The wonderful art of cock edging

If you don’t know what cock edging is then you haven’t lived. Sit back, pay attention, then book yourself some time completely free of distractions and interruptions to experiment for yourself and experience the most intense climax you have ever had.

No, I’m not exaggerating when I say that this will probably be the most incredible climax you will have ever experienced, if you do it right.

What is cock edging?

Cock or cum edging (also known as Gooning) is the act of taking yourself close to climax, then stopping. Rinse and repeat. It really is that simple. This is not some magical or mysterious practice requiring years of dedicated study or constant honing of skills, although there is no doubt that the more you practice this technique the longer you can last and the more intense the resulting climax will be.

If you’re just starting out and exploring cock edging for the very first time then that’s pretty much all you need to know. Do what you would normally do, just stop yourself before you cum and let your cock calm down a little. Do this as many times as you can before finally letting your cum spew. If you’re new to the process you might find it almost impossible to resist cumming when you feel it approaching, but try, and try again. Hold it back as long as you can. You’ll thank me for it later.



Advanced cock edging

Once you have the basics down you can really start to explore things. If you’ve done it for the first time already you know what the pleasure is like, but now imagine that multiplied again. I have a list of things which will make your initial exploration of cock edging a little more interesting and set you on the path of becoming an advanced cock edger.

  • Hydration

Before you start your session drink plenty of water. Most men are dehydrated already, the average person doesn’t drink nearly enough water. If you’re planning ahead then spend the day just drinking water, avoid coffee and tea and just have a glass of water every hour. Don’t over do it, just drink a healthy amount of water throughout the day. If you’re not planning ahead, drink a pint or two before settling into your session.

  • Lube

A good lubricant is essential. I know most of you probably just wank dry, using precum or spit, but to get a real close and intense sensation you need a good lube. If you’re planning on using any toys obviously pick a water based lubricant, but if you’re going hands-only I would recommend something silicone or oil based like Stroke 29.

  • Porn

I would recommend enjoying a long porn movie. Don’t be tempted to skip through as you might normally do, just hit play and let it run in the background. There are a lot of guys who can really enjoy their cock without any porn at all, and if you can then that’s great, just focus on the pleasure and enjoying your dick without it. The idea is that you want your sex drive to be heightened, as it is when you spend an hour in front of your computer searching for that ideal video to wank off too 🙂

  • Toys

I think toys should be a part of every guys masturbation play, but then I’ve always believed in exploring masturbation in all kinds of ways. If you have a good toy then feel free to use it and increase that pleasure as far as you can, and I would recommend using a cock ring too. A good cock ring can give you greater pleasure simply by the fact that surface area is increased and access to the most sensitive areas of your cock is far more pronounced. When you have a hard and throbbing erection assisted by a cock ring you have a lot more to play with and pleasure, and the ultimate climax will be heightened as a result.

  • Stopping yourself

This is the hardest part of cock edging. We all know that when the urge to cum arrives it’s all we can think about. Going over that edge and letting your cock spasm as your cum fires out is so incredibly hard to deny. Once the process starts it can often be too late. The first little dribble of cum from your helmet is usually the point of no return and it’s followed by a gushing torrent. However, some guys can learn to cum a little, stop, let their cock relax, then start again. You need to learn the point of no return and stop yourself right before it, as many times as you can in a single session. There are some practitioners who can do this for hours, holding themselves at the point of climax until just the mere thought of ejaculation has them unloading.



What you can expect

The pleasure is intense, there is no doubting that. Whether you’re experienced or not, every man can achieve this kind of incredible pleasure just by taking time and holding back repeatedly.

The first thing you’ll notice is that the urge to cum becomes more and more intense each time you deny yourself that climax. Your cock will become more and more sensitive to touch each time. After several pauses, allowing yourself to clam down before getting back to wanking, you’ll likely discover that it takes a shorter and shorter amount of time to reach the point of climax. Ultimately, you’ll probably find that just a fingertip against your helmet causes your cock to throb and that sensation of climax about to arrive. More experienced men can reach a point where just imagining something can make them ejaculate. If you’ve ever seen “hands free cum shot” videos this is most likely the result of edging their cock for a long time before they turned the camera on.

