I Found A New Bator Bro With A BuddyBate Pin!
Submitted by Lance
I got my BuddyBate buttons, stickers and lapel pins the second they came out. I got a T-shirt this year too. I already had a few buddies to j/o with so it wasn’t out of necessity I just wanted to find a few new cocks to jack. Been thinking about starting a club but need a few more bators and a location before I can do that.
It finally happened last week. I found another guy with a BuddyBate pin on his ball cap. I wasn’t wearing any of mine so it was luck that I noticed his.
I was at a bar having drinks with a friend and this guy was sitting at the next table with a couple of buddies. I had to be real careful because I didn’t want to out him to his buddies.
I waited until he went inside and followed him. I never really thought about what I would say to break the ice but I just walked up beside him and said I liked the pin on his cap and said I should have worn my T-shirt.
That’s literally all we needed. We shook hands and introduced ourselves and then he said he was with a couple buddies and we should swap numbers.
We’ve met up twice already and had shot some good loads together. He’s an experienced bator and he has a couple other buddies he jacks with. We’re already talking about getting everyone together for a bate party!
Some of my buddies are just into DIY jerking so it’s been great to find another bro who likes to frot and edge. He’s real good at it. It was so hard to last the first time but we jacked each other for 20 minutes, shot our loads together, then we jacked again and got a second round.
He’s got a great cock. He gets super hard and drips a lot of pre. We don’t even need lube because we get so wet rubbing dicks together.
I really liked the idea of the BuddyBate button project when it started but I wasn’t sure it would work. I’m glad to say that it’s finally worked for me and I’m looking forward to loads of j/o sessions with him and his buddies. I think we have about 6 guys who are all down to frot and help a bro out with his dick so it should be awesome when we all get the chance to meet up for a party.
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Damm man, glad that worked out for you. Wish i knew where to find you.
London has been pretty great for me and finding bators. I started back in the 90s when public toilets were always busy with wankers looking for other dicks to play with. Found three new wank mates in the last few years just with buddybate merch. Mostly in pubs but one in the toilets at Euston.
Thanks Lance, for relating this experience. It’s a perfect example of how simple and easy it is to make connections without anyone else ever knowing. Just think; a really small pin/button, the size of a US 5-cent nickel, was all it took for your entire experience, which also turned into even more experiences, and just because you noticed it on a guy’s ball cap.
“I like the pin on your cap, I should have worn my T-shirt.” – THAT’S Pure Gold!
(A suggestion for guys who are apprehensive about displaying your pin on your ball cap… place it in the back of your cap on the adjusting-strap. Most people will just assume it’s part of the cap. However, your BuddyBate Bros will certainly notice it!)