I Really Want To Jack My Hung Buddy

Submitted by Riley

I really want to jack my hung buddy but I don’t think he’s down for mutual. I don’t think he’s down for a hand job either.

We’re both married men in our 40s. We’re neighbors and we’ve been bating together for 3 years. We started in lockdown when we kind of isolated together.

I converted the basement into a game room/den and he started coming over for beers and porn. Obviously we started jacking off.

He’s real relaxed about that. He’s was into sports in college and he works out. So he’s one of those guys who isn’t shy. I’m a little less fit and a lot less hung but it just kind of worked.

He’s got a fucking awesome cock. I never thought about touching another dick before I saw his but reading all the stories here really got me into thinking about it. I really want to see what his big dick feels like in my hand. The thought of making him nut gets me so fucking horny.

I don’t know how big it is and I know size isn’t everything but his has to be almost 9 inches.

All we do is shoot the shit and stroke it to porn and then we shoot off our loads and clean up. Our bate sessions last about an hour. We always cum together and shoot a lot. We do watch each other. It’s not just buddies checking out each other’s progress I can tell he likes seeing my cock splashing it out. We talked about our cocks are few times and I joked about his dick being so big.

It’s a great time and it’s real relaxed but I can’t stop thinking about jacking him off and making him nut.

So I guess I’m asking how I should ask about it.

I’m sure he doesn’t know anything about BuddyBate. I got stickers and and a lapel pin and he never mentioned it and I think he would have worked it out if he knew about this site.

Thanks for any advice.

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Hi Riley,

Thanks for submitting this.

Guys are just into different things. I’ve met loads of guys who are only down to watch porn and stroke their own. Then there are guys who only want to be wanked and don’t want to return the favor. Other guys are down for full-on circle jerks and frotting with a bunch of dudes at once.

It’s hard to tell what a guy is into and a lot of guys won’t volunteer that information, at least not with friends they bate with. If there’s one thing I’ve learned through my bating history it’s that you can never judge a book by its cover. Some of the guys I never thought looked like they would be down to even touch another dick turn out to be full-on bate fiends who love to frot and jack ten different cocks in a session lol

Without asking your hung buddy if he wants a hand you’re probably not going to know if it’s an option.

If that’s a little too much to just blurt out then maybe you could try engaging him in some bator games and see if that relaxes things more. You could try cum shot contests, to see who can shoot the furthest. Maybe try an edging competition to see who can last the longest. If you want to be a bit more daring you could look for some bi-curious MMF porn to watch, where the guys touch dicks? There’s not a whole lot of it out there and it can be hard to find, but a movie like that could at least start the conversation.

Chances are your hung buddy has at least thought about it.

If he’s not down for it just appreciate the friendship you have. It’s great sharing this masculine hobby with other guys regardless of whether you’re rubbing each other. Remember, you can always look for other local guys who are openly into it. There will be some other guys in your area who are down to frot and exchange hand jobs it’s just a matter of finding them.

Please let us know how it goes 🙂

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