Was My Buddy A Bator Bro?

Submitted By JosephT93

When I was 19 I had a good mate I used to hang out with all the time and I think he was a bator, like he would probably be a part of this community and probably wanked with other guys without me knowing it.

I didn’t discover my own curiosity and love of wanking with other guys until I was 32 and got in a threesome with a mate and his girlfriend and we wanked each other, but when I started to think about the guys I knew back then Freddy really stands out as the kind of guy I would probably be frotting and shooting off loads with now.

I wish I had worked it all out back then.

He was always showing off his cock. Every few weeks there would be some kind of display. Sometimes he would just show up at the urinal and flash his hard one, other times he suggested watching porn and wanking (I never took him up on it, stupidly). Mostly it was just him getting his cock out to piss or just look for somewhere to wank it. He was always hard. I saw his cock loads of times (we were good mates and we saw each other naked a lot, it wasn’t a big deal) and I think I only saw him actually soft once. Sometimes he was semi-hard, other times he was proper stiff and wet.

He was the kind of guy who would show his hardon and swing it around laughing.

One time we were fishing and he was talking about this girl he fucked that weekend and he just got his dick out and started rubbing it. I even saw him shoot his cum over the ground. He pointed his dick and squirted out a big load in the grass.

I guess he was trying to get me into it and I never even considered it was a thing. I just didn’t put two and two together. He was straight and had a girlfriend but she was mostly inspiration or an excuse to wank. He would tell me about what they got up to and half way through it would just say “Fuck now I need a wank” and get his dick out.

Most of the time I would find something else to do. I would joke about it and laugh at him but he didn’t care. Sometimes I told him to go and wank in the bathroom or something. I know I wasn’t the only one of his mates who saw him wank and I suppose he probably did wank with some of our other mates, I just never knew about it.

Our friend Martin was probably one of them. I think he was probably bisexual. I didn’t work that out until later either but he was the big muscle boy always going to the gym and one time a gay guy complimented him at the park and offered him a blow job and for the next week Martin was talking about how he should have gone with him and got sucked. He even said he would have sucked him back “if he had to” lol

I remember one time when we went to the cinema with our girlfriends and Freddy disappeared so I went to find him. I passed a guy coming out of the toilets at the end of the corridor and when I went in Freddy was standing there wanking his cock. It never even occurred to me that he might have been showing the other guy his dick. I didn’t work this out until years later and I think he was probably rubbing dicks with that guy or at least putting on a show to try to get him into it.

I definitely missed out on a lot of bator fun with Freddy. If BuddyBate was a thing back then and I knew guys could just enjoy wanking like that I would have been so into it. I’ve wanked with loads of guys since and frotting is one of my favourite things to do but I definitely regret not getting my dick out with him and learning about all this years ago.

I’m wondering what he’s doing now and if he’s wanking with guys. I know he moved away so there’s no chance of me accidentally meeting up with him for a mutual wank but I do think about it. he had such a fucking nice cock!

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