Porn magazines got us wanking together
Submitted by Peter M
I answered the poll about porn magazines and left a comment and Brad asked me to send in my experience so here goes…
I never had porn magazines when I was about that age to enjoy them so I feel like I missed out on a lot of opportunities other guys seem to have had with their friends in the ’80s and ’90s. I found out my brother had been luckier than me and enjoying magazines back then when I found some in a box in my parent’s garage when I was cleaning it all out for them a few years ago.
I found 2 copies of Private and 3 Color Climax magazines. I think the Private ones were from the ’90s and the others from the ’80s. They were in the bottom of a box of books and football trophies my brother had left behind when he moved out about a year before I did. I never knew he had them at the time.
My brother still doesn’t know I’ve got them. He got the rest of his stuff but I think he thinks our mum found them and threw them out. It was probably dad who cleaned out his room which is why he put them in the box with the rest of his stuff.
So I took the magazines home and put them in my garage, which later became my workshop. No one else goes in there so they’re pretty safe. It’s also where I happen to do most of my own masturbating.
After a while I found a guy online who was selling magazines and I bought some more from him. I don’t know why I did but it was just interesting to me to see the magazines I never had the chance to enjoy back in the day.
Fast forward a couple of years and I was working on a garden bench for my neighbor’s sister (I’m a carpenter) when he found my secret collection of magazines in their box under the workbench. He was a little bit younger than me at around 35, I was 48 at the time. This was before the idea of masturbating with other men was even a thought. I’d never done anything like that and had no interest in it, or so I believed. I told my friend how I came into possession of them and he lamented that he’d thrown his magazines out years before and wished he’d kept them. He told me about wanking with his mates looking through them and before I really knew what was happening we were sitting on the nearly finished garden bench and wanking together.
It was a surprisingly liberating experience. I’m not a very timid or shy person so it wasn’t a dramatic moment for me like it seems to be for some other readers who write in it was just a lot of fun and exciting to have that experience with another guy. We enjoyed the magazines and both jizzed into some rags. I remember being impressed with his dick. I’ve got a good one, it’s about 7 inches but quite slim. His was a little longer and thicker than mine and very pink and smooth too. It was a nice looking dick I have to admit.
That kind of opened my eyes to the whole idea of sharing that with another man. Really I’d never thought about it being something that guys would do together but seeing his cock and letting him see mine while we climaxed together was quite something and I was soon thinking about it more after that.
For a couple of weeks I assumed it was probably just a one-off thing. We were both married and and as far as I knew he was straight so I just thought it was just a weird unexpected thing, we let our dicks get the better of us or something. He got his bench for his sister and I thought that would be the end of it but then he came over one day and asked if he could make a coffee table and wanted me to teach him some things, just to be there to guide him through it while I was working on another project. I wasn’t sure about it at first because I prefer to work alone, I don’t usually like having anyone hanging around. I relented and said okay.
I’m glad I did. A week after the first Sunday afternoon working on our respective projects he brought over a couple of magazines he’d found online and soon we were standing by my workbench and wanking again 🙂
That’s how our friendship has been ever since. He reads the blog too and he said he might write about some of his experiences. We still meet every week and enjoy our shared masturbation sessions. We always have at least one “project” we can work on as an excuse.
When I found this blog a couple of years ago I told him about it and we decided to try frottage and edging each other. For the longest time we hadn’t even thought about masturbating each other or making contact in that way but while I think we were both a little nervous about it it’s been a great experience and we continue to enjoy it every week.
It’s a social thing for us. Working on the project and sharing our masturbation are just parts of our friendship, like watching football or going to the pub. We do all those things too but our enjoyment of shared masturbation is my favourite part of our friendship.
So in answer to the poll about whether porn magazines can get friends into shared masturbation together I can say without hesitation that it’s a good way to get things started. I’d never planned any of it but I’m very glad it happened. We still add to the collection now and then when we find someone selling something interesting online. There are a lot of great magazines out there and one day they’ll all be gone which is a sad thought. I plan to keep our collection and grow it slowly over time, just giving me and my friend something new and interesting occasionally.
Thank you for creating this site and giving men like us an outlet for horny masturbation experiences and knowledge. While I think we would probably still be masturbating together I’m not sure we would have taken the step to try frottage or helping each other if it weren’t for BuddyBate and the experiences of others to inspire us. I hope this post might inspire some other readers out there to give it a try and see how much fun can be added to their friendships.
Hi Peter!
Thank you for sending in your experience. It’s always great to find out what our readers enjoy and knowing that we might have inspired you and your friend into trying something new, and discovering how much you enjoy it, is a real bonus.
Of course we always love to read about when members of our community discovered this side to their enjoyment of masturbation but it’s especially fun to discover we had a part to play in it. That’s also why we created the BuddyBate button project, we know that quite a few guys have enjoyed encounters with others because of that and whenever we hear from someone who’s had an experience thanks to us we love to share it.
May you enjoy many more years of friendship between you.
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This is great! My brother used to get porn magazines when he went to Charleston for work now and then and I would get them eventually. Led to good times jacking it with my buddies, passing the magazines around and busting a nut together. Thanks for writing your story down man, got me rubbing it here!
Thanks for sharing mate, got my rocket ready to fire off.
Great experience! I use videos to get me and my mates wanking. Never fails.
Am I weird that I never even seen a porn magazine?
I don’t think it’s weird. Porn magazines are much more rare these days. They are a kind of novelty now though, a good way for guys to get into jacking off together. If you can get some magazines and you tell a buddy about them they’ll probably want to see. That gives you a chance to get into the mood for a shared jackoff. 🙂