Met my first wank mate at the gym

Submitted by Austin

Long time reader here who never wanked with a mate before finding this site. I read all the posts every week and come back all the time to see what experiences other guys have had but for a long time I didn’t think I would get into actually wanking with a mate until two months ago.

I’ve dipped my toe in a few times. I downloaded Grindr once and chatted to a local gay guy who was open to just watching porn and wanking but then he started talking about sucking my cock and I abandoned the plan.

I saw a few personals from guys around Sydney and followed a couple of them on twitter and tumblr but never got the balls to message them.

When the BuddyBate button project started I got a pack just so I knew what they looked like. I hoped one of my mates might have one but I didn’t see any. Then I read about the guy who found a wank mate at work with a sticker on his laptop and I decided to put one on my water bottle for the gym. I guessed no one would know what it was anyway but at least I was trying to put myself out there.

I forgot it was on there after a week and then a guy at the gym came over to me and said “nice sticker I’ve got one on my car”.

I was nervous about it but he was real chilled out and I just went with it. We went for a drink and talked about things and he told me he wanks with a couple of his mates. He said he’s bi but just into wanking with guys.

My dick was hard the whole time and I knew it was the perfect opportunity to just give it a go and see what it was like. I think the drink helped.

We went to his place and he found a porno to watch and we got our cocks out. I thought I might be too nervous to stay hard but my dick was raging and I shot my load after five minutes and he started cumming at the same time. After seeing each other cum it wasn’t weird like I thought it would be. We talked about movies and the gym for a while and then I went home and had another wank.

We met up again three days later and this time we really took things slow and we compared our cocks and talked about things more. I lasted half an hour and he finished first which made me cum. It’s amazing seeing another cock unload like that right beside you. I always thought it would be awesome to see it and share it with another guy like that but as soon as I see that first splash up his chest my cock is ready to finish.

I think we’re becoming proper mates. We go to the gym together a few times a week and we usually finish it with a wank at his place.

It’s been awesome so thanks for getting me out there and inspiring me into action.

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Hi Austin!

This is amazing, thank you for sharing your experience with us. It’s what we planned when we started the BuddyBate project, just an easy and fun way for guys with the same interest to find each other.

We thought it would take time for enough guys to have stickers and buttons to make it worthwhile but we’ve heard from all kinds of guys who’ve found other lads to wank with.

Even if guys aren’t wearing their pins and buttons or showing off their stickers they can at least know what they’re looking for and maybe find an opportunity, although we do recommend guys actually show theirs otherwise it makes it all pointless lol

We know there are all kinds of bators out there, but the bare minimum is that a lot of guys like the friendship that comes from being so open about something we all do.

Whether you’re into hand jobs, frotting, circle jerks, or just kicking back with a mate and having a good wank of your own dick while you watch porn or something, there’s a mate out there for everyone.

Keep us updated!

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