First Time ‘Bate
Submitted by Derek
On a distant website somewhere in the past, another fellow and I struck up an online convo, traded some pics, and enjoyed the interaction for at least a month.
Turns out he would be traveling to a nearby city on business and suggested we get together for a stroke session.
I’d never considered such a thing, but the more I thought about it I thought, “Hey, okay.”
On his next trip we met at his hotel, broke the ice, and whipped out our interests in porn. I was a bit nervous, this being a new experience for me, but he was cool, and all went well. His porn and mine were different to each other, but exciting to ramp up to. The chitchat was cool and the session was exciting.
As stated, I was nervous going in, everyone has their own comfort level, and this was an experience in a safe place that I’d do again. I didn’t know ‘bating between guys was a thing. Now I know and look forward to another session.
Hi Derek
Thanks for your experience.
I’ve been into this for years and we’ve had various incarnations of the group and site, so I know how common it actually is for guys to jack off together. It seems that for most guys it starts out accidentally, just a horny moment between buddies watching porn, but from my experience all those who do it tend to want to continue to share their bate.
There’s definitely something about sharing masturbation with other guys that makes it different to other sexual encounters. It all depends on the guys involved, but for a lot of guys it’s about camaraderie and friendship.
I’m glad you had a good time, I hope you’ll let us know the next time you share an experience with another bate buddy! If you haven’t considered it yet, I’d suggest maybe getting a couple of BuddyBate buttons and stickers you can show off and maybe find new buddies in your area. They’re very subtle and don’t give anything away to anyone who doesn’t already have their own.
Keep stroking!
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