Keen to explore the flexible side in Sydney, Australia
Just stumbled across this website and the terminology actually.
I had been in a hetero relationship for the past 5-6 years. I can’t say that I find the men attractive nor do I feel any connection romantically to men at all, very much the opposite. I do however, find dicks so fkn great. I do have an attraction to dick, not the person or personality (so much) that is attached to that dick. I have a theory that there is no spectrum on which our sexuality rests, it’s purely a social construct. If you follow back along through history men are taught to be men and love women and women are taught to find yourself a bloke settle down and pump a few kids out. It’s ingrained in society that anything other than the white picket fence with the one person for the rest or your life. Myself for example, felt so fucking weird for so long wondering if other guys ever just wanted to bond or purely have a wank with a mate and go on like nothing happened. But there are so many variables then brought into it. It becomes a big mess, excuse the pun.
In a nutshell, I don’t think there is a natural spectrum on which our sexuality lies, it’s the way you feel most comfortable as to fit in.
I’m also of the belief that if two seemingly completely straight men, complete strangers, were left in the opportunistic environment of being alone anonymously together, they’d explore their sexuality lightly and go their separate ways never to mention it again.
So, along my own journey I’ve been hoping to find like minded guys, my own age (28) fit and healthy and aren’t a wolf in sheep’s clothing (extremely camp fussy queens) pretending they just had a nice big bowl of pussy for dinner, as to not diminish their chances. That sounds more egotistical than is inferred. Anyhow, apologies for the long ass essay post, just my two cents ? but if you fall into the category of nearly straight, under 30 and interested in purely light mutual play. Let me know 🙂 I’m in Sydney.
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Hey there!
This sounds exactly like what ive been looking for!
Straight here and just looking for a buddy to bond over porn!
Let me know thoughts.
Hey, totally know what you mean. I’m keen, hit me up on Snapchat (sydotter) or Kik shdshygeek
Why “never mention it again” ? Why should it be some kind of dirty shameful secret that mustn’t be spoken of? The comment about “camp fussy queens” comes over as homophobic. It sounds like a very black and white “us and them” view. We are the straight dudes who just like dick but the ones who like more than a wank, who maybe feel dare I say it “an emotional connection” or an urge to place said dick in a orifice must therefore be less masculine or “queens”.
It’s all just labels. If you truly do believe in fluid sexuality why should there be a need to categorise people? Gay men can be just as masculine and even more so than straight men. Straight men do not have a monopoly on masculinity. Sorry but this all comes across as fear of being perceived as “gay”.
Agree with nick. Less homophobia more wanking
Long time no speak..
apologies for the way the words came across. Yes I wholeheartedly believe in fluid sexuality albeit a heated discussion point with whomever I strike the conversation with..
On one hand, gay men and their typical response “HA oh you just don’t know yourself yet, you’ll come out one day” which is always backed with such jealousy and bitterness because they have no choice (in most cases) of which sex theyd like to engage with. On the other hand, are the homophobes who screech “poof” because you fucking dare to be completely comfortable and accepting of fluid sexuality. I am just not comfortable however, around feminine men. Apologies if that causes dismay but now we can maybe move on.