What you can do to keep the bate fun going while we’re all in quarantine

It sucks, doesn’t it? If you’re like me and enjoy meeting up with friends for some good masturbation you’re probably feeling quite isolated right now. I’ll be honest, just the thought of feeling another hard dick in my hand is enough to almost have me unloading.

It’s an inconvenience, really, considering the terrible things so many other people are dealing with right now, but even though we all get why we need to be sitting at home twiddling our thumbs it doesn’t stop the boredom and frustration. There’s only so much porn you can watch and wank to before you start feeling the itch to get out there and grab another stiff one.

We don’t know how long this is going to go on for, but there is light at the end of the tunnel and one day (hopefully sooner rather than later) we’ll all be back out there looking to share some good times.

In the meantime, I’ve been trying to think of ways we can keep the fun going and prepare for our rediscovered freedom when the war has been won and we can all return to our regular scheduled programming. Take a look at these suggestions and see what you think.

Camming, obviously.

This is a no-brainer. There are plenty of services out there where you can get on your cam and find other guys to share your quarantine strokes with. If you have buddies you usually meet up with you’ve probably already taken your jack off sessions online, watching porn together and sharing your bate. It’s a good time to find other local guys to cam with, too, in preparation for when you can meet in person. Don’t forget that we have the personals section. If you’re looking for local guys to share masturbation with you could start out with camming, get to know each other in the next few weeks and finally meet up when this is all over.

Planning your first time

I’ve been hearing privately from a few readers over the last couple weeks saying they feel like they’ve been wasting time and this has been a wake-up call for them. It is a frustrating reality in this community that a lot of guys really want to explore this with other men, but when it comes down to it they’re just too nervous about the prospect of actually meeting. We have a lot of readers who come here out of curiosity, never having experienced shared masturbation with other guys, and this period of global drama has given them the kick up the ass they needed to start planning things for when this is over. Some are already looking into joining existing masturbation clubs, one is planning to start his own club and is out there looking for local guys on forums, tube sites and communities like ours, another is looking into the men’s clubs (saunas, spas etc) in his city to see which he’s going to visit for the first time. If you’ve been holding back on exploring things there’s a good chance these few weeks have give you that determination to just get out there and live a little, keep that energy going and when the time comes don’t hesitate. As mentioned above, now is a good time to start making online connections with other guys in your town/city, ready for when you get back out there, you’d be surprised how much easier it is to meet up for real when you’ve already been communicating online and getting to know each other.

Location scouting

We have a large contingent of outdoor bators in the community, guys who like to go camping or hiking and fully take advantage of the privacy of the wilderness, either alone or with a buddy or two. Why not use this time to search Google maps for discreet and interesting locations around your town or city? It goes without saying that any outdoor bating should be done away from accidental viewers, but there are plenty of possibilities where you are, you just need to look for those discreet spots away from unsuspecting eyes. By the time this is over you could have a hundred new locations to visit and check out giving you an ongoing adventure to last a year or more. You never know what kind of amazing spots you might find, places where you might be able to safely invite others – like the characters in our story Bateman’s Gully.

Share your stories!

We all know you have your stories of past exploits, whether it was the time you jacked off in a men’s room in college or the time you got into your first circle jerk with a couple of buddies after a few drinks. We regularly receive amazing boner-inducing submissions from readers but we understand that some of you either never had the time to write yours down or you weren’t sure if you could. You don’t need to be a professional author to share your experiences, and it doesn’t matter if you think your experience is similar to someone else’s, we would love to read them on the blog. If you have an experience you want to share with our community just hit the Contact page and submit it. We recommend writing your post in a file or notes app before copying and pasting it into the box for submission, just so you know you have it in case your connection drops or there’s a time out on the page.

Practice your craft

Being such avid masturbators we’re sure you all know plenty of tips and tricks to make your stroke sessions a little more interesting. You might be an advanced bator and capable of all kinds of horny things while you’re jacking it, but there’s always something new to learn and explore. If you’ve never tried edging before, give that a go, see how long you can last in a session. If you’ve never tried our tips for increasing your cum load, now is the time to really buckle down and see what you can achieve. If you’ve been thinking about trying a new toy, some lube or experimenting with a dildo or cock rings our friends at BlokeToys are still shipping awesome products around the world (let’s be honest, if you can’t treat yourself to a new masturbator in the middle of a fucking pandemic, when can you? lol) See what you can learn about your own pleasure while you’re at home with time on your hands and maybe you’ll surprise a buddy with it when this is all over.

Start building your club

We know there are a lot of you out there who would love for there to be a masturbation club in your town or city. Someone needs to get the ball rolling and that could be you. It’s not as stressful or difficult as you might at first think. Most of the time all you need to do is find those local guys and offer them a time and place. Once you’ve achieved that first meeting it’s not difficult at all to keep it going. You’d be surprised just how many men there are in your area seeking this kind of friendly community. Click here to find our advice for starting your own club. It’s just a guide, but there’s a lot of information there. Although you can’t meet up yet, you’ve got the opportunity to build a group of guys for when you can. Once this is over and you’ve got something planned, let us know so we can publish it and start directing other local interested guys to your new community. By the time this is all over and we’re back to venturing out again you could have a great group of guys desperately eager to meet up for the first gathering, all you’d need to do then is give them the time and place. Can you imagine how awesome that first party would be?

Support your local community

There are adult community spaces all around the world. Saunas and spas, adult cinemas, bate clubs and more, and they might need your help through this period. Whether you’ve been there before or you want them to be there for your first visit when you can finally get out there again, please consider helping them out if possible. Many might have membership options you can sign up for now, that extra income might be enough to just help them keep the space for when this is over. Of course, most of you have friends, family and neighbors to look out for during this time, but if you can help an adult venue or club with an extra membership ready for when you get out there again, please do.

Join our club!

Finally, it’s time for a little self-promotion 🙂

You probably know about the BuddyBate project. This is our own little merch collection and participating in it is a great way to help us weather this storm, while joining our community and showing off your interest locally for other guys. You might not be able to show off your BuddyBate pin at the gym or bars right now, but you could get yours ready for when you get back out there. We have our special discreet logo on stickers of several sizes (for your gym water bottle, shower gel, your phone, laptop, beside your front door, your car etc) and standard button badges and pins (for your ball cap, jacket, work bag etc). They’re a great way to subtly show off for those in the know that you’re down to have fun with your dicks in your hands. We’ve already shipped thousands upon thousands all around the world, and we have those locations on the map. Maybe there are already plenty of guys in your area, or perhaps you’ll be the first to get the ball rolling in your town or city? Check out the map and get yours, ready for when you can get out there and show them off 🙂

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If you have any ideas for how guys can keep the bate fun going while we’re all chilling out at home please leave a comment. We’ll get through this, and when it’s time to get out there and start living life to the full again let’s make sure it’s a wild time full of friendly encounters with each other!