Looking for local straight minded bud in Essex, England

39 from Southend area, looking for a like-minded local bud of 25-55 to get off over mutual straight turn ons. Ideally with another married/partnered newbie, but not essential.

Please be in reasonable shape, clean, sane, and relaxed.

I cannot host but travel within reason or split hotel room costs.

Looking to build rapport online first. Please message on Skype: cyntex104