Fairly new to Ft. Myers, Florida, looking for bate buds

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Hey guys my name is Joe and I moved to Ft. Myers 3 years ago. I am a straight/semi curious 48 year old happily married man with a great sex life and a very high libido. The days of drugs and heavy partying are over for me and am disease free. You must be too. I haven’t been with anyone else in the 26 years we have been married. I am looking for a friend or friends close to my age in a similar situation that are local to me. I would love to become friendly with 4 or 5 guys and have a big circle jerk on a monthly basis but will settle for one JO bud since they are not easy to come by as I’m sure your aware. If we all became friends we could have a much better chance of our schedules lining up with one or two guys if we all can’t rub out. This would obviously have to be on the DL. It has to appear that we are just friends with something in common other than jerking off that will be believable to the wife.

I am 5’10” 230 lbs with a linebacker/dad body. I am about 6.5” cut, somewhat thick and well manicured down there. Would prefer you to be well groomed as well. I am open to jerking off, frotting and stroking each other. I am into prostate play but that is nothing I want to have done to me by anyone other than my wife. I prefer to fuck my own ass, lol. I am ok if you put a butt plug in because chances are mine will be in too. I also love to wear cock rings and edge for at least an hour minimum. I am very open to having you cum on my cock so I can use it as lube to finish and I will do the same if asked. I do not find men attractive but something about a big cock leaking precum and squirting ropes gets me so turned on. With that said there still has to be an attraction and connection. The perfect age range for me would be 30-55 years old in a similar situation to what I listed above but there is some wiggle room in the upper and lower end on the age. It really depends on the cock and the guy attached to it. I would prefer you to be married for discretionary reasons but it isn’t a deal breaker. I could be somewhat flexible in what I am lookin for in a buddy but that all depends on the connection. I listed my hard limits but if any of that is to far for you I will be very respectful and do everything I can to make you comfortable. If your just into watching pornography and touching yourself that would be ok too. We can take it slow and see where it leads.

This was something I did with a cousin and a few friends when pussy was scarce but that ended when I got married. Never thought I would get so turned on at the thought of it but I do. I always thought I did it because of lack of pussy but thinking of it is making me hard now and it’s something I have thought about for a few years now and am ready to take it further than fantasy. As a teenager if I wasn’t getting laid everyday I considered myself lacking in pussy. Guess I liked it more than I thought. I am very comfortable in my sexuality and think that if someone likes something that makes them feel good than they shouldn’t feel any shame in that regardless of what society thinks. I even told my wife about what I did when I was younger and it was kind of liberating.

I like to watch straight, mutual jerk off and frotting porn while I edge. I really am into homemade porn and have quite a collection of me and my wife. I will only share them if I feel it’s right and will remain discreet. As of late I have been fantasizing about sharing my wife with another guy. We fantasize about it in bed with some big dildos. I think she does it mostly for me but has admitted that she gets hot when I take her 8” dildo out of her wet pussy and frot with it. She knows that I want to mess around with another guy and she is supportive in fantasy land and only there. I don’t think I could ever do it in real life. We can talk about it as well while stroking but that’s as far as I want that to go. It’s a fantasy and that’s it. I have no problem if you told me what you would do to her while I watched, how you would fuck her and eat her. Hopefully you will have some vids to share too. Don’t like high production porn. It has to be real. I love watching people orgasm mostly woman but I do enjoy a big hard cock shooting off. I don’t want to watch fake sex. I am open to everything masturbating and if there is something your not comfortable with then I will be respectful. I am not looking for a one time thing but a friend or friends on a regular basis. I would like to meet somewhere public and get to know each other first. I am willing to stroke the day we meet but there has to be a connection. Not really interested in the car thing for fear of getting arrested. I would rather spend the $100 for a room even if it’s for just a few hours. I’m even open to outdoor play. The beach or a secluded wooded area.

I work away from home for 28 days at a time and come home for 14. I am a sea going captain of a large tug boat. So I am free to do it anytime in those days providing I have an excuse to get out. My wife does work a few days a week so I can accommodate sometimes. I do have a very secluded heated pool at my house that I could entertain on certain weekdays but there is never a set schedule . The wife doesn’t know if she has to go into the office until Sunday of that week and that is subject to change the night before she has to go in. We do have tracking on our phones so I know where she is at all times which is nice so we don’t have to fear her catching me with your cock in my hand. Lol Wouldn’t it be great to have a few guys over swimming nude, sunbathing and everyone stroking themselves and each other? Once we make a connection I might be open to FaceTime sessions while I am away.

If this is something that you may be interested in my handle is Joemoe14 on Reddit and Quora and I will check this more often after it is up. There are some great JO bud pages on Reddit that I check out daily. I’m not on Quora as much. Hit me up and let’s start squirting cum everywhere. Once we make first contact we can share emails and numbers. What ever makes you comfortable. Hopefully the first time we are set to meet my stickers and pin

will be in by then and you can use them to pick me out in a crowd. Happy stroking and I am looking forward to meeting one of you but hopefully it will be a few friends.

Almost forgot I am 420 friendly. Nothing better than cumming high. If your not that’s cool too.

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