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When did you realise you were into buddy bating?

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I'm always interested to know how we fall in love with this idea of shared masturbation. 

For me, I can honestly say I've been interested in comparing dicks from as long as I can remember and never missed an opportunity to do it with my friends.

What really cemented it for me is I saw a video by Blake Mason, the After Hours series where Luke Desmond and other star share a wank in a van outside a construction site. The pinnacle of this series, being Luke Desmond and Brez Wild on a camping trip together where they talk about their girls, their dicks and then compare before wanking and cumming together on-top of their sleeping bags. Part 2 things go a bit further but most of it is them just being naked together and enjoying their cocks.

Link Part 1

Link Part 2

The idea of having a friend I can be totally at ease with and sharing something as intimate and secret as wanking/jerking-off is really attractive to me. It's more than the kind of sexual relationship I can have with a partner.

Anyway, interested to hear what others think and how you arrived here at Buddy bate.

 

 


 
Posted : 26/02/2023 5:37 pm
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  • I’ve been a fan of shared masturbation since taking turns with other boys putting our erections up to the pool jets. Then after moving to a new town my best friend and I became bate mates in high school. Sharing intimate experiences with other guys is very exciting and invigorating. Now I’m married and I wish I could have the same mutual experiences that I had while growing up. So I started early and it didn’t last near long enough. Men have similar desires and it feels very natural to masturbate in the presence of other men. 

 
Posted : 02/03/2023 6:37 pm
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I started with friends back in the day, looking at porn and rubbing out some loads. It was easy, no big deal. Got into it more when I met guys cruising and had my first experience of handling another dick. Never looked back after that. Had loads of great wanks with loads of men since then.


 
Posted : 18/03/2023 10:06 am
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Posted by: @captainwhackit
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I started with friends back in the day, looking at porn and rubbing out some loads. It was easy, no big deal. Got into it more when I met guys cruising and had my first experience of handling another dick. Never looked back after that. Had loads of great wanks with loads of men since then.

Same for me.

Never was shy with my dick. Getting it out and having a good tug was just something mates did.

 


 
Posted : 18/03/2023 10:43 am
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I've been "into it" for as long as I've been wanking. I've always been fascinated by the thought of other lads wanking and what they get up to, and the idea of sharing the experience. But it took a long time for it to happen as a buddy thing, i.e. not in a relationship situation. Only started it in person in my early 30s. 

 

On a side note - I've not seen those vids in years, thanks for sharing the links, agree they're really horny!


 
Posted : 23/03/2023 5:33 am
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Unlike a lot of guys I did not experiment as a teenager, I grew up in a small Texas town and homophobia was rampant.  As I grew up and saw more of the world my horizons expanded but I still had my small town buddies.  

My first time jacking off with another guy was with one of those small town buddies.  We have known each other since 7th grade and were college roommates.  We stayed close after college and used to go out a lot chasing girls and we pulled our share of pussy.  We had several threesomes and DP'ed one lady.  As my cock was thrusting in her pussy I could feel his cock enter  her asshole.  It was the first time I had felt a cock other than my own.  It was amazing feeling.  We were both 39 at the and that situation stirred a cock curiosity in me.  I visited several adult bookstores and watched guys stroke their cocks and one time let a guy suck my cock through a gloryhole.  I have to admit that it was one of the best blowjobs I have ever had.  These experiences were hot but very impersonal.  

Fast forward 6 months...my buddy and I had both turned 40.  He had come up to visit and we had gone out drinking.  We arrived back at my place with out any ladies and both pretty drunk.  Not even thinking I threw some porn on my 70" flat screen, took of my pants, sat down in my LazyBoy and started stroking my hard cock - all the while forgetting he was on the couch to my right.  After about 5 minutes of enjoying a guy getting a blowjob from a big tit blonde the realization hit me....My buddy was to my right and I had my cock out.  He is going to think I have lost my mind, I have lost a friend!  I slowly looked to my right and there he was, slowly stroking his 8" hard cock.  My relief was palpable and I started back on my cock.  We spent the next hour and a half stroking and edging.  Watching the porn and watching each other stroke our hard cocks.  We talked about technique and the video.  Commenting on hot girls and several big cocks on the video.  Then I heard him gasp and I looked over to see his cock pulsating and his pace quicken.  I poured some more lube on my cock and started focusing on my cock head.  We were both so close!  Then he erupted and shot a huge wad on his chest.  Then I released, my cum shot partly hit me in the face, I had not done that since high school.  

The experience was intensely erotic and intimate.  I loved watching him stroke his hot cock and the sight of him cumming was amazing.  Since that time we have gotten together a lot to jack off.  I believe it has strengthened our friendship.  

Now I am thinking I want to stroke a cock, possibly even suck one.  The thought of a cock getting hard in my hand makes me rock hard. 


 
Posted : 29/03/2023 12:59 am
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@luvstroking2424 this is an awesome experience. Thanks for sharing. I feel the same way. Life is too short to pass up on having intimate moments with buddies. It’s a feeling that is indescribable. I love everything about the female form but I definitely would love to have a stroke & suck buddy.


 
Posted : 31/05/2023 9:43 pm
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From the first time it happened.


 
Posted : 22/06/2023 9:26 pm
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Posted : 27/06/2023 6:12 pm
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My experience was similar to @luvstroking2424 where growing up in a larger Texas town during the 80s and 90s at the height of the AIDS epidemic and firmly in the bible belt didn't fair well with bating. But we were a fun and free bunch so when a buddy and I scored some DP action in our late 20s we started wanking and sucking each other off from there. We haven't connected like that since 2002 but we still have that affect on each other and would drop trou in an instant if we didn't live in different countries now.


