Our Bate Club Has Grown To Eleven Guys!

Submitted by Jacker7

Since my first post back in March 2019 when I had my first mutual bate with another guy things have developed. I never thought there would be a bator scene here in Wichita but there is!

When this all started I was just a horny guy who loved to jack it and had a little curiosity about jacking it with other guys and now I’m meeting up with five or six really great guys most times.

A lot has happened since then but the bate continued. During the pandemic we moved our meetings online and had a bunch of cam sessions with each other but we just started meeting up again and it’s been awesome meeting the new guys properly and handling so many great cocks.

When all this started we got up to five horny jackers meeting to watch porn, jack it, frot and help each other out. Then the pandemic hit.

I thought everything might slow down and stop but since then our group has grown to eleven bators! We’re still not a formal club and there’s a couple guys I haven’t met yet but I’m looking forward to getting together with everyone and having a big bator party.

Most of these guys were found thanks to BuddyBate buttons, stickers and pins. One of the guys in our group runs food deliveries and in the pandemic he found two guys who had stickers by their doors. Another member of our group saw one of the pins on his buddy’s ball cap at work and got him into the club. The latest new guy found another guy because he had a sticker on his truck.

All the guys in the club have got pins and stuff now but we’ve worked out from the map there’s probably a couple other guys we haven’t found yet.

The only down side is it’s getting harder to have meetups. We used a motel a few times and there’s a couple good outdoor areas we can go but if we want to get all the guys together we’re gonna have to work something out.

I still can’t believe how awesome it’s been. When this all started I was just a horny guy who loved to jack it and had a little curiosity about jacking it with other guys and now I’m meeting up with five or six really great guys most times. I’ve met some great friends and being able to kick back with our dicks in our hands – and each others – makes that even more fun.

It’s a great mix of guys. We have three gay guys, two bisexual guys and the rest are straight/curious/open. The thing is none of that matters because we’re all there for the same reason and that’s to enjoy our bate and appreciate the pleasure of slippery hands on hard dongs! 🙂

I admit when this all started I worried that some guys in the scene might expect more than just some good cock rubbing but so far it’s been fine and everyone is into it on the same level.

I’ve thought about making this a formal club, none of the other guys want to take on the responsibility of it but I like the idea. I’m just worried that there might be too many guys. If the estimate is right and there’s 14,000 other guys here probably into it if only 1% of them want to get involved that’s 140+ guys and where the fuck do we all go for a party? lol

It would be awesome, having 140 hard cocks all being jacked. Gets me hard just thinking about it.

Thanks for helping us out building the group! I think posting my experience back then really boosted interest here in Wichita. Maybe this one will do the same?

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Hi Jacker7,

Thanks for getting in touch again!

It’s great reading about your group. I’m so glad you’ve found so many like-minded guys to enjoy your hobby with and it’s awesome that we’ve had a hand in making it happen – excuse the pun lol

It’s definitely true that our little site has helped to build local clubs. We’ve heard from groups in all kinds of places who’ve grown their memberships because of posting here letting other local bators know about them. There’s so few places where guys can find out about their local communities (without charge) so knowing we’ve helped guys explore their masturbation and find new buddies to enjoy it with is great and makes it all worthwhile.

This seems like a good time to mention that if anyone else wants to grow their local bator community we’d be happy to publish something. We’re always taking submissions for content via the contact page so if you’re out there reading this and you want to get other guys interested in your bator club in Oklahoma, Colorado, Ottawa, Ireland, Istanbul, Tokyo or anywhere else, just submit something worthy of posting. You can describe the kind of club you want to start, your experiences with other local bators, or anything really. You’d be surprised how many local guys will find it and might want to get involved!

Thanks again Jacker7, I hope you’ll keep in touch and let us know how it goes in the future.

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