An older buddy taught me to jerk off but after that I’d compare pubes and body hair development with friends and would lobe to compare. Haven’t stopped since 

@uncut-smallcock I think he may have meant he isn't sure when the idea first crossed his mind and he thought it might be fun.

As for me, I was probably about 20 when the thought first crossed my mind, although I was well into my 30s before I actually thought it might not be a terrible idea to attempt to find someone to try it with. Thanks to growing up gay in the Bush 43 years, I'm fairly guarded to put it mildly about those things.

From the 1st time that I had the opportunity to do a Stroking session with a long ago older male mentor friend, I was hooked. Then I really actually started when I was an older man, it’s then that I realized how amazing it was! 
M2M mutual masturbation is an awesome experience!

paul 

After my 1st time with a guy, and we ended up buddy Bating! It was many years later, about 30 years later, that I discovered Mutual masturbation with another like minded male friend, he was older than me at the time. I was 55 years old and he was 65 years old. We just kinda found each other through the website, Doublelist.com! I had been looking for a like minded guy who enjoyed wearing sexy lace panties and wanted someone to watch me stroking myself. Well, we agreed to meet up at the forest preserve, and we found ourselves both wearing sexy lace panties under our shorts. As we sat on a bench, and showing off our panties, we both kinda reached out and started sliding our hands on each other’s Cocks. That lead to me going over to his house, to explore mutual stroking!!after that experience, I was totally hooked on Buddy Bating 

paul 

@pme14 I so very much wish I would be so liucky as all you folls in finding someone to share the wonder of mutual bate or even just virtual camming  - I find it  so thrilling to show off

For me it was in the 90's during the peak of Yahoo Groups.

Found a few that were into Celeb jerking. 

While chatting with a few guys, we would often chat about jerking each other to pics of the celeb and I found myself very turned on by it.

I did it for real when I turned 40 and haven't looked back since.

@frank_keenan 

Frank, try out the website, Doublelist.com, in your area. It’s free and easy to join and I have found some awesome Stroking buddies from this site. I have even met up with a couple of them over the past 2-3 years. Guys who enjoy wearing sexy lace panties and helping me with exploring my sexuality with M2M mutual stroking pleasures! I have also tried out, Solotouch, and NewbieNudes, and my newest website, Motherless!

Good Hunting,

paul

@pme14 Thank you o very much - 

I've for reasons that can only be that my id seems to have been black listed I've lost access on Teams, Telegram etc.

 I go back to the day ss of Yahoo Messenger and private user rooms  where and when ( 30+ years ago, I discovered the thrill and really increased pleasure in sharing masturbation while sharing the experience with others even if only on camera

@pme14 Thank you @pm14

I just wish there would be someaway to not have to disclose critical personal data t join those sites

I'd love to be anonymous  to a site and offer my swinging balls as I edge/stroke to a jyful completion shared with viewers -  banned from the defunct Skype, now zoom and teams - tet seem to ban on the argument that swinging balls are harmful

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I'm always interested to know how we fall in love with this idea of shared masturbation. 

For me, I can honestly say I've been interested in comparing dicks from as long as I can remember and never missed an opportunity to do it with my friends.

What really cemented it for me is I saw a video by Blake Mason, the After Hours series where Luke Desmond and other star share a wank in a van outside a construction site. The pinnacle of this series, being Luke Desmond and Brez Wild on a camping trip together where they talk about their girls, their dicks and then compare before wanking and cumming together on-top of their sleeping bags. Part 2 things go a bit further but most of it is them just being naked together and enjoying their cocks.

Link Part 1

Link Part 2

The idea of having a friend I can be totally at ease with and sharing something as intimate and secret as wanking/jerking-off is really attractive to me. It's more than the kind of sexual relationship I can have with a partner.

Anyway, interested to hear what others think and how you arrived here at Buddy bate.

 

 

Thanks for sharing those links! As for me, I started M2M mutual stroking together with I was just 22 years old when an older male mentor friend taught me all about Self Stroking pleasures! After that, I did actually start enjoying and experimenting with mutual stroking, until I was in my 50’s! After I discovered that I really enjoyed watching guys stroking themselves together! I wanted to learn more, so, I ended up in the website, Doublelist.com and I found a like minded guy in my age range of 45-75 years old, who wanted to explore more about M2M mutual stroking! When we 1st got together, I couldn’t believe at how amazing that experience was!

now that I am 71 years old, I always check on Doublelist, for a fellow stroking partner! 
I think that mutual stroking buddies are an amazing experience! Male to male stroking bonding is a great way to explore oneself! Especially after my 1st experience with doing Frothing together!
Paul