My best friend from college was a bator, and I didn’t know
Submitted by BalkanBro
I’m a 29 year old white dude from North Macedonia, but I live in the United States. I’ve been living in the U.S. for seven years now, so I moved here right after graduating from college at the age of 22.
I’m straight, but I have always enjoyed looking at other guys’ cocks. North Macedonia (which was just the Republic of Macedonia, until recently, but I’m using the new name in this post just so people can look it up and see where it’s located) is a pretty conservative country and different then the U.S. in a lot of ways, but one thing that’s different is the public showers at the gyms and the saunas that you can find and go to in pretty much any major city in America, and there are virtually no such places in North Macedonia (at least, not that I’m aware of).
When I first moved to the U.S. I didn’t really have much time to explore my kinky side right away because I had to settle in and find a job first, but after the first two years, I started discovering that I liked looking at pumping cocks and guy’s cuming, and that it turned me on. So, I looked for bators in the city I used to live in and I started meeting up with these two bros, for gym sessions and bating sessions after that, and I was having a great time. I was still hooking up with girls from time to time, and I even dated a girl for about four years, but I prefer to take care of myself rather than do it with someone else (guy or a girl).
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I go back to North Macedonia once a year, and when I do I usually stay for about two or three weeks, mostly to see my family and my friends. I have a lot of friends over there, but I only have two best buddies and during the seven years I’ve been living in the U.S. one of them got married and the other one got engaged.
My married friend has been my friend for the longest time, but my other one is a guy I met in college, because we used to be roommates. I’ve seen both of my friends naked on multiple occasions during the years that we’ve hung out and lived together respectively, and I’ve always found my engaged friend’s (let’s call him K in this post) dick beautiful to look at, because while I lived in North Macedonia it was the longest and straightest cock I’ve ever seen.
So, this year in the summer of 2019 when I went back to visit, I decided to post an anonymous post on a GPS-based sharing app that I am looking for other bators in North Macedonia or Greece to meet up with. The first two days no one responded to it, because not a lot of people use the app over there, but on the third day this guy responded that he wanted to meet up, but he was about two hours away from me. Because I’ve never masturbated with anyone from my country before, I decided it was worth the drive, so I told him I was free the next day if he wanted me to meet him there. He agreed and I said I would message him when I get there.
One thing I didn’t consider was the fact that a lot of young people in North Macedonia still live in their parents houses, some even in their 30s and some never leave, just because that’s how the community is over there and it’s expensive and almost impossible to move out on your own and stay in your hometown. But, that didn’t dawn on me until I was almost there. When I got there, I decided to meet up with my best friend from college who lived in the same town, and I was going to see anyways for a chat and a cup of coffee or lunch. I met up with him first, and hung out with him and his fiance, and then I said I had to leave and go back to my hometown because I was flying out two days after that visit.
After I parted ways with my friend and his fiance, I messaged the guy on the app, and he didn’t respond. I went and did some shopping, and about an hour later he responded, saying that he was still down if I was. I told him that I was shopping and I asked if he can host. He said he cannot because he still lives with his parents, but he said he knew a cool spot where we can go stroke in peace, if I didn’t mind. I told him that I didn’t, but that I could also get a room in a hotel if that would be more convenient. He said that that would be a bad idea, because everybody knows everybody in his small town and that he didn’t want anyone to know that he was in a hotel room with a stranger and a guy at that, which I totally understood so I told him that I would meet him wherever he told me to go.
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After he gave me the location, I had a bit of trouble finding it, but eventually I got there. I had to park my car and hike for another twenty minutes, because the place he told me about isn’t car accessible, which made sure that no one was going to bother us.
You cannot imagine my shock when I got there and I saw my buddy that I had lunch with an hour and some change before waiting for me. At first, none of us said anything, we just kind of gawked at each other. He blushed and I think that I also did, but also my heart was pumping so hard that I felt like I was going to have a heart attack.
I only asked: “How long?”
And he was like: “Since before college, with a friend of mine.”
He told me that he used to do it with his friend for a while after he returned back in his hometown after college, but that his friend moved to The Netherlands and he hadn’t been able to find another one, but that he still stroked to online videos of buddies bating together and checked random apps and online chatrooms looking for someone from North Macedonia who’d be down. I told him that I didn’t start doing it until I moved to the U.S. but that I love it more than anything, and he told me he felt the same.
By that point, our conversation got us both hard, and we pulled our cocks out and started rubbing them. I’ve touched couple of dicks before, but I tend to bate with dudes who are solosexuals and we don’t do mutual touching, but I was really eager to get my hand on my buddy’s cock, and I asked him if he was down, and he said that he’d let me only if I let him. We stroked for a bit, but I was so excited that I busted my nut pretty fast, and he did right after I did.
But we didn’t stop. We continued chatting, about all the lost opportunities we while we both went to college in Skopje and lived together in a dorm, just the two of us and after we got hard again, we decided to rub our dicks against one another. I’ve never done anything like that, but because this was my second best friend in the world, I trusted him and he trusted me. I came so hard even the second time, splashing my cum all over his stomach, and he used it to lubricate himself and came between us not long after. I wanted to try docking, and go for another run, but he unfortunately had to go back to his fiance because he said that they have to get ready for dinner with their godparents and discuss things about the wedding.
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We said goodbye again, glad that we are on the same page and glad that we bonded even more, because this is the one of three people I talk to almost on weekly bases, the other two being my parents and my other best friend. His wedding is in October and I’m going back to North Macedonia because I wouldn’t miss my best friend’s wedding for anything in the world, and we’ve talked a couple of times since I’ve been back that we want to try docking next time. I’ve always been curious about docking, but never trusted anyone to do it with. Now I can’t wait for October.
I really hope that soon there would be a page open for bators from North Macedonia in the Personals on here, because I’d love to meet more Macedonians who are down to whip their cocks out and share a good nut with their bros.
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Wow, what are the odds? Amazing story. Now, you’ve really bonded. Let us know what happens in October. I dont know if you have Bachelor’s Party over there, but sounds like you dont need one. Just the two of you would be enough.
Wow great experience. Sounds hot. Hope you have fun again with your friend and let us know about 😉
I would love to know what app you used, man.
But you probably don’t want to discuss it in public.
I’m looking for bate bros myself, that’s why I’m asking
Man I loved your story. It’s really nice to know that there are few more bators here in Macedonia. I’ve been living in Skopje (the capital of Macedonia) for 9 years now and I had chance to meet some cool bators over the years. Thanks for sharing.