Outdoor wank meet in South London Mitcham Carshalton etc. UK

Looking for friendly open minded chaps between 40-60. I’m married, so am discreet and also require discretion. Also cannot host, but happy meeting for a pint and a chat before agreeing to move on somewhere. Happy to be in the open air but not openly public. EG. woodland, common etc. Yes basically having a hidden wank in the bushes. I know of a few places locally that are not used often by other people. I’m a motorcyclist, so happy to travel a few miles for some fun. Have been wondering about connecting in London since moving here over a year ago. Left my regular buddies down in the west country.

I’m interested in being wanked off and wanking off someone else. Possibly more in time depending on personal comfort of both parties. Oral etc…? who knows. Watch this space.