 
Posted : 19/04/2024 9:07 am
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Long story, my and my best mate from back home got kind of sent on a try out staying at Uni for a couple of nights. It was part of a scheme to get more people into higher education but it was a bullshit project really. It was in the college break and we were totally unsupervised so lad carnage ensued.

Basically it was just the two of us in a distant town that we'd have no intention of going back to so it didn't matter what impression we left behind. We went on a beer mega session and it was still quite new to us at the time so we really went for it plus my mate had left his car at home. 

After we'd hit the town that night we were staggering  back up the steep hill to our accommodation with our kebabs. We'd lost our shirts and the cold was starting to sober us up a bit. My mate said he'd always wanted to walk through a town naked and this seemed like the ideal oppo so would I join him?

I said yeah, so we got back to my room which was closest and debagged, then strutted back down the hill to town bollock naked. I was a bit nervous but I admitted it felt great with the cold night air round my bollocks. We got to the bridge and turned round to go back. We thought no one had seen us but then we heard a female giggle and a bloke called out "You alreet lads?" This guy and his missus had been following us all the way and she'd been getting an eye full...

So we fled, got back to my room and collapsed laughing. Knowing we'd been checked out naked by a lass was getting me a bit horny, so I just told my mate I was gonna have a wank. I just didn't give a shit, I needed the relief.

I sprawled sideways across my bed and started beating some blood into my donger, my mate just stood by the door and stared. So I told him I wasn't doing a private show if he wanted to stay he had to join in. It was like I'd given him permission to wank and he started going at it. Then he said he was gonna wank in the corridor because there might be girls there. I was about to tell him that it was a fucking stupid idea but he'd already gone. I stopped wanking and listened. I could hear the unmistakable fap-fap sound from the corridor and couldn't believe he was such an exhibitionist lol, then the door burst open and he fell into the room and slammed it behind him. I asked WTF and he said he thought he heard a girl...

He wanked with his back to the door, obviously checking me out and then moved closer I shifted along the bed and we lay side by side working cock. It felt amazing, like being honest for the first time. It felt raw, can't describe it any other way. Very male and good, I guess.

We talked about cock and techniques and obviously size. His was longer but it was tapered and thinner than mine, whilst I easy maybe half an inch shorter but way wider. He said mine looked like a better cock, I didn't feel like I could lie so I just pretended I hadn't heard. Instead I changed the subject and told him that we should practice wearing condoms for when we got chance to fuck girls (Except in our shared lingo we called them "Easy riders" not condoms). I'd got a packet with me because the idea of being laid was always just round the corner. The were black and when I rolled it down my fuckstem I thought my dong looked magnificent.

 

So we beat our meat in black condoms and it felt mad. I was getting close to cumming and starting to whimper and moan and swearing about "Fucking cumming" and writhing and then I couldn't keep my eyes open and I was nutting it out.

It took me a bit to calm down when I opened my eyes my mate had peeled his own condom off and was trying to keep his jizz inside it and I asked him when had he cum and he told me straight after me. I'd no idea he'd orgasmed and I told him I didn't know you could shoot silent but violent and he was all why did I need to do all the swearing bastard stuff when I came. So I learnt that some guys cum quiet and some of us can't help but erupt and cocks come in mad different shapes but all that matters is wanking alongside the good buddy that that cock belongs to. It changed my fucking life.


 
Posted : 24/04/2024 8:44 am
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very early on, I started to bate with my best friend and it felt absolutley fantastic. From that day forward, anytime I get an opportunity to bate with a friend, I'm all in. 


 
Posted : 24/04/2024 3:33 pm
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hard to say when its happen


 
Posted : 27/05/2024 3:15 pm
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@uncut-smallcock ha ha yeah I think that's something I would remember!


 
Posted : 05/06/2024 1:32 pm
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Posted by: @captainwhackit
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I started with friends back in the day, looking at porn and rubbing out some loads. It was easy, no big deal. Got into it more when I met guys cruising and had my first experience of handling another dick. Never looked back after that. Had loads of great wanks with loads of men since then.

Exactly the same. Had buds with porn tapes and stroking dick was just something we did. Saw all my buddies splooging and they all saw me. Had a lot of great times just kicking back with cocks in fists watching porn and talking shit while we worked our dicks.

Had a break from it in my 20s. Too much pussy around. Got back into it with a bud in my 30s.

 


 
Posted : 19/06/2024 9:33 am
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@luvstroking2424 have you thought about sucking your buddy off?


 
Posted : 04/07/2024 9:30 am
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@wsb678 I have and I would in a second if I knew he was good with it.  Dont wanna ruin a great friendship!


 
Posted : 18/07/2024 11:11 am
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Somewhere in 2021. My fiancée and I had ended our relationship and I wanted to try it with a guy out of curiosity.


 
Posted : 17/09/2024 7:13 pm
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I remember after my first year of university having my first bate experience. It was also the first time I touched myself in any way in front of someone.  Not even a girlfriend. And I realized there was something more primal about touching ourselves while both seeing and being seen.


 
Posted : 19/09/2024 8:57 pm
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Posted by: @luvstroking2424
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@wsb678 I have and I would in a second if I knew he was good with it.  Dont wanna ruin a great friendship!

I'd definitely let you suck me off. I'd return the favor! 

 


 
Posted : 19/10/2024 3:19 pm
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