Wanking with an exhibitionist buddy

Submitted by Str8DickFan

I’ve only had one experience wanking with another guy, actually it was a few times over a few days, but I still think about it a lot and it always gets me hard. It happened a few years ago with a guy I worked with. I was 27 and just started working for a fire system company. I’d been there for a few weeks when I was assigned a three-day job in London with another guy, I’ll call him Jim. We just had to go and check out the system and take notes for a new contract.

I’d never worked with him before but we got along okay. I was looking forward to it. I was a bit nervous about being around him for several days because he seemed a bit crazy. I’m pretty chilled out but he always had wild stories about nights out with his mates and that made me a bit nervous.

We knew we could get most of the work done in a day and have two days to just chill out, but that probably meant he’d want to go out clubbing or something.

As soon as we got to the room I was on my laptop and looking through our schedule and checklist. We had a few meetings with the maintenance team to get to all the places we needed to be but for most of the first day there was nothing scheduled.

Jim went straight for the shower.

I think I was being a bit of a suck-up. I wanted to get everything done exactly right and impress the boss but I knew Jim was just there to have a good time and do the bare minimum.

He was probably in there for about fifteen minutes and we were talking back and forth about the plan for the day and the meeting we had that afternoon and then he came back into the room with his dick swinging. He wasn’t just chubby he was properly hard. It was a pretty big cock too, maybe 7 inches and circumcised.

I’m not a prude. I work out, I’m not shy about my body. I used to play football when I was younger so I’m used to nudity and the occasional semi, but I tried to divert my eyes while he stood at the end of my bed drying his hair with his cock pointing right at me and waving about. I don’t know if he was really an exhibitionist or just didn’t have any shame at all in front of other men but I think it might have been a bit of both.

I was talking about the meetings we had the next day and he was trying to divert the conversation to going to a strip club on Hackney road. I’d never been to one before but I’d thought about it a few times and it seemed like a good opportunity. My girlfriend would have freaked out if she’d known about it but Jim was married so I knew he wouldn’t be blabbing to the lads at work about it. Everyone knew each other and it would have got back to her eventually.

I joked along with him and said yeah maybe we could if we got everything done in time and then he started talking about an adult cinema he’d heard about in Soho. He started telling me about another one he’d been to years ago in France and he got really graphic about it, telling me he’d watched a girl sucking a guy and him and a few of the other customers had all gathered around and wanked off watching them.

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All this time he was just standing there totally bollock naked with his cock rock hard. He got animated about it while he was describing the scene, grabbing his cock and wanking it while he told me every detail, even the cum shots. I never thought about this before but I think he liked seeing the guys cumming because he specifically told me about his cum shot and the three other guys who shot their loads over the floor while the guy getting sucked was giving his girlfriend a facial.

I was stiff by this point but I needed a shower before we did anything else and while I didn’t want to get my hard one out for him to see I didn’t want him to think I was a pussy. When I took my boxers off my cock sprang up. He saw it straight away and made a joke about me getting stiff looking forward to some pussy at the cinema. I didn’t know what it was that got me hard. I think maybe it was just the sight of his cock but I didn’t say anything and just went to have my shower.

I thought about having a wank in the shower but then he came into the bathroom to take a piss and he was still talking about the cinema and about other places his mates had been to in London. I’ve read some stories from other guys here and I wondered if he did all this deliberately to get me wanking with him but I don’t think he did, I think he was just genuinely one of those guys who doesn’t give a fuck about it.

So I didn’t have a wank in the shower, the moment passed and when I came out of the bathroom my dick was semi, but I found Jim on the bed wanking and watching porn on the laptop.

Within a second my cock was raging hard again. lol

This was the first time that trip we wanked together. I was too horny not to and seeing the porn he was watching I was soon sitting on the bed and stroking it next to him. He was still talking, first it was about the porn, then it was about an ex girlfriend, then about a threesome he’d had with her and one of his mates from his last job. He was asking me about my craziest experiences and I didn’t have any, he told me we had to fix that and make sure we had a good time. I didn’t know what he meant but I assumed he planned to get us into a porn cinema somewhere or maybe call up a hooker or something.

We were wanking for about ten minutes and there was a lot of side-eye, checking out each other’s dicks. I was looking at his cock a lot and I knew he was watching mine. We only talked about our dicks and compared for a minute, he told me he was circumcised by choice because he used to have a really tight foreskin and he couldn’t slide it back. He admired my foreskin and said he wished he still had one, but one that actually worked lol

Eventually he grabbed the towel and laid it out on the bed between us and after a few more strokes he got up to kneel over it. I was already close and I knew as soon as he started jizzing I would probably be cumming too so I knelt on the other side of it. We were facing each other and looking down when his cock started splashing cum out over the towel and my dick started pumping it out too. We shot a lot of cum. I don’t usually cum a big mess but I did that day. He shot a spurt right between my legs and missed the towel and started laughing threatening to hit me with his cum. He didn’t, but I almost hit his hand with a spurt but got my cum on his leg instead. I don’t think he noticed it, or if he did he didn’t say anything.

It’s hard to explain how much fun it was to be able to cum like that in front of another man and see another dick firing off right in front of me. I’d never thought about any of that before but I guess it makes sense. When I watch porn I usually cum when the guy in the video does so I think maybe we’re kind of programmed to like the sight of a dick finishing.

I’ve read other guys say how awkward it was after they wanked with a mate for the first time but for me it was easy. We squeezed the last of our cum out and then just cleaned up and chilled out naked for an hour before doing a little recon around the hotel and going to our meeting.

I didn’t think much about it after we did it, but I was actually looking forward to what Jim had planned for the rest of the trip. For the rest of the day he kept checking his phone looking for the best places to go. It was like he was on a mission to get me into trouble.

So that was the first time I ever wanked with another guy but we had a few more wanks over the next couple of days. Mostly it was the same situation back in the hotel room. That night we wanked again, had another tug in the morning, did the same that night…

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We did go to a strip club for about an hour but it was boring as shit and we left to go and watch porn. We tried to find the adult cinema one of his mates had texted to him but it was closed when we got there.

We did have a wank in the toilets of a gay pub so if you want to know about that one too I’ll write it.

I haven’t wanked with any other guys since then but I’m here reading the blog and love the experiences from other guys. I think I’m like most of the guys here, I’m mostly straight (married now) but I love wanking and I like the look of a good cock and seeing a guy enjoying his. I think about what it would be like to give a guy a hand job and frot dicks and all that kind of stuff but I’ve never had the opportunity.

I’m getting my BuddyBate pin and some stickers this week. I’ve thought about it for a while and while I don’t know what I would do if another guy just came up to me at work or in the pub or something and suggested we go and have a wank but I would probably be down for it. I’m also curious about what the logo looks like. I wonder if any of my mates have one and I just don’t know it.

I don’t know where Jim is now or what he’s doing but I do sometimes wonder if he’s reading this blog and one day I’ll see a post from him about that work trip. Back then I probably wouldn’t have thought about him being a “bator” like this (I didn’t know this was a thing), but now I’ve read so many stories from other guys here he fits that attitude to a tee and it wouldn’t surprise me if he’s already a member of a circle jerk club somewhere.

Thanks for reading my experience. I didn’t think it would be this long but it’s pretty horny writing about it. 🙂

EDITOR NOTE: The second part of this story can be found here.

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