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There’s a mystery local bater near me

Submitted by Steve

So I finally got my stickers and pin and got them on my car last Monday. Leaving work on Wednesday; I find a note on my windshield that said ‘Great sticker, I have one too. We’ll have to get together and see what kind of fun we can work out.’ No contact info or hint who the fellow bater is. Guess I’ll just have to wait for him to contact me again.

Who is in the Jacksonville FL area?

Hi Steve,

This sounds a lot like when we get submissions to the blog and they never leave any information about themselves or how other bators can get in touch with them ๐Ÿ™‚

I guess they either overlooked leaving details or want to be a bit of a tease, either way it’s great to see the stickers working for you. Hopefully they’ll see this and leave a comment.

Keep us updated!

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2 thoughts on “There’s a mystery local bater near me

  • April 4, 2019 at 8:52 pm

    sounds mysterious and exciting. Keep us informed ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • April 5, 2019 at 6:39 am

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