’s a thing of the past but sadly there are still cops out there wasting tax payer money on entrapping horny guys in mensrooms.

Now that little caveat is out of the way…

With the advent of sites like this one and apps like Grindr most hooking up and the majority of cruising for cock is taken out of the parks and mensrooms and into the virtual world. I’m guessing you identify as straight and have never wanted to download Grindr, but in all honesty it’s the easiest and best way to get what you’re looking for.

Think of it this way… you could be on a walk home from work and get a message from a guy who is literally just around the corner asking you if you want to go and meet in the park for a wank. It’s really that easy. It’s like you’re walking around with a big sign saying what you’re looking for, without actually being identifiable to anyone until you meet.

Believe me, I wasn’t that interested in getting Grindr before, but I can’t tell you how many random guys I’ve met at the pub, or at the park, or met up with in a back alley somewhere – all just looking for some shared cock fun.

The only problem with things like Grindr is that if all you’re looking for is a mutual wank it can be a little more difficult depending where you are and what you’re willing to do. There are plenty of guys on there and in your city who are looking for more than a wank. But you never know, you might find plenty of guys who are just looking for a quick stroke with a stranger.

If you’re specifically into public wanking with other guys then I would still suggest using something like Grindr and keeping in touch with the guys you meet, maybe pick a spot where you can regularly hook up, in the woods or in a derelict building somewhere.

Cruising for cock has changed, but it has become a lot easier.