Proper Wank With New Work Buddy

Submitted by idontwearhats

I wrote in this past July with an experience I had with a buddy I made at my new job (https://buddybate.com/new-work-buddy). He is pretty new to the idea of wanks with a mate, but has some other cock kinks that made him curious. He’s mostly straight and I’m openly bi. We had a few fun wank sessions in one of the work bathrooms where we would sit in a stall next to each other and peek around the divider from time to time to see what we are up to. Because he’s new to having a bate buddy, I wanted him to lead the experience and do what made him feel comfortable, so I wasn’t about to rush anything. I was just chuffed to have anyone to share my bate with even if it wasn’t the most ideal experience at first.

Over the next couple months we began sharing some some dick pics and stories over text and I found out he’s also into watching more cock porn than I thought: self-sucking, self-fucking (this looks painful, but it’s admittedly kinda hot), and also FTM hardcore – which is something I’ve gotten into over the last year or so as well.

Fast forward to this past week in October and both my partner and his wife ended up being out of town at the same time, so he came over to hang out one night. We did the usual of playing some video games, ordering in some food, drinking plenty of whiskey, and had some good chats. As the evening went on and it began to get a bit late, I thought he was about to head out but instead he turned our conversation in a different direction.

It came out pretty quick that he was thinking about having a wank all night but wasn’t quite sure how to start it. We talked about things like expectations, boundaries, and more about our individual kinks. I told him more about Buddy Bate here and even showed him the site, and took him through some of my favorite recent experiences you all have shared. He couldn’t believe there are so many dudes that are just into kicking back and watching some porn with a bro – sharing or not sharing their cocks. After we chatted a bit more about some of the experiences he found interesting he said, “How would we even start?” I playfully suggested, “show me yours and I’ll show you mine.” He chuckled and said, “I’m going to take a piss – put on some porn.” I gladly did.

When he came back we went through my different playlists on one of the porn sites I frequent and he was surprised at my wide range of tastes. We went through some hot straight hardcore, some buddy bate and frot porn, and then I asked him to show me more of what he’s into. As we began watching some hot self-suck videos we found, I said, “count of 3?” And, on the third count, down came our pants and out popped our cocks.

I had seen his cock before in some of the pics he shared with me, but it’s always a bit different seeing it in person. He’s about five inches, thin but not too thin, but was rock solid. Nice cock all around. I’m a good 8 inches and pretty thick. We’re both cut, but I have just enough of my foreskin left that I jerk like I’m uncut. He became a bit fascinated with that, asking me how that happened (who knows!? lol) and watching how I stroke my dick. After a minute or so he said, “okay, you are right, getting our dicks out did make it less awkward.”

We sat there for a while, stroking our cocks next to each other on the couch – asking questions about where we bate, what feels good, some other experiences we’ve had and the like. We were watching each other stroke our dicks, and I noticed that he kept stopping every so often. I was pretty sure he was about to explode any second.

After landing on a hot FTM video, he nudged a bit closer and said, “wanna swap?” I took my dick and the base and pointed it toward him and he took over and I saw some more precum leak from his swollen head. He had never handled a cock as big as mine, and had no idea how to stroke a dude that has some foreskin, so I positioned his hand lower on my shaft, his index finger right below my head, and showed him how to wank me while sliding my foreskin over my head and massaging my glans at the same time. This got him really into it. He has a similar cock to my partner, so I was able to get a good rhythm with him immediately. He was a precum fountain after that, and I took each opportunity to massage his head and wet his cock with his pre.

After about five minutes of slow strokes, as I knew he could shoot any second, he said, “man, I keep holding back – this is all new to me so I’m pretty turned on right now.” I told him, “dude, it’s okay, shoot your load and I won’t be far off.” After I said that he let himself go. Within less than 20 seconds he threw his head back and his dick began shooting off thick ropes of cum all up his torso and eventually all over my hand and arm. I was encouraging him as those thick jets shot up his abs. As he came he tightened his grip on my cock and kept pumping harder. There was so much cum, and he was throbbing, twitching, and convulsing from the energy from the explosive orgasm. Finally, when he was good, I let myself go and shot a huge load up my abs, on my chest, and all over his hand. Not as much as his load, but plenty enough.

We sat there in that perfect afterglow after a good wank, massaging each others dicks for a bit – our cocks all lubed up from our ocean of cum. When we got up to wash off he said, “that was incredible.” I playfully said, “Dude, don’t ghost me now that I’ve made you cum.” He said, “Oh, not a chance!” lol.

Since we work together we see each other often, and things haven’t been awkward at all. Very thankful for that as he’s become a good mate. In the days since we’ve shared some more pics over text and I even sent him a picture of my attempts at self-sucking (I used to be able to when I was younger, and can still now – but it takes a bit more work these days, lol). We haven’t set up a time to revisit our experience yet, but I’m sure I’ll be back here to share some more stories when it inevitably does happen.

There isn’t anything like making a buddy cum and there is something very different about sharing your bate with your mate compared to a romantic encounter. I hope more dudes get a chance to have a bate bud. Sharing something “private” like masturbation with another dude isn’t just horny, it’s a freeing and natural feeling when it finally does happen.

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