If you’ve reached this point then climax is inevitable. You are now at a stage of near perpetual climax, where just a slight breeze might have your cum gushing out. This is the ideal state to be in for many, it’s the ultimate goal. You can now relax and simply enjoy the sensations running through your body while your shaft throbs and oozes. The pleasure experienced at this point is the closest you are ever likely to get to multiple climax. A single finger against the shaft or a tug of the balls can have your dick firing off at any moment, and your body is tensing with each wave of pleasure rushing through you.

If you’re hydrated and you’ve spent a good amount of time getting to this point, the ejaculation you experience is likely to be the most incredible ejaculation you have ever known. Perhaps I should have mentioned previously that it’s a good idea to have a towel ready.

Most men when reaching this point and finally allowing themselves to fully climax will ejaculate a considerably large mess of cum. It’s not uncommon for a cock edging session to result in a powerful fountain of semen erupting out of your cock and raining down all over the place. Some men who usually cum an average amount find themselves gushing cum like a porn star after a good cock edging session. It’s not guaranteed, as there are so many factors involved in semen production and the amount you shoot generally, but as long as you’re hydrated and have taken your time to reach this climax most men should experience a much, MUCH larger ejaculation.

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6 thoughts on “The wonderful art of cock edging

  • December 9, 2015 at 12:35 pm
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    I love edging my cock and getting a big load. I used to only last one cycle, so I would cum after only stopping myself once. After a couple of months I can now last a lot longer and stop myself about 6 times before my cock becomes too sensitive. The last time I did it a couple of days ago my dick was throbbing after stopping about 5 times and all I needed to do was imagine my cum firing out and that was it, my dick was convulsing without me touching it and my cum was splashing all over me and the sofa.

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  • December 12, 2015 at 4:44 pm
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    I love to edge, but I don’t last too many cycles. But that is OK with me, because a good cum after a couple of cycles is awesome!

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  • October 26, 2016 at 3:25 am
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    Once you’ve been able to achieve that advanced edging, and really learn to completely MASTER it to the point that you barely if ever need to remove your hand fully to keep from cumming (just changing pace or focusing on the base, for example, instead of stopping completely), you are well on the road to the goon. Gooning is where it’s at. You MUST master the advanced edging mentioned above, where you get to that stage of near perpetual climax.

    The article says most guys let themselves cum when they reach this point, but YOU MUST RESIST!

    Not only must you resist, you must also maintain this stage to as close to PONR as possible without going over for as long as possible. You literally become hypnotized by the POWERFUL feeling surging from your cock and throughout your entire body. Cock, body, and mind all merge into a single entity at this point, and your cock becomes the exact center of the whole entire universe.

    The longer you keep yourself at this point, the deeper the goon becomes. The deeper the goon becomes, and closer and closer you can get to PONR without the fear of crossing over until you are ultimately ready. It will be so very difficult to resist going over the edge and feeling the most awesome and powerful orgasm ever yet at the very same time the immense power surging through and emanating from your cock over your entire body will be difficult to want to give up, knowing that to get there again requires starting from scratch.

    I don’t care too much for quickie masturbation (a quickie for me would be less than an hour) and therefore almost always save myself for edging sessions. I’d say 1.5 to 3 hour sessions would be a normal edge. Every once in a while I have enough time (3+ hours, one time got all the way up to 13 hours and wanted to keep going but needed sleep….. used to hit 6 to 8 a lot but haven’t had that kind of time more recently) to reach the goon and get fairly deep into it before I just can’t resist the urge to cum for another moment.

    I think it is an experience every man should try at least once in their life. I like to use a prostate massager when I know I have time for full out deep goon sessions, but that is of course optional. Another fun option is to do this stoned. Of course the most fun option comes from combining the two lol. Every so often I will also use poppers, but not every time. Sometimes they are just too much for me but used just every few sessions they are nice. Just don’t overdo them or you’ll get a nasty headache.

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  • October 26, 2016 at 3:44 am
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    Wanted to add to my other post: KEGELS!!! Practice kegels at every available opportunity. Hell you can practice them while driving, sitting at the computer, watching TV, and nobody will even notice. Trust me though, the stronger your PC muscles are, the better everything will be when it comes to your own sexual pleasure. Do these exercises (along with fully mastering advanced edging, if not gooning) will also make sex with a partner so much more rewarding for both of you.

    I’ve been doing kegels for years and my PC muscles are strong to the point that I can keep them flexed 10+ seconds easily, and having those strong muscles will make maintaining control so much easier and will heighten your blissful pleasure at the moment of release.

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