Advice for small town bators
Submitted by JOBudRJ
Brad, The BuddyBate Buttons and Stickers sure are a great success! I’ve enJOyed watching the Map truly EXPLODE here in the States with Buddies all over the place! I love that the buttons and stickers are working, and reading about guys telling their experiences.
So far, I’m still the only one on the map in this small town, but I expected that. It’s typical; very small towns get the news last. The nearest one on the map is over 50 miles away, and the next one is over 100 miles.
To help spread the news I’ve decided to print out a few small cards with, “Grab a Button & Get on the Map! – BuddyBate.com” and strategically place them where guys can find them. You might want to consider mentioning something like this in the newsletter from time to time to help other guys living in smaller communities. Thanks! – RJ
Thanks RJ!
It really has been a remarkable thing. When we had the idea to start this we thought it would just be a nice way to help fund the site and maybe get a few guys meeting each other out there in the world. We imagined we might get a few success stories from major cities like LA or London, but when guys in smaller towns all over the place started ordering them we knew it could be a lot bigger.
I guess it makes sense. If a town has an 18+ male population of a couple of thousand, it’s logical that at least a couple of hundred guys in the area would be interested in jerking with other guys.
The only problem is finding them. How many of them go looking? How many are on social media? How many are likely to find us or know about this little project of ours?
We have been thinking about how we could improve the prospects for guys in smaller towns and cities, and we actually had something similar before. Years ago, we got a lot of new readers when someone in Manchester (UK) decided to make their own cards with the site name on them, leaving them in pub toilets and at the gym. A lot of guys messaged us saying they found the site that way and wondered where they could get cards or stickers to leave around.
We’re going to create something in the coming days to help guys in small towns spread the word. If anyone has any tips that we might not have considered, please leave a comment below and let us know.
Enjoyed this post? Please leave a comment below and say thanks to reader Jake for sharing his experience. Join our NEWSLETTER for weekly updates, and why not send us your own experiences of bating with buddies, your fantasies, or just your opinions on male sexuality? Visit the CONTACT page to share your own story.
 |
 |
 |
|---|
Pampa TX here and no buttons in my town. I know there are other guys here into it. Two years ago I jacked off with a guy in the men’s room at a bar and if I knew about this back then I would have given him a card or something.
If you design some cards we can download I’ll print some out and leave them in men’s rooms around town. I’ll do anything to let other guys here know about it. I want to jack off with a buddy again so bad!
Small town bator here. Nearest on the map is way too far away. I know there must be other bators around but not having any luck finding them. I think I have to make some cards too and leave them in rest rooms around town and at work. Good idea!
there are plenty of bators in Chicago already but the cards are a good idea and I’m gonna do that anyway.
I know there are a lot of guys that ‘bate’ here in Jacksonville, FL. It seems to be thing to pound one out in public in my area. I can’t even begin to count the number of times I’ve walked into the restroom at work and caught a guy jerking at the urinals or hidden in the stalls stroking one out. Thank God for bright overhead lights and the shadows they cast on floors. Love the idea of having a downloadable template that we could print out and leave in places that other guys would find. I’m sure the BuddyBate site would get quite a few hits and several new members that would love to have someone to ‘Bate’ with.