Submission from Bob
What advice can you give for meeting or approaching somebody to be a buddybate?
This is something we get asked a lot around these parts and we’ve been trying to find a way to make this more prominent on the blog. Maybe we need to add a link to it at the top?
You would be surprised how many guys are actually into wanking with other guys, and there are all types of reasons for it. For some it’s just not considered a big deal, others want to share masturbation because it brings them closer as friends, some have a specific fetish for masturbation or seeing another dick being enjoyed. Then, of course, there are plenty of bisexual and gay men who just enjoy rubbing it with other guys.
There are all kinds of ways to meet someone into it, or seeing if someone you already know is down for getting dicks out and stroking.
If you’ve already got a friend in mind, someone you think might be interested in stroking together, you could just ask him. Most guys probably wouldn’t be comfortable with taking such an obvious leap so you could just try to arrange a situation where the opportunity is there. For instance, a lot of guys here have got into wanking with an existing friend just by leaving some porn out when their friend is over for a beer one evening. Are there many guys who wouldn’t be wanting to get their cock out for a wank when some good porn is right there waiting to be enjoyed? You might need to get that started and show it’s perfectly fine to haul it out and have some fun, but most guys would likely be willing.
If there isn’t a guy you know who you think would be into it then you could always go looking on apps, forums and blogs. You could set up a disposable email account and just leave some comments here with your location, or check out Craigslist, or even download Grindr and just let guys know your limitations.
I hope that helps. There’s plenty more information around on the blog so just do a little reading around here and you should find some more helpful advice in other posts.
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