Lonely married guy looking to bond with a buddy in Calhan, Colorado

I’m a 30 year old dude who is disabled, but always told I look good. Have a lightly hairy dad bod, 5’11” and 217 lbs, full bearded. I’m gay, but biromantic and happily married to a straight woman who encourages me to find a guy to bond with, so no need to be secretive about it on my end, but I can be quiet and respectful on your end. I’d love to hang out, bate, enjoy the sight of another man (can be a straight bro, no problem there), etc. IF desired, I’d also really enjoy helping my bro out with edging, cuddling, or such as we bate. Looking mostly for someone within a +/- 10 year age difference since that’s an easier range to relate to for me, and if you’ve got a beard, scruffy or clean, I’d always compliment it too!

Can easily be someone who just wants to bate and go, or alternatively someone who wants to chat and look into new interests, to talk about cats, or to game together. Either is fine. I could occasionally head off to Colorado Springs if needed too, but further locations might be rough.

Can’t do weed or dogs when we hang out–too allergic to both, unfortunately.