Only jerked off with two buddies and want more experiences

Submitted by Ulrich in Bakersfield, CA

The first guy I jerked off with was my roommate in college. It wasn’t a big deal and we used to share lube and porn. There was no contact between us but we would just watch porn and each stroke ourselves. I did think about what it would be like to jerk each other off but it just wasn’t one of those situations. He was very straight while I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m probably bi and I just never really thought about it much then.

It was a lot of fun and we still mention it sometimes. We get together a couple times a year for parties or reunions and things like that and he’s not ashamed to bring it up in front of friends. It’s funny and we even found out a lot of our other male friends had experiences very similar to ours.

It was probably two years before I did it again with anyone else. I moved to LA for a new job and became friends with a group of guys who I found out were bate buddies. One of the guys I was closest to was very open about it and told me about their parties where several of them watched porn and jerked off. He told me their parties started after a bachelor party with a stripper got out of control and one of them was caught fucking her in the bathroom so the other guys watched and jerked off.

I wasn’t confident enough to go to any of the parties even though he invited me but I told him about jerking off with my roommate in college and he said that was how he started with friends although he was in a fraternity.

We started jerking off together almost straight away. I thought it would just be like it was with my roommate, watching porn and cumming, but he grabbed my cock and started jerking me off so I took hold of his and returned the favor.

I’d never done anything like that before but his dick felt amazing in my hand and my cock got so hard. I didn’t last very long that first time and he made me cum pretty quickly. Then I jerked him off for another minute or two and made him cum.

Funny thing was we were both ready to cum again half an hour later and we lasted longer that time.

We jerked off together a lot after that. There was a lot of mutual stroking and loads of frotting. We bought a toy we could both get our dicks inside but we didn’t use that a lot because it made us both cum too quickly.

It lasted for about eight months before I lost my job and had to move for another opportunity. I’m not too far away from him and we talk about meeting up and jerking off again but we just never seem to get around to it. Whenever there’s a social event or something either his wife or my girlfriend is there so we can’t really make the time to rub dicks.

Now I’m looking for bate buddies closer to me and I got some BuddyBate buttons and stickers yesterday so hopefully they’ll help me find a couple of guys to enjoy more bating with. I’m definitely more interested in the party idea now too.

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