Would you join a male sauna/spa for a jack off club?
One of the biggest problems guys have when it comes to finding or creating a men’s jack off club in their city or town is finding the space to enjoy it. A lot of events take place in private homes, but that’s not always possible, and you have other things to consider like parking and pissing off your neighbors.
That’s why earlier this year we created the Meet-Up section of the website, listing local saunas and spas where men can go to either explore encounters or arrange with others to meet for a specific purpose.
These venues used to be called “gay saunas”, but almost all of them have dropped that demographic angle now, realizing that men of all kinds go to these places for various reasons. They’re also expanding and becoming more interesting than they have been in the past. It’s no longer just about finding a random guy to get a private booth with. Many of them hold events, most have porn-viewing facilities either in private rooms or open shared spaces, even fully-equipped gyms are being added to a lot of these private clubs.
In essence, they used to be grimy places where gay or bi guys went to hook up, but they’re becoming all-male private health clubs for all kinds of men. The one thing they all have in common is that none of the guys who visit them are going to report you for jacking off in the showers 🙂
We think they’re a great option for men in our community, especially those who want to start a club but don’t have the venue for it.
So, that brings me to this new poll…
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I’ve always enjoyed working my cock with like minded friends and taking turns handling one another. Fortunately I’ve been blessed with a strong libido and prefer groups for afternoon sessions. We used to have an organized group here in Fort Lauderdale but, it fell apart several years ago.
hell yeah being a chronic masturbator it would be awesome!!!!
Living in a small town in north central Arizona limits possibilities, would look forward to any such meeting places.
Definately! I am DESPERATELY seeking a jack off buddy in Greenville South Carolina but no luck yet. Help! Anybody can email me!
If it was not far away and discreet in everyway possible… I would totally go.
Have attended the Melbourne Wankers Club a couple of times. They meet at a sauna once a month. Great fun. Just a bunch of nude guys wanking themselves and each other. It’s so hot getting someone else off, then having another guy wank you off.
Just finding out that the Melbourne Wankers Club exists (I’m in Sydney) is the closest I’ve ever come to realising that particular fantasy. That and the one friend who I used to jack it with – but then he lost interest, and well there ya go.
It’s a weird sort of situation: nearly all of us are heaps keen, but due to our various reasons (which, with sympathy, I suspect are pretty much the same in the end, including myself) we find it so difficult to actually meet up.
Or is that just me and the scarcity of True Blue Wankaroos in this city?
There are bator groups all over the world, and there must be one in Sydney too. A lot of the time they’re informal and not publicized, because they can become extremely popular very quickly and most are hosted in a private home unable to accommodate such a large group. We’ve also sent hundreds of BuddyBate buttons and stickers to guys in Sydney already, so they are out there.
Of course, millions of men attend these events globally, that’s proven by the popularity of events like the London Jack Off Club, which just recently added a second date every month because the 100 tickets sell out so quickly. I have little doubt their second date will be just as popular and it’ll probably bring even more men into the scene.
I think it might seem as though most guys don’t actually meet up with others because they’re the stories you hear about most. We publish experiences from our bators here, mainly because we wanted to try to balance things out and share some positive stories. You know what they say about reviews and such, it’s always far easier for people to complain than share their positive experience. I think that applies to this community too, a lot of guys will leave comments saying they can’t find a buddy, but how many of them have actually tried? And how many men don’t post when they’ve successfully found a new buddy to stroke with?
Having said that, a lot of guys are just too nervous to actually push themselves into experiencing it. There’s nothing we can do about that but share experiences which might encourage them to step out of their comfort zone and give it a try. I’m sure you know as well as I do that once a guy does go for it and experience that first shared bate, they’ll be back for more 🙂
Good luck finding a buddy. We all know they’re out there, you just need to step out and look for them.
I’d love a convenient, safe place to crank out a load and watch like minded buddies do the same. Small town Western Pennsylvania doesn’t seem to support this. Maybe because of the influx of Chinese Massage Parlors. They’re everywhere.
Where at in pa I live near pgh.
I hear you Pumpboy03…small towns and even some larger places all over the US are like yours…
I’m also desperately wanting a safe place to meet and explore with like-minded guys.
I’d love to find a place in western NY
Would love to find group of dads around ft worth Tx bate sessions where everybody helps each other bate not wanting anything or expecting anything more but wouldn’t be opposed to watching hot suck an fuck session
I have been going to saunas in Paris for years now and is the best and safest way to jack off and suck off if possible. I haven’t seen any buddybate buttons on guys where I work and I’m desperate to dump regular loads with like minded men. If anyone reading this can help a guy out let’s set up a bate club soon
Our jack off club met at one for a long, long time. It was great, really, for exactly the reason you pointed out: No one is going to report you for jacking off – more likely they’ll join in.
This is why we created the Meet-Up section, there’s a venue like that in almost every major town or city so there’s really no excuse for guys not to create their own club. All you need to do is set the time and date and guys can just show up and participate. I’m quite sure that the venues themselves would participate in hosting a club like that because it brings them revenue on potentially quiet days. I really don’t understand why more venues don’t create these club events themselves, they’re clearly very popular.
I’m in Quebec city in Canada and it’s hard to find a jack off buddy here. I’ve never found one. On hookup sites they’re more interrested in sex, i just want to jerk off with a bro or a daddy.
We have a nice clean and modern sauna here in Houston called Club Houston which one can join for a small membership fee. It started out first as a gay bathhouse but has evolved into more of a meeting place for all types of guys who enjoy bating with other like-minded men. They have just spent a bunch of bucks remodeling the place and it is really first class with a new steam room perfect for bating events. They also have a beautiful outdoor pool and outdoor hot tub. You often see guys lying around the pool wanking away on the chaise lounges. I encourage any Houston area baters to give this place a try.
I’ve never been to one but if there was a bate club being hosted at a sauna where I live I would be there in a heartbeat. Just the thought of that masculine space with all kinds of men just enjoying their cocks together gets me hard.
There is a sauna in northwich, Cheshire here in the UK. I emailed about them setting one up but never got a reply. Would be an awesome idea!
Yes, I would join a sauna stroking group! I love the idea of a couple of guys in a sauna watching each other stroking themselves and exploring stroking each other’s cocks!
paul
Love saunas, love the opportunities to enjoy one naked—far easier in Europe than in the US (where I have seen guys go in still wearing all their workout clothes—seriously, dude?). To be in a sauna and let things take a natural course would be great.
I would gladly join in on a mutual stroking session at a sauna! It would be awesome fun to be watched stroking myself and watching others stroking themselves!
paul
Crazy how there isn’t one in Vegas. On this list anyways