I’m too nervous about wanking with a mate
Submitted by Mack in Durham
I’ve always been into wanking a lot. I used to wank with a mate when I was younger and I really want to do that again. I have a good mate who I know would be into it. He’s pretty much admitted to me before that he’s into shared wanks and I know he’s had some wanks with other mates in the past too.
The problem is that I’m so fucking nervous about it I can’t do it.
We’ve come close to it a couple of times before and we watched porn once and all I could think about was getting my cock out, but I didn’t do it. My heart starts pounding and all I can think about is what if I go soft.
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I’m not a pussy. I’m not shy about my cock. I work out and I have no problem getting my cock out in the showers at the gym. He’s seen my cock before and I’ve seen his. But for some reason when it comes to getting my dick out and wanking with him I just get way too fucking nervous about it.
I’ve thought about this for a couple of years now and I really want to have that experience again and properly appreciate it, more than I did when I was younger with my other mate. That was all just about wanking and cumming as quickly as possible. This time I really want to enjoy it.
We’re meeting up for a weekend trip in a couple of months something we do every year. I really want to have a good wank with him but I don’t know how to get over this nervousness.
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Everyone is nervous the first time. Once you break the ice and get those cocks out and start enjoying yourself it all becomes pretty natural and comfortable very quickly, and extremely horny too of course! You’ll get there. Stop worrying about things and just live life how you want to live it.
I used to be the same as you. I wanked with a mate when I was younger and then when I had the chance to get my cock out with my best mate last year I was too fucking nervous about it. I got over it though and now we wank over porn a couple of times a month. You just need to get used to getting your cocks out. I did it by getting changed in front of him, showering at the gym, flashing it getting ready to go out. He was never shy about his dick and I just started being the same. Eventually we were gaming at my flat one night and we started looking at tube sites and that was it we both got our cocks out and started wanking. The nest morning we wanked again. A couple of weeks later I crashed at his place and we wanked again a couple of times. Now it’s just normal for us to share some wanking when we’re hanging out with just the two of us!
I was nervous about it too when I started wanking with my best mate. It gets easier and you probably wont have any probs at all when you do it. Me and my mate are both straight but we both love wanking and after a few times of seeing each others cocks at the gym we got used to it and then seeing each other hard was easy too. These days its not a big deal at all and we just have a lot of fun frotting and making each other cum.
Been years since I started out with a buddy and his cock was about 5 inches. He had a nice dick though. I was nervous my first time too but after 30 seconds of stroking that first dick I knew it was fucking awesome.
I used to be pretty nervous about it. The first time I did it with my best mate my heart was pounding so hard. It was the best thing I ever did though. We had a great time and had loads of great wanks since then. We started wanking each other off last year and it’s great being able to grab another cock and have a mate wank you off too. It’s not a big deal for us now. We both really look forward to it and we have a great time watching porn and firing off cum loads.
Every guy is nervous about it the first time. I remember the first time I wanked with my best mate and my heart was racing. My cock was so rock hard though and seeing his big veiny dick all wet with pre and his long foreskin sliding back and forth over his helmet almost got me cumming straight away. The second time was a lot easier. Then the third time we agreed to wank each other. Since then the nerves are totally done and now we just have a great time wanking each other off and firing some of the biggest cum loads. Just do it and you’ll see how good it is and you won’t be nervous about it after the first